Alright, this is gonna be a long, annoying nitpick, but bear with me because there are some important distinctions that shouldn't be glossed over:
Your thinking is binary. That is part of the problem. It is not a question of right or wrong. Life simply isn't that black and white in matters of relationship. It's not a one size fits all thing. It's a question of what suits a particular individual's situation.
I get what you’re saying, but you have to actually explain what those grey areas are, not just say that they exist. You believe my thinking is binary when in reality I just note specificities.
I said nothing whatsoever about social media.
But I did. And I did so for a reason. Social media artificially inflates people's sense of self-worth, especially women; because it is not a true social interaction, however, it leads to no real viable/concrete results. That's one of the reasons why every girl has low self esteem and major narcissistic issues (amongst other things).
I don't do OLD. Never needed to. And I'm also not a big user of social media. A little, but nothing unusual. My last post on FB frankly was a photo of me and my ex BF out together last weekend. In a photo HE wanted taken and a post HE wanted me to post (probably as a way of discouraging other men, duh) but nevertheless it was a nice photo and so I posted it.
Humblebrag.
Great female partners always have many options in whatever environment they are in.
No. They are more reserved, and are not as boisterous as most modern American women are lol. That's why they tend to have less options—they're not looking for attention.
I'll give you an example: I had a group assignment with this one girl who was in a class of mine over the summer. She was small, petite, flat, and had a shorter haircut, (not a pixie cut, around shoulder length, perhaps slightly shorter). She had glasses and a chipped tooth, and her voice was like a nerdy nasally person. Nothing in the looks department,, maybe a 5 but only because she's at her prime lol. But her demeanor was extremely feminine, and how she talked about things (in her nerdier sounding voice) was very feminine too. Not just that, but the way she looked at you was just 3lkuvhtuiohfop[3qjf4hy2.
And I didn't notice at first either. It was only over the course of the class and in working with her that I noticed that. The thing is, the attraction I felt towards her is different than the attraction I'd feel towards a chick at the gym doing butt exercises. It was like a 'come here, you' kinda thing where you just want to hold them, compared to the average American hoe who you just wanna leave a load in and walk away cuz that's the type of girl American women strive to be like lol.
But the girl I talked to? She didn't have many options. How could she? She's too reserved, isn't that good looking (no offense to her; she does happen to be one of the most beautiful girls I've ever met on the inside though), and doesn't engage in mainstream media like how most other retards do lol
I come across these types of women around once every 1-2 years. And this is Chicago. I can't imagine how it's like in less populated places that have been corrupted by mainstream media.
For you at your age you should be in the prime of life when you are getting exposure to such women.
My age group is at the turning point of the generation. For the men, my age and up are the last generations to have strong men in them, and that's not saying much either because there aren't many strong men to begin with. You might find a few every once in a while with dudes born in the year 2000, but it's so much more rare than it already is. Not just that, but there are MAJOR paradigm shifts between 2000-01 babies and 02-03 babies. They just believe in different movements, have COMPLETELY different ways of thinking, it's unprecedented. Even my sister who is still in high school noted this.
Pretty much every person younger than 20 smokes weed or at the very least vapes (which will lead to weed) and then from there other drugs too). The women aren't faring much better, they're just the same. Though I did notice that the religious/conservative ones are either completely denouncing/in the stages before denouncing faith in favor of debauchery, or are more religious/conservative than people older. This will be interesting to see how it plays out in the next several years. Due to current international events, I don't think I'll be able get married until 27/28. In terms of attractiveness, I'd say I'm decent. I can range from a 4 (when I just don't give af) to a 9 (when things are well). Personality-wise? I've done more internal work than most people with therapists will ever do. It's one of the reasons why I've found the words to explain all of this, rather than just saying 'womyn bad, men gud' lol. In terms of romantics? I can outdo any "blue pill" man you've ever met without being weak (or 'losing frame' as the guys here would put it). I've accidentally broken hearts this way, trust me. And as for my ability to walk away or to even get hurt? Better than even you. God made me this way.
I've never been raped in my life. But the fact that this is the language you chose is interesting. It's a silly thing to say in my opinion.
I wasn't referencing you tbh. I chose this example on purpose because all of the postmodernist neo-marxist leftist liberal progressive extremists would call it victim blaming. Rape is a funny example because regret 30 years later is now considered rape for some reason hahaha
The avatar is in fact me. Not my daughter (they are only 11 and 14), but thank you. Obviously you find the woman in the avatar youthful and attractive.
Hahahaha
If that is you, congrats because that would mean you are attractive for your age.
My skepticism comes from why someone over the age of 30 would be included in a photoshoot with a pose like that with those clothes—this is to indicate sex appeal, which is targeted to a younger audience. Modeling companies will hardly look at anyone over the age of 30, and by 40 you are obsolete, unless you are modeling for an agency that explicitly collects older people. Otherwise, you'd expected already made it in the film industry (because let's just face it, modeling is just a stepping-stone for acting lol). But 50? That's unheard of.
What is interesting is how this seems to bother you. What I look like and my life experience doesn't fit into your beliefs about women or the world. You react poorly to having your core beliefs challenged. The fact that I exist as I do challenges your beliefs. That is the reason for the tone of your contributions to this thread. This is obvious to many readers, not just me.
Rather than expand your belief system based on objective fact you'd rather invalidate what doesn't agree with your set of assumptions. Objective truth is simply tossed aside in favor of your assumptions, and that is exactly why I started this thread.
This is such a narcissistic way of looking at it. You assume that your experiences are "objective fact" because they 'challenge' my beliefs? Babe, even you know that sounds crazy.
Defaulting to assumption rather than acceptance of fact is what will bog down your progress in life. Thanks for illustrating.
Crystallized intelligence vs fluid intelligence. As a young person, I am more willing to be wrong and experience failure than an older person. So, as science would have it, you're wrong.
