What is the best city for a single guy 28 that is not swimming in money? I do pretty well with women in Los Angeles but the fact that la is a ****hole makes me question if I should spend by prime years here when there are so many other beautiful place.
Best city for good looking guy with average income
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lamath
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In most situation finding women should not be a factor to consider when you are thinking of moving.
Imo
Dont find excuse, assume and be better
LA is a very big city. If your not doing good with women there, moving somewhere else isnt going to fix your problem.
lamath
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Title says differently.
Imo chose city for work not for women specially when younger.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
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lamath
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Holy **** you are right possible title was edited?
Anyway either way my recommendation is find a place where you can make lots of $$ even of its a **** hole, you can move with your pocket full when you are older.
The older you get, the harder pursuing good professional job and the harder it is to.move also.
You're biased and so am I.
The difference between us is that any where I go I thrive while you left not only ur city but ur country because you didn't.
Ain't my fault that you can't.
Ain't my fault that I can.
Of course I'm teaching OP to surpass his limits.....
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There is no best city for men of average income. Average income is average income. If you want to stand out in that department find a way to make more money.
that is the thing, most citys are the same, only change is maybe one ahve a higher number of buildings, but where I live its close to several small town to medium and to the biggest city in my country a hour of car, thing is saving for maybe a fancy building in a noble zone or a better transport system, the diferences are minimum.
only time I question if I should move is when the traffic gets bad, since it was not this bad about 5 years ago, but that is more logistic for me, in the end the cahnges are minimum.
then we come to the main problem, he want to change because woman, and that is never a reason, plus the place is subjetive, some people would love LA some hate, its all about how well you live and waht you preceive as good.
I know US people tend to not create roots till they settle, parents and family in general is not something you guys like to stay close, but changing a city should be based on job and what kind of work you want to do, a high tech job would be easier to land in a big city when in a small it could be non existant, so before he ask anything, he should search for jobs he want to do, and see if they will ahve then, then ask what city town would be better or if he should stay.
note I never would consider woman as a good thing to move or based in any reason for moving
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Some poetry by Cavafy
The City
You said: “I’ll go to another country, go to another shore,
find another city better than this one.
Whatever I try to do is fated to turn out wrong
and my heart lies buried like something dead.
How long can I let my mind moulder in this place?
Wherever I turn, wherever I look,
I see the black ruins of my life, here,
where I’ve spent so many years, wasted them, destroyed them totally.”
You won’t find a new country, won’t find another shore.
This city will always pursue you.
You’ll walk the same streets, grow old
in the same neighborhoods, turn gray in these same houses.
You’ll always end up in this city. Don’t hope for things elsewhere:
there’s no ship for you, there’s no road.
Now that you’ve wasted your life here, in this small corner,
you’ve destroyed it everywhere in the world.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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If you don't care then why bother posting in this thread.
Anyhow if u r projecting ur own dismal experiences with life and expecting others like OP to copy paste it to theirs, that would be sad.
Perhaps it is you who should cut that out.
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LA is a sh!thole and california taxes are insane. I left the state 7 years ago and would have to get paid a very large amount of money to live there again, way over cost of living. I moved to WA and the lack of a state income tax can be felt in the pocket. As an american you have extremely rare luxury of changing what laws you want to live under to your own benefit.
I've also looked at moving because people have dyed their hair purple too often, and drank so much soy that it's screwed with their brains. The weather also sucks for half the year. But this place is so beautiful I can't think of anywhere else I want to move.
Detroit might actually be a good bet at some point in the near future if you can put up with the weather there. And california might even become cheap again when the state finally goes bankrupt.
I've also looked at moving because people have dyed their hair purple too often, and drank so much soy that it's screwed with their brains. The weather also sucks for half the year. But this place is so beautiful I can't think of anywhere else I want to move.
Detroit might actually be a good bet at some point in the near future if you can put up with the weather there. And california might even become cheap again when the state finally goes bankrupt.
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This thread is so random and fvcking useless because of all of the fake alpha male posturing and sh1tposting. At least alvafe posted something useful...
....but part of the problem is how vague your post is. "Not swimming in money" could mean anything. Instead of just calling LA a sh1thole, at least help yourself and others out by offering up a barebones list of traits that you think make a city desirable.
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Ok, so you are not concerned with women desiring you because of your coca cola packet????? Ok, well, tell us what you do for a living?
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
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LA is not a sh!thole, but it's very fake and you need a lot of $$$. I'd say NYC, but it ain't cheap either. The best part of large cities is the ability to meet up at free public events and keep costs down. Add in a cup of coffee (you can buy discounted starbucks gift cards on eBay or raise.com and it doesn't make you look cheap.
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user43770
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It's all relative.
I've been to New York, San Francisco and DC. I thought the people were timid, for the most part, though standoffish. Too stuck in their own bubbles.
Your best bet, in my opinion, is college towns.
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user43770
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Tempe, Phoenix, Austin, Tallahassee, Athens
But that's just related to money going far and getting laid.
If you want to make a lot of money, those aren't necessarily the places to be.
But that's just related to money going far and getting laid.
If you want to make a lot of money, those aren't necessarily the places to be.
RickTheToad
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Dallas TX & San Antonio TX come to mind. Honorable mention to Phoenix AZ.
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user43770
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Yeah, basically any southern college town.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
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