Saw a young man (handsome) likely get stood up tonight.

[biggoal]

Well don't know for sure. My mother and I were out to eat tonight and behind us a young man, looked really young like 18 to 21ish was behind us. He was very good looking I mean like on the HB scale if there was one for men was at least an 8 on it. He was in good shape, very good looking. Sits down and said "she should be here" or something like that to the waiter. Anyway after 20 mins he goes out looking for her then comes back. Another 25 minutes passed and he sorta has a dejected look on his face and orders a salad. We left and his date still wasn't there. I dunno if he tried texting her or calling her to see if she was running late. Personally I'd call or text. One of the high end HB dates from OLD I was on was running late once but she told me so I waited of course.

Anyway, I felt bad for the guy in a way. I mean he was really good looking and all and just made me wonder why a girl would flake on someone as good looking as him.

Maybe it was an OLD date but I hardly see any women that young on OLD unless they're ugly trash.

 

[Bokanovsky]

What's the point of this story? Anyone can get stood up.

 

[biggoal]

What's the point of this story? Anyone can get stood up.

True. Just trying to point out how flakey women have become. Even for very good looking guys to get stood up.

 

[biggoal]

Yep. I got stood up, as a young man, by a girl i really liked, and who really liked me. It wasn't the first time we'd been together, and i knew she was getting a lot of pressure to stay away from me(some legit), and that she was starting to hesitate, because of it. Instead of pulling back, i over pursued. She was supposed to meet me at a bar. Nearly an hour after she was supposed to show, the bartender handed me the phone. She had called to tell me she wasn't coming, and why. I was crushed. I never did that, again.

That's cruel. She should have called earlier in the day so you wouldn't have wasted money and drive there. Women complain about can't find "the right guy" but they behave like this. I would never do that to someone and hardly ever hear guys doing that.

Is it me or does it seem the last 10 or so years standing up has got so much worse with OLD now.

I guess this is why many on here suggest meeting in a park or public place or somewhere really low cost for the first date? That way if they flake or it turns into a dud. The one from facebook dating we chat daily and setting something up for Wed but she sounds a bit hesitant on it. That's why I suggested something low cost or no cost at all. I don't put much stock into OLD and don't want to pay $50 in meals again for OLD dates that usually are a bust anyway and no second date.

 

[Jager]

That's cruel. She should have called earlier in the day so you wouldn't have wasted money and drive there. Women complain about can't find "the right guy" but they behave like this. I would never do that to someone and hardly ever hear guys doing that.

Is it me or does it seem the last 10 or so years standing up has got so much worse with OLD now.

I guess this is why many on here suggest meeting in a park or public place or somewhere really low cost for the first date? That way if they flake or it turns into a dud. The one from facebook dating we chat daily and setting something up for Wed but she sounds a bit hesitant on it. That's why I suggested something low cost or no cost at all. I don't put much stock into OLD and don't want to pay $50 in meals again for OLD dates that usually are a bust anyway and no second date.

It wasn’t cruel. It’s reality. @ShePays put a valuable lesson in his comment. This has absolutely nothing to do with what’s right and wrong. Biology doesn’t care about right and wrong. She’s not being evil, she’s being female.

I’ll say it again: she was not being evil. She was following her biology. She was doing exactly what her gender is designed to do.

ShePays accepted responsibility for his mistake in over pursuing and moved on.

The guy you’re talking about in the post probably did the same thing a lot of guys do: be overly nice and supplicate to her to win her affection and attention. He wanted her validation. This is not how you attract and fvck women.

 

[biggoal]

It wasn’t cruel. It’s reality. @ShePays put a valuable lesson in his comment. This has absolutely nothing to do with what’s right and wrong. Biology doesn’t care about right and wrong. She’s not being evil, she’s being female.

I’ll say it again: she was not being evil. She was following her biology. She was doing exactly what her gender is designed to do.

ShePays accepted responsibility for his mistake in over pursuing and moved on.

The guy you’re talking about in the post probably did the same thing a lot of guys do: be overly nice and supplicate to her to win her affection and attention. He wanted her validation. This is not how you attract and fvck women.

That's true. Especially for OLD or texting too much before the first date. With OLD they lose attention FAST so you have to worry about texting enough to keep them interested in the first date. On the other hand there is a fine, very fine line to walk between keeping them interested and over pursing. Like obviously they know you're interested in them for asking them out. Especially with the older, more mature women. I don't want to sound like a horn dog just trying to get in their pants. Like this one will be 40 and I worry a bit she's thinking I'm hitting on her a lot because of her looks trying to impress her. She did make a comment she'd even would date a guy who's not that attractive IF he has a really good personality so that kinda raised an eyebrow maybe I was flirting a bit too much. She seems shy and told me she's an introvert.

 

[derby1]

I’ll say it again: she was not being evil. She was following her biology. She was doing exactly what her gender is designed to do.

what gross misconduct and disrespect?, ....these bitches deserve everything they get , ill tell you what makes it worse, they show show massive high interest right up to the night before the date.......its nauseating,

 

[biggoal]

what gross misconduct and disrespect?, ....these bitches deserve everything they get , ill tell you what makes it worse, they show show massive high interest right up to the night before the date.......its nauseating,

I totally agree. Like they will text your eyeballs off for hours and hours before the date showing interest to the point it interferes with your daily activities. Last two old dates did just that. Spent hours texting me showing high interest. One of them. Even after the date kept texting me only to totally change a few days later .

 

[derby1]

Like they will text your eyeballs off for hours and hours before the date showing interest to the point it interferes with your daily activities

fortunately we all know on here to be on our purpose and not let women rinse us of non sexual attention, but imagine if you were just an everyday guy who didnt know this **** and was just dating with intent to have a relationship youd go bat**** insane, and become a misogynist over night lol

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Bigger mate, you gotta make better use of your time and perspective.

Aaron Clarey posted this on YouTube. Top form smv is a space cadet. Such is life. You add in girl power and can do no wrong, mitigate crateref smv with body positivity and anti slut shame rubbish, women will go full retard.

Buddy who got stood up will pull hotter younger girl. The flake will hit the wall, single mom, get fat.

Enjoy the ride.

 

[lamath]

Bigger mate, you gotta make better use of your time and perspective.

Aaron Clarey posted this on YouTube. Top form smv is a space cadet. Such is life. You add in girl power and can do no wrong, mitigate crateref smv with body positivity and anti slut shame rubbish, women will go full retard.

Buddy who got stood up will pull hotter younger girl. The flake will hit the wall, single mom, get fat.

Enjoy the ride.

Give that guy enough time and theres gonna be a role reversal.
Every ex i have ramdomly cross path again in the last 2-3 years i would not even date now.

 

[MatureDJ]

I can remember a time when women never stood up men. Of course, it was also a time when men picked up the woman, so there was no chance to be stood up.

 

[derby1]

Every ex i have ramdomly cross path again in the last 2-3 years i would not even date now.

This is the realist thing ive heard recently, ive bumped into about 30 women i know this last 1 month some of which are exes, and they have all aged abhorrently awful, one thing that stood out was each and everyone had these unattractive necks with ring lines round them....this is literally the 33-37 yr old age group

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is the realist thing ive heard recently, ive bumped into about 30 women i know this last 1 month some of which are exes, and they have all aged abhorrently awful, one thing that stood out was each and everyone had these unattractive necks with ring lines round them....this is literally the 33-37 yr old age group

Must be all that lying