No one is following you around.
Stop dreaming up stuff that doesn't exist.
No wonder everyone around you somehow ends up being crazy in ur eyes.
New gf I feel like I can’t do enough
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Stop dreaming up stuff that doesn't exist.
No wonder everyone around you somehow ends up being crazy in ur eyes.
It's flattering that you keep tabs on my patterns.
I'm sure there's more guy's who's going to say the same each time I post something that hurts their sensitivity.
A lot of different answers in here. Guys I didnt anything wrong I literally just ****ed this chick and started hanging out with her. She cooked and gave me great sex and even bought me things. She always was cool and did whatever I wanted to do. Things were great I had a submissive badass chick....I didnt even feel like something was off until week 4-5, she started calling me selfish and overreacting to everything. I gave up my other plates for her blocked them all, that’s how sure I was about her.
Because she literally does whatever I tell her in bed and does so many nice things for me I am going out of her way to communicate better but she still ends up getting pissed somehow. Last night when I was at the club and she was blowing up my phone I got pissed and she said
“Your a selfish ******* no girl will ever marry you. Your a disgusting person”
I should also mention she has very bad anxiety. If that has anything to do with it. Every other thing I do is “selfish”
Because she literally does whatever I tell her in bed and does so many nice things for me I am going out of her way to communicate better but she still ends up getting pissed somehow. Last night when I was at the club and she was blowing up my phone I got pissed and she said
“Your a selfish ******* no girl will ever marry you. Your a disgusting person”
I should also mention she has very bad anxiety. If that has anything to do with it. Every other thing I do is “selfish”
lamath
Master Don Juan
Does she admit that those things she does are not acceptable?
Because if she cant this is a clear Next.
Now that she is attach to you and completly in love with you she cant control herself from acting crazy.
Imo this is not gonna change NEXT !
Eh not really. But she has seen where she was wrong before. I remember sitting on the couch a few weeks ago and her going off on a rant calling me selfish and saying I don’t really want to date her. Literally hit me like a freight train this chick literally did whatever I wanted.
She will call me selfish for minuscule things, even when I “try” to go out of my way a little bit lately to accommodate her.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
When I read this post of you, all of my alarm bells are ringing. Regardless what others here have said.
But it also sounds like you give in on her demands and tolerate her bs afterwards, although your concessions towards her...
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I mean I’m a realist. I’m not the easiest guy to deal with and I’ve been selfish in single mode for a while and she really made me feel like a selfish *******. I stopped and looked in the mirror to see if I did anything messed up and felt like I didn’t. I get grumpy with work sometimes but that’s rare I treat her pretty well. The fights are always over me not doing enough or giving her enough attention/calls/texts etc. she wants to see me constantly and I want to hang out with friends once a week on my own and I get called selfish
I mean you tell me...is it selfish expecting a hot chick to sit around treat you like a king while you still have a life, see her 1-2 times a week, take her out to eat on weekends,etc.?
lamath
Master Don Juan
She is trying to gaslight you into thinking you are not treating her well.
Like Rollo said be your own mental point of origine, if you think your are not doing anything wrong you probably are right.
Trust yourself over her and what she is saying.
Ill repeat this is a easy Next.
You are probably not selfish, you are guilt tripped
Yes. She is constantly doing overly nice things for me almost over the top. Buying me **** I never ask for, bringing me things constantly,cooking for me. It’s great but...I would be happier with a girl that let me relax a little and did less for me. She points out all the stuff she does for me and how I don’t do the same for her. Which is true to a degree, but I’ve only known her two months I want to ease into the relationship. I felt like I was married within two months. I tried explaining this to her and she just got hurt from it
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Who here actually thinks psychoanalysis is western medicine?
The worst medical statistics on the planet.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
Her comment is not ok, you do not want to hear that every day or even every week.
As soon as you blocked the competition, her attitude changed.
Some men can't surpass their limits and insists on remaining bottom feeders.
The excuses you give gets more desperate as the days and years go by.
In the end, you're still talking about BPD with some sort of weird pride.
Maybe you feels it's an achievement.
You are writing a thread about this for real? Dump her and get another gf.