How can someone be so cold

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Cut a long story short I text my crush we work in same place different departments now to meet for 5-10 mins to tell her something she said text it

I said I couldn’t it has to be said face to face, she was having none of it either text or she’s not interested.

Weather she’s interested or not how can someone who works in same place not even give you 5-10 mins, I would give anyone my time.

Yes I am moving on and I don’t text her anymore

I wish I didn’t listen to so many people’s advise, before we use to flirt, and be friends (Not close)now she can’t even look at me in a corridor
 

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Cut a long story short I text my crush we work in same place different departments now to meet for 5-10 mins to tell her something she said text it

I said I couldn’t it has to be said face to face, she was having none of it either text or she’s not interested.

Weather she’s interested or not how can someone who works in same place not even give you 5-10 mins, I would give anyone my time.

Yes I am moving on and I don’t text her anymore

I wish I didn’t listen to so many people’s advise, before we use to flirt, and be friends (Not close)now she can’t even look at me in a corridor
Dude thats you coworker. Let them work. Why are you worried about someone whose not worried about you? Find someone new to chat with.
 

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I am 5-10 mins is not asking anything.
It would be anytime there free
What could I have done so bad to talk one last time
 

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I would give anyone my time.

Yes I am moving on and I don’t text her anymore

I wish I didn’t listen to so many people’s advise, before we use to flirt, and be friends (Not close)now she can’t even look at me in a corridor
Its because you are a beta male.

In terms of the big 5 personality traits, you are clearly high in agreeableness and openess. None of which gets *****.

Step your game up kuz.

High in conscientiousness, low in agreeableness.

As for taking advice,most of the cucks giving advice be it here or youtube have never seen a vagina before. Exercise common sense.

Said ***** is dead to you from here on.

If she's hit by a ****ing mack truck 16 wheeler, zero ****s given. Hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day.
Too busy getting more girls and chasing excellence.


#nextset
 

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Cut a long story short I text my crush we work in same place different departments now to meet for 5-10 mins to tell her something she said text it

I said I couldn’t it has to be said face to face, she was having none of it either text or she’s not interested.

Weather she’s interested or not how can someone who works in same place not even give you 5-10 mins, I would give anyone my time.

Yes I am moving on and I don’t text her anymore

I wish I didn’t listen to so many people’s advise, before we use to flirt, and be friends (Not close)now she can’t even look at me in a corridor
She probably knows what you want to talk about and just dont want to deal with it.

This is a clear sign that she is not interested, respect yourself and dont waste any more time on her.
 

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She probably knows what you want to talk about and just dont want to deal with it.

This is a clear sign that she is not interested, respect yourself and dont waste any more time on her.
I didn’t wanna talk about me liking her or anything like that
 

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You are trying to get closure and she knows it , that is a very needy feminine trait. If you don't have something a women wants you don't exist in her reality. Just move on, get her out of your reality. You scream beta nice guy who just needs a little more of her time so you can explain to her how in reality you are the most amazing guy ever. Trust me you are done and need to learn and move on. If you persist with this you are not going to get anywhere with her and you will end up getting fired. I have banged female coworkers at work whilst on the company time, I have grabbed there asses and played with them. They didn't make it difficult for me or report me to the HR department. If she was ever interested that has run its course and you need to move on for your own sake.
 

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I didn’t wanna talk about me liking her or anything like that
Then she is just a self centered biatch, dont make any effor towards her.

Do you really want to have anything to do with someone who does not respect you.
Dont chase a women that act badly, that rewarding her for bad behavior
 

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It doesn't matter what you wanted to talk to her about she doesn't want to talk to you and that is all that matters. For your own good you need to take this as a learning experience and just move on. When you interact with her just be professional and polite.
 

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Cut a long story short I text my crush we work in same place different departments now to meet for 5-10 mins to tell her something she said text it

I said I couldn’t it has to be said face to face, she was having none of it either text or she’s not interested.

Weather she’s interested or not how can someone who works in same place not even give you 5-10 mins, I would give anyone my time.

Yes I am moving on and I don’t text her anymore

I wish I didn’t listen to so many people’s advise, before we use to flirt, and be friends (Not close)now she can’t even look at me in a corridor
Your not really giving us a ton of background to go on here. She obviously isn't interested. You might have weirded her out. She probably knows you like her but she doesn't like you. She doesn't show you any respect. If she did, she would have came and talked to you. If you were friends like you said, maybe you thought you were flirting but she didn't see it that way. Don't be friends with women and don't game on girls in the workplace. Don't shVt where you eat. Move on and game girls outside of work.
 

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Cut a long story short I text my crush we work in same place different departments now to meet for 5-10 mins to tell her something she said text it

I said I couldn’t it has to be said face to face, she was having none of it either text or she’s not interested.

Weather she’s interested or not how can someone who works in same place not even give you 5-10 mins, I would give anyone my time.

Yes I am moving on and I don’t text her anymore

I wish I didn’t listen to so many people’s advise, before we use to flirt, and be friends (Not close)now she can’t even look at me in a corridor
Dude. DON'T DATE LADIES AT WORK! You are only asking for trouble.
 

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I’ve talked to her plenty of times since she moved department.all normal conversations
 

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Weather she’s interested or not how can someone who works in same place not even give you 5-10 mins, I would give anyone my time.
A 6’3 black guy wants to see alone downstairs in the mailroom for 5-10 mins, you would say “OK”?
 

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A 6’3 black guy wants to see alone downstairs in the mailroom for 5-10 mins, you would say “OK”?
No but I’ve talked to her plenty of times before
And it could have been on her desk in the canteen anywhere where theses kids of people
 

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Cut a long story short I text my crush we work in same place different departments now to meet for 5-10 mins to tell her something she said text it

I said I couldn’t it has to be said face to face, she was having none of it either text or she’s not interested.

Weather she’s interested or not how can someone who works in same place not even give you 5-10 mins, I would give anyone my time.

Yes I am moving on and I don’t text her anymore

I wish I didn’t listen to so many people’s advise, before we use to flirt, and be friends (Not close)now she can’t even look at me in a corridor
Buy a bunch of roses and have it sent to her work table, make sure everyone of her colleagues takes note.

Also hire a singer to sing her love ballads, make sure you time it exactly as when the roses arrive.

Then get on ur knees, promising ur devotion to her godliness.

I guarantee you, she will not come to work the next day unless HR takes action against you.
 

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@Spaz you sir are obviously not a gentleman and oblivious as to the art of tactful seduction and romance. What this situation obviously calls for is the old duel airbags strategy. Let me explain he should send a romantically tasteful text that says "Yo baby girl lets meet up in the parking lot so I can slam my fat hairy man nuts on your chin". I think this will absolutely change this situation for the better.
 

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@Spaz you sir are obviously not a gentleman and oblivious as to the art of tactful seduction and romance. What this situation obviously calls for is the old duel airbags strategy. Let me explain he should send a romantically tasteful text that says "Yo baby girl lets meet up in the parking lot so I can slam my fat hairy man nuts on your chin". I think this will absolutely change this situation for the better.
You got me good buddy.

I'll defer to ur wisdom in this matter.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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