Smartone84
Senior Don Juan
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Hey guys, first time long time. Back with another tale about, you guessed it, a lunatic chick.
Met online, pretty damn hot, I'd say HB7. But my type close to a T. Super feminist. Mysogynistic this, mysogynistic that, Trump talk, women's rights, the whole nine. (Lives in Brooklyn, go figure). That all being said, I knew pretty much from the start me and this girl weren't a match at all. Not that I'm Republican, but just bc I could never ever see myself with a girl like that long term/having kids, etc. The chick was looney, but fun to be around and talk about normal stuff when it came to it. Fyi she was living at home temporarily after her roommate moved out.
Throughout the first 3 dates which spanned over the course of 2 months, it was like pulling teeth to get this girl to respond to texts about going out again, to GET her out again, and just to get her to chat a bit in general. Not that i'm a big texter by any means in between dates, but there was just a 'hard to get vibe' going on with me wondering if I would ever even be able to hit it as that is what this came down to in my mind. Finally, after the 4th date something happened. We had a great time, and literally the next day it began. NONSTOP texting from her on a daily basis. Asking how my day was, what i'm up to, what i'm WEARING to work, etc. It felt like i was back in the 11th grade texting some chick that liked me. Not only that, but it became painfully obvious that she was 100% into me as in some sort of switch was turned on and she was INTO me. Flirty talk got taken to another level.
So I finally want to get her to my place for the 5th date to f-ck close but she tells me she promises to do that the NEXT time but just wants me to come by her one more time (previous dates we met either near her or in the middle). Just for the record, I wasn't going to pull a flat out hit and quit. I was planning on having what I had hoped to be a nice fling with the girl but by this point I was already having second thoughts as she was showing me cling status that I had not seen in quite some time. I mean it would be 10pm at night and I'd try and lose her via text by saying I'm gonna go in the shower and she'd say text me when you're out. Scary. She's 33 btw, i'm 34.
So we meet by her and the date is amazing. Great chemistry, great conversation, kino up the wazoo. Sure i knew this wasn't going the distance, but I was enjoying myself with an attractive chick. The girl gets HAMMERED at the bar on the date. I have 2 drinks, she has FIVE. That's, right, FIVE glasses of wine. She drank heavy on some of the other dates, too. Clearly some sort of depression going on underneath. We leave the bar and start making out against a building. I come up for air after about 2 solid minutes. Suddenly, she has some bizarre drunken FREAK out and accuses me of not being into her, even questioning if i'm "gay". She then proceeds to try and walk away from me. In that instant, I knew I was 100% done, and that this girl was a lunatic. Then, a minute later, after we "made up", we make out again, and i'm thinking after her freak out ok this girl must want something more? and I grab her boob gently as we kiss. She FLIPS at me again, this time worse than the first time, saying don't do that, why would you do that, explaining to me why it was dead wrong, etc. It was downright frightening. We get to the train station and its time for me to go home, and she's reaching down my pants during our third makeout, grabbing my d-ck. I enjoyed the moment but knew it was time to get rid of this girl. She texts me starting in with the dirty talk that night into the next morning basically implying that she's staying over my place the next date and we're having sex. She wanted the D badly to a point where it was another shock. Here was this super feminist girl who came off as almost hating men, and now suddenly she's talking sex left and right.
That night I began fading and eventually told her I need to take a step back bc of how she reacted. She came back with a long text saying she's sorry for drinking too much and treating me poorly. Yeah, too bad, I did that stuff enough when I was in college. Those days are over. We haven't talked since aside from a birthday wish by her to which I responded many hours later to and in short context. It devastates me that I put in all this time and money and will not get laid by this hot girl, but at the same time, its probably for the best. After what I saw from her, I can only imagine what other skeletons she has in her whacked out closet. Just curious if you guys thought I played this right by dropping her instantly.
Met online, pretty damn hot, I'd say HB7. But my type close to a T. Super feminist. Mysogynistic this, mysogynistic that, Trump talk, women's rights, the whole nine. (Lives in Brooklyn, go figure). That all being said, I knew pretty much from the start me and this girl weren't a match at all. Not that I'm Republican, but just bc I could never ever see myself with a girl like that long term/having kids, etc. The chick was looney, but fun to be around and talk about normal stuff when it came to it. Fyi she was living at home temporarily after her roommate moved out.
Throughout the first 3 dates which spanned over the course of 2 months, it was like pulling teeth to get this girl to respond to texts about going out again, to GET her out again, and just to get her to chat a bit in general. Not that i'm a big texter by any means in between dates, but there was just a 'hard to get vibe' going on with me wondering if I would ever even be able to hit it as that is what this came down to in my mind. Finally, after the 4th date something happened. We had a great time, and literally the next day it began. NONSTOP texting from her on a daily basis. Asking how my day was, what i'm up to, what i'm WEARING to work, etc. It felt like i was back in the 11th grade texting some chick that liked me. Not only that, but it became painfully obvious that she was 100% into me as in some sort of switch was turned on and she was INTO me. Flirty talk got taken to another level.
So I finally want to get her to my place for the 5th date to f-ck close but she tells me she promises to do that the NEXT time but just wants me to come by her one more time (previous dates we met either near her or in the middle). Just for the record, I wasn't going to pull a flat out hit and quit. I was planning on having what I had hoped to be a nice fling with the girl but by this point I was already having second thoughts as she was showing me cling status that I had not seen in quite some time. I mean it would be 10pm at night and I'd try and lose her via text by saying I'm gonna go in the shower and she'd say text me when you're out. Scary. She's 33 btw, i'm 34.
So we meet by her and the date is amazing. Great chemistry, great conversation, kino up the wazoo. Sure i knew this wasn't going the distance, but I was enjoying myself with an attractive chick. The girl gets HAMMERED at the bar on the date. I have 2 drinks, she has FIVE. That's, right, FIVE glasses of wine. She drank heavy on some of the other dates, too. Clearly some sort of depression going on underneath. We leave the bar and start making out against a building. I come up for air after about 2 solid minutes. Suddenly, she has some bizarre drunken FREAK out and accuses me of not being into her, even questioning if i'm "gay". She then proceeds to try and walk away from me. In that instant, I knew I was 100% done, and that this girl was a lunatic. Then, a minute later, after we "made up", we make out again, and i'm thinking after her freak out ok this girl must want something more? and I grab her boob gently as we kiss. She FLIPS at me again, this time worse than the first time, saying don't do that, why would you do that, explaining to me why it was dead wrong, etc. It was downright frightening. We get to the train station and its time for me to go home, and she's reaching down my pants during our third makeout, grabbing my d-ck. I enjoyed the moment but knew it was time to get rid of this girl. She texts me starting in with the dirty talk that night into the next morning basically implying that she's staying over my place the next date and we're having sex. She wanted the D badly to a point where it was another shock. Here was this super feminist girl who came off as almost hating men, and now suddenly she's talking sex left and right.
That night I began fading and eventually told her I need to take a step back bc of how she reacted. She came back with a long text saying she's sorry for drinking too much and treating me poorly. Yeah, too bad, I did that stuff enough when I was in college. Those days are over. We haven't talked since aside from a birthday wish by her to which I responded many hours later to and in short context. It devastates me that I put in all this time and money and will not get laid by this hot girl, but at the same time, its probably for the best. After what I saw from her, I can only imagine what other skeletons she has in her whacked out closet. Just curious if you guys thought I played this right by dropping her instantly.
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