Thats how they rationalize the fact that those men dont want them, their ego cant take the truth.
Thinking about it it seems like the female ego is overall far more fragile. And they often end up beleiving thier own rationalisation.
Might also be a reason for the growing antidepressants use in women
I had a date with a 36 yo woman a few weeks ago. She was probably an 8 by appearance, nothing special. She was CFO of a multi-billion dollar company specializing in organ replication. Big earner and high net worth.
I initially didn’t judge her based on her age or her career, though she was much older than whom I would typically date. I’m an open slate with everyone I meet, at least in the beginning.
First 15 minutes, it physically escalated out of seemly nowhere. Then we got to talking ...
We got into this whole discussion of why men like me typically go for early-mid 20s women when they are women like her who are well educated, established, articulate, and experienced, and so, it would seem to be more compatible with a guy let’s say like me.
Of course, eventually, she attempted to shame me. I was called a sociopath, a commitment phobic, the list went on and on. (Most of it true btw lol). I agreed with all she said because it was true and then she seemed to have a mini meltdown and so I just escalated the fire to see how big it could get.
I never get into these types of retarded convos with young girls in their early to mid 20s because they are not so insecure in their value to care. I can tell a young girl I date xyz girls and she would laugh, not lose herself in a meltdown because she feels unfit.
And that’s my point, younger girls are more fun with less trauma.