Betabuxxing women, gold diggers. How to counter them with the business I own?

[biggoal]

If you saw my posts on here I run into a lot of women on OLD who want to betabuxx, ask questions about career, income, etc. Like I get replies from high end HB chicks like 7 or above for example and these chicks ask me what type of business I own I tell them it's a retail business that sells mobile phone stuff. Anyway when I'm on a date or talking to them I've had them ghost me when I'm holding conversations with them it goes well until I tell them the business I own and they think I'm poor and don't make enough money when I tell them I sell phone cases. Remember I had an HB9.5 date I was on who drove 60 miles and the date was going pretty well until half way in I told her the type of business I own and it went south immediately with her rolling her eyes and such then insulting it basically.

How do you handle women when they insult your career or looking to betabuxx you?

 

[candyman105]

It depends. If you can't appeal to women outside of your income, do you have much of a choice? Honestly, I don't give two ****s if they ask. If she is ugly, I next her. If she is pretty, I ignore the topic and her response and move on to another topic.

Just tell her you don't talk about work during your free time and you're golden.

 

[17 shots]

How do you handle women when they insult your career or looking to betabuxx you?

You scratch them off the list and keep pushing

 

[corrector]

How do you handle women when they insult your career or looking to betabuxx you?

You mean after they ghost you? You just ghost them back.

 

[Billtx49]

How do you handle women when they insult your career or looking to betabuxx you?

Everyone including women have expectations for a mate which often includes your career. Some women may not like yours, but if it gets to the point of your experiences and realization that No women like what you do, then find another career if you want women…
I personally don’t think there’s much of a future in selling phone cases unless you’re the largest category name or in the fight for it on Amazon or Ebay …

 

[zekko]

No woman can betabucks you, you can only betabucks yourself.
If it appears a woman is only interested in your money, next her.
If she disrespects you for what you do, next her.
Why would you want any of that in your life?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If you saw my posts on here I run into a lot of women on OLD who want to betabuxx, ask questions about career, income, etc. Like I get replies from high end HB chicks like 7 or above for example and these chicks ask me what type of business I own I tell them it's a retail business that sells mobile phone stuff. Anyway when I'm on a date or talking to them I've had them ghost me when I'm holding conversations with them it goes well until I tell them the business I own and they think I'm poor and don't make enough money when I tell them I sell phone cases. Remember I had an HB9.5 date I was on who drove 60 miles and the date was going pretty well until half way in I told her the type of business I own and it went south immediately with her rolling her eyes and such then insulting it basically.

How do you handle women when they insult your career or looking to betabuxx you?

Why do you feel the need to tell them on a first date? If you feel it's not advantageous to your chances then just don't give them details.

I get the feeling the women aren't dismissing you over this, its just the easiest thing to use. They are dismissing you over social ineptness that you don't even realize is occurring. Which is why you think the dates are going "so well" even as they look for the smallest thing they can find to dismiss you out of hand in their mind.

The problem is not them, its you. But you don't want to admit that. Much easier to blame them than to admit the truth.

 

[biggoal]

Everyone including women have expectations for a mate which often includes your career. Some women may not like yours, but if it gets to the point of your experiences and realization that No women like what you do, then find another career if you want women…
I personally don’t think there’s much of a future in selling phone cases unless you’re the largest category name or in the fight for it on Amazon or Ebay …

If you're in the right fleamarket or mall it's a gold mine. Markup is high. Like a 4.50 otterbox defender style case for the iphone 11 I sell for 20 bucks. Some cases I get for like 1.75 and sell them for 11.

There are 6 cell dealers in my fleamarket. If two of them left my sales probably would go up 25 percent.

Amazon is murdering retail along with walamrt that sells a large selection too and undercuts.

 

[Billtx49]

If you're in the right fleamarket or mall it's a gold mine. Markup is high. Like a 4.50 otterbox defender style case for the iphone 11 I sell for 20 bucks. Some cases I get for like 1.75 and sell them for 11.

There are 6 cell dealers in my fleamarket. If two of them left my sales probably would go up 25 percent.

Amazon is murdering retail along with walamrt that sells a large selection too and undercuts.

When she asks the question, omit the word ’ fleamarket ‘ from your reply.
If you can sell phone cases, you can sell yourself…

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If you're in the right fleamarket or mall it's a gold mine. Markup is high. Like a 4.50 otterbox defender style case for the iphone 11 I sell for 20 bucks. Some cases I get for like 1.75 and sell them for 11.

There are 6 cell dealers in my fleamarket. If two of them left my sales probably would go up 25 percent.

Amazon is murdering retail along with walamrt that sells a large selection too and undercuts.

I mean what's your 401K looking like and your health insurance looking like? You'd have to be selling a hell of a lot of cell phone accessories to make up for the loss of these two things at a job even if you are making equivalent money.

This sounds kind of a like one of these things you do that ends up forcing you to live in your Mom's basement after a while when things go south, how do you not recognize that when you are talking to these women?

 

[Black Widow Void]

"I have a merchant business that involves online marketing. I've been quite fortunate, but ya know... I try not to define myself in terms of my success. Tell me about that necklace that you're wearing."

 

[Black Widow Void]

I mean what's your 401K looking like and your health insurance looking like? You'd have to be selling a hell of a lot of cell phone accessories to make up for the loss of these two things at a job even if you are making equivalent money.

This sounds kind of a like one of these things you do that ends up forcing you to live in your Mom's basement after a while when things go south, how do you not recognize that when you are talking to these women?

BackInTheGame78, I don't think you have a thing to worry about. I suspect that biggoal isn't interested in picking you up.

 

[biggoal]

I mean what's your 401K looking like and your health insurance looking like? You'd have to be selling a hell of a lot of cell phone accessories to make up for the loss of these two things at a job even if you are making equivalent money.

This sounds kind of a like one of these things you do that ends up forcing you to live in your Mom's basement after a while when things go south, how do you not recognize that when you are talking to these women?

I don't have a 401k anymore. All my earnings I just throw into my bank account. Next year I might look into investing. I don't think long term investments. I save my money but when I want something I want it now! Like I'm saving up for a new car I want because my current 2012 Mustang GT is just too old. Also want to get some weight equipment to build my abs up. I buy my own health insurance that's $494 a month.

 

[biggoal]

"I have a merchant business that involves online marketing. I've been quite fortunate, but ya know... I try not to define myself in terms of my success. Tell me about that necklace that you're wearing."

Well, a guy I'm friends with used to be a vendor at the fleamarket selling generic imitations of colognes. Pretty accurate actually. not knock offs because it's not worded like that. Anyway since the fleamarket mostly old people his sales were flat out terrible! Some days he'd do like $5 in sales. I mean bad!

So he quit that because he got a full time job and went to online sales.

He sells the stuff online and makes like $7,000 a month lately in sales now and the markup is high and low overhead because he's selling online.

If I sold online and had a nice website it would make me look good too. They could look at my website.

 

[Black Widow Void]

You buy on line ... and therefor, it's a form of "on line marketing."
We're talking about how you answer the career question when it comes up with women.
You are involved with "on line marketing" and "have been fortunate" but you "would rather not define yourself in terms of your success" then change the subject to something about her.
It's that simple.

 

[biggoal]

You buy on line ... and therefor, it's a form of "on line marketing."
We're talking about how you answer the career question when it comes up with women.
You are involved with "on line marketing" and "have been fortunate" but you "would rather not define yourself in terms of your success" then change the subject to something about her.
It's that simple.

I'm thinking of opening a second location as well. When describing yourself would you state you own two businesses then? Also I'm thinking about making a website. Would that make me look more big shot too if I sell online?

Like on my OLD profile shoudl I state I own two businesses and sell eCommerce? Again would that attract betabuxxing gold diggers though?

 

[Black Widow Void]

I'm thinking of opening a second location as well. When describing yourself would you state you own two businesses then? Also I'm thinking about making a website. Would that make me look more big shot too if I sell online?

Like on my OLD profile shoudl I state I own two businesses and sell eCommerce? Again would that attract betabuxxing gold diggers though?

Above (actually twice and now for a third time) I mentioned that you want to project an image of "not wanting to define yourself in terms of your success." The objective is to avoid giving off the impression that you live at home and run a fleamarket table. The second objective is to sound confident and set the frame that you "make a comfortable living" but this topic is not on your list for current discussion.

I can't make this any clearer. I hope to not receive further alerts that you've quoted my words with additional questions.

 

[biggoal]

Above (actually twice and now for a third time) I mentioned that you want to project an image of "not wanting to define yourself in terms of your success." The objective is to avoid giving off the impression that you live at home and run a fleamarket table. The second objective is to sound confident and set the frame that you "make a comfortable living" but this topic is not on your list for current discussion.

I can't make this any clearer. I hope to not receive further alerts that you've quoted my words with additional questions.

Kiosk, it's a kiosk. I have shelves with my phone cases on it. I have a table with other items on it though. Some of those tables would make thousands a day. Like we have a Chinese guy who use to have like 6 tables and made a killing selling cheap stuff. However the last 5 years the market has gone downhill due to online. Venders would profit over 100k a year at one time selling cheap stuff and only 3 days a week.

So lets say you take home pay was 80k a year owning tables at a fleamarket would a woman look down on that because it's a fleamarket versus a school teacher only making 50 grand a year?? How dumb.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Biggoal, I do not dislike you and I mention this because of what I'm about to say.
After providing you with the same answer (in three different variations; in hopes that one would sink in) I asked to not be further bothered with message alerts (you quoting my words and asking further questions on this matter.)

...And what did you do?

Well, your above posting says it all.

I don't dislike you as a forum member, but in view your repeated violation, I'm putting you on ignore.

Best of luck to you.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

BackInTheGame78, I don't think you have a thing to worry about. I suspect that biggoal isn't interested in picking you up.

Haha, he wouldn't be able to. I'm out of his league