In my entire history of interacting with hundreds of women, the only ones that seeked an Ltr were women in my demographic. Basically women in my social circles and work. All bars/club chicks were short flings/one night stands....with one exception.
I was in a weird phase in my life where all I did was game women. At some point I did the future/adventurous projection openor where a hot woman walked by me and I immediately grabbed her hand and said “Hey, who are you?!?!” With a commanding tone. She responded with “I’m the girl who’s about to go home”. And then I put my arm around her and said “No you’re my new girlfriend for the next 15 minutes. Where are we going on our first adventurous date?”
I was drunk out of my mind and approached her for my own self amusement a nd didn’t really expect anything. So I was completely surprised when she said “How about Applebee’s.” It was two blocks away from the bar.
As it turned out her apartment was right next to Applebee’s. It was in the marina area in San Francisco.
@LARaiders85 probably knows where it’s at.
As we were sitting outside her apartment, I placed my finger on her lips and she immediately said “you’re not coming in.” Obvious I just took as a sh1t test and I created plausible deniability by saying “you know I just read this great book. It’s life changing. It’s called conversations with god. You have to read it.” She asked me where she could find the book and I said it’s only on the internet. Do you have internet.” And she replied with “let’s go to my room.”
Women aren’t dumb. Creating a pretense is not going to fool them. It’s more like I helped alleviate her anti slvt defense. Things were moving fast and she was experiencing cognitive dissonance where her body was saying yes, her mind was saying no, and her emotions were confused. She needed my leadership, hence the sh1t test.
We read the book for a whole 5 minutes until we went straight into foreplay. We didn’t have sex though. That was the next night. And amazingly she saved my number down as her boyfriend all because I said “you’re my new girlfriend,”
The sexual attraction between us was off the charts. Even just by placing my crotch on her a$$, she would immediately start moaning. Every weekend I would go to the bars in the marina district and get wasted, knock on her door at 2 am, take out my sexual frustrations on her, have her cook me breakfast the next morning, and then bounce. This was our entire dynamic. She was a grad student.
I didn’t mean to post a lay report but I took some lessons from that relationship. Set a sexual and dominant frame early. Only start a relationship born out of pure sexual attraction. The connection and commonalities come after. The fire lasts the longest when it’s born out of pure attraction. There was so much for us to explore sexually which made seeing each other exciting.
I was a wild child with chaotic bad boy energy and she was the professional girl next door type. We had perfect sexual chemistry. I brought out a side of her that her cuck friends couldn’t.
It seemed like her entire role was to find creative ways to pleasure my penis. But if you saw her walking in the streets you would never think she was like that.
Eventually she had to let me go because she thought I took her for granted or thought I was too crazy. One of those reasons.
