Jager
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 12, 2019
- Messages
- 239
- Reaction score
- 277
- Age
- 33
Do not underestimate the social acuity of a woman. Trust me, any weak man with a wife or exclusive girlfriend has lived his life thinking she was faithful would later find out she was exercising her feminine imperative behind his back, if she slips up in doing it.What about the fact that you will lose a little bit of your humanity crushing a human being that doesn't deserve it the way you would crush her? I hate dumping women for that very reason but I can't imagine dumping someone after 10 years, ouch
The world is far more harsh than our modern civilization has supposed. Nature doesn’t care about right and wrong, it only cares about survival. It’s better to just accept that fact and rebuild, take on a purpose and vision of existence that helps to keep the world running, which is a man’s job. His leadership and vision holds the fabric together. A man is literally that one thing that keeps the world turning.
This conflict of which girl to choose is petty. Relationships are a trap. Biologically, a man doesn’t even really want one. He is taught that he should have one. What he really wants is to bang as many women as possible to spread his genetics (biology and genetics at work here) and live life to fullest extent. He is a hero of a story (that realization was important to my progress @stormrider, thank you). His story, which includes the people around him and his social circle.
The genders are flipped. Men told to be feminine, that it’s wrong to be masculine and driven. He is made to be a willing victim to a world of feminism and financial slavery. Women are taught that stupid “girl power” crap, which is both something they don’t actually want on a biological level and destructive to their being. Our civilization is an illusionary social construct suppressing the natural order, on purpose.
What the OP should be doing is developing himself, collect a harem of women, and live a bada$$ life, living a purposeful existence that helps keep the world turning. These girl troubles are ridiculous. You need purpose in your life OP. Not one woman that completes you. Value comes within. Not from anything exterior.