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Anyone have a theory of what this is about? I may have a couple myself. Let me first illustrate what I mean with an example from real life. I have found that this type of situation is very common but I'm not sure hoe to interpret it or how a guy should act in such a situation.
The example:
New years dinner with some people. A 21 year old semi hot girl is there with her new boyfriend. Conversation at the table shifts to some Jason Momoa movie. Suddenly the girl says "Jason Momoa is so ****ing hot, I would jump on him even if my boyfriend was in the same room with me!". An awkward silence ensued. I found out later they had an argument about this on their way home.
Now, as I have said I have witnessed this many times and also been on the receiving end on this. One time a girlfriend said "I could never be in a relationship with a rock star. They get laid so much I wouldn't be able to sleep at night". Which is an implicit but very clear statement that she didn't perceive me to have a lot of options with women.
Now, what drives a woman to say stuff like this? Is it a form of test, or is it just an indicator that she perceives her own boyfriend to be a low smv beta provider? Furthermore, how do you think guys should act in such a situation? Personally I think the guy at the dinner should just have gotten up and left.
I find it interesting to think about what motivates girls to act so disrespectful and also if they only do it to beta guys or if it is more of some kind of test that they also do to alpha guys.
The example:
New years dinner with some people. A 21 year old semi hot girl is there with her new boyfriend. Conversation at the table shifts to some Jason Momoa movie. Suddenly the girl says "Jason Momoa is so ****ing hot, I would jump on him even if my boyfriend was in the same room with me!". An awkward silence ensued. I found out later they had an argument about this on their way home.
Now, as I have said I have witnessed this many times and also been on the receiving end on this. One time a girlfriend said "I could never be in a relationship with a rock star. They get laid so much I wouldn't be able to sleep at night". Which is an implicit but very clear statement that she didn't perceive me to have a lot of options with women.
Now, what drives a woman to say stuff like this? Is it a form of test, or is it just an indicator that she perceives her own boyfriend to be a low smv beta provider? Furthermore, how do you think guys should act in such a situation? Personally I think the guy at the dinner should just have gotten up and left.
I find it interesting to think about what motivates girls to act so disrespectful and also if they only do it to beta guys or if it is more of some kind of test that they also do to alpha guys.