Not an incel, never really had an issue pulling in ladies. I've known a few dude's who have. They got in shape, worked on their purpose, got new threads and worked on themselves. They were able to get some pvssy. Perhaps, the incels which are stuck in neutral have some sort of phobia or medical condition that prevents them from getting them out of their funk? Maybe they are just very depressed or have zero confidence, and nothing will improve it? Not sure, but I am sure working on one's self, for most dudes, will in fact lead to results. It will take time, dedication and patience, but it will happen. However, I will stress, this is a lifestyle choice that they need to do for themselves, not to get the ladies (as Aaron Clarey would say). No one wants to be with a 30 year old dude, no job, living with their parents with no direction.