What is the worst thing a woman has done to you

[backseatjuan]

Honestly bro, the worst thing has happened to me in mu afc days.. she fcked me. She sang me a song. She left me easy.. and I cried. It was hard.

The other woman left me.. took some of my sht. But I stood tall enough to recover my sht same day and just forget her. Never a hard feeling over her. She then later come to me, appologetic.

 

[MatureDJ]

Got Chladymia.

Aside from disease, on a visit to me (it was a LDR at the time; yes I know ...). She had a "headache" the whole time.

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

When a female does something “bad” to you, bad behavior etc and you aren’t going to break up with her... how do you she prefer make it up to you? Talking it out, promises, groveling, just changing behavior? Is there a best way you’d like her to handle it?

Asking for a friend

 

[Robert28]

Wanted to be my friend and then continue to hangout with me and keep forcing herself on me as “just a friend”. Seriously, that’s one of THE WORST things a woman can do to you, force her unwanted friendship on you. You try to ignore her, she won’t go away. She becomes obsessed with MAKING you be her friend (platonic friend at that). If you don’t accept her platonic friendship then your name is mud all over town.

 

[Kotaix]

Become a transexual lesbian after moving to a different city with her

I just turned 18, very young. She was stunning and sweet

Then one day she sprouted out all this SJW nonsense

I laughed at first but soon it would change me forever

She shaved her head, grew out armpit hair, became obese on purpose

Naturally as a white male with a normal functioning brain I was booted out

An unfamiliar city with no where to go. That'll make or break you

That'll send you onto the road of redill and anti-feminism

I watched a butterfly transform into a disgusting slug

So was starting college what turned her into an SJW POS?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

When a female does something “bad” to you, bad behavior etc and you aren’t going to break up with her... how do you she prefer make it up to you? Talking it out, promises, groveling, just changing behavior? Is there a best way you’d like her to handle it?

Asking for a friend

If shes being a terrible "friend" you have a few choices:
1. Take it. Keep bytching but dont do anything
2. Pull back on support you have for her
3. Eliminate her. Cut her off for good

Some folks showed up for what they could get out of you.

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

If shes being a terrible "friend" you have a few choices:
1. Take it. Keep bytching but dont do anything
2. Pull back on support you have for her
3. Eliminate her. Cut her off for good

Some folks showed up for what they could get out of you.

What, no! i was kidding when i said asking for a friend. i am the terrible female.

I mean i did something to one of my guys. He won’t break up with me over it. i have already apologized and been remorseful. He wants to meet up today. How do I play it? I don’t want to be a sad sack or keep saying i am sorry. I also can’t act like it didn’t happen. i am seeing him in a few hours at my place and have no clue what to do. I will try and read his emotions but men are hard to feel out. I feel like i should be upbeat and warm but also strong like i can move on.

help!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What, no! i was kidding when i said asking for a friend. i am the terrible female.

I mean i did something to one of my guys. He won’t break up with me over it. i have already apologized and been remorseful. He wants to meet up today. How do I play it? I don’t want to be a sad sack or keep saying i am sorry. I also can’t act like it didn’t happen. i am seeing him in a few hours at my place and have no clue what to do. I will try and read his emotions but men are hard to feel out. I feel like i should be upbeat and warm but also strong like i can move on.

help!

If its a guy you know what will salve his pain... How many folks are you dealing with?

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

If its a guy you know what will salve his pain... How many folks are you dealing with?

this is my super dominant guy that i have been seeing for a little over a year. i did something pretty terrible and am wondering how to resolve it. i can’t change what i did and we had a talk already. i did cause him pain and he lost trust in me (no, not cheating). From a man’s POV, how would you want your women to handle it?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

this is my super dominant guy that i have been seeing for a little over a year. i did something pretty terrible and am wondering how to resolve it. i can’t change what i did and we had a talk already. i did cause him pain and he lost trust in me (no, not cheating). From a man’s POV, how would you want your women to handle it?

Talking wont help. I guess sex when i feel like it shut off the other dudes and prove it. Guys are simple. If he value himself enough he might just dismiss you.

 

[Robert28]

What, no! i was kidding when i said asking for a friend. i am the terrible female.

I mean i did something to one of my guys. He won’t break up with me over it. i have already apologized and been remorseful. He wants to meet up today. How do I play it? I don’t want to be a sad sack or keep saying i am sorry. I also can’t act like it didn’t happen. i am seeing him in a few hours at my place and have no clue what to do. I will try and read his emotions but men are hard to feel out. I feel like i should be upbeat and warm but also strong like i can move on.

help!

Men are easy to feel out. This one girl I was dating jokingly called me a pu$$y basically. It wasn’t that she said it as a joke (even though jokes have some truth to them), it was more a kick to my ego and pride because no woman has ever said that to me before. If anything it was the opposite “you are anything but a pu$$y, I feel totally safe and protected around you”. What made it worse is she said it in front of her mother and some other people around on the street. She had no idea how mad it made me and how hurt I was because I hide **** like that well. The days that passed I just stewed over it that she thought of me that way and what did I do to give her that impression. Didn’t talk to her for a day and a half. She texted me like everything was good and was trying to set up a date that week and I just said “no can’t I’m busy, sorry”. Kept all my text extremely short. She’d try to make another date and I found an excuse to decline. I eventually just ghosted her over it and it took her 2 months to figure out that I was really gone and why I was gone. Then the apologies came in swarms but I was done. Never spoke to her again. That was cold I know but fvck that stupid *****.

 

[Kotaix]

this is my super dominant guy that i have been seeing for a little over a year. i did something pretty terrible and am wondering how to resolve it. i can’t change what i did and we had a talk already. i did cause him pain and he lost trust in me (no, not cheating). From a man’s POV, how would you want your women to handle it?

It sounds like he sees value in you and isn't ready to give it up. But are you actually going to forgive his loss of self-respect?

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

It sounds like he sees value in you and isn't ready to give it up. But are you actually going to forgive his loss of self-respect?

I don’t think he will drop me but it’s always a possibility. Wow, interesting question. I have known for a while that he will most likely never break up with me no matter what I do. I don’t want to take advantage of that and yet you are right that it lets me know he will tolerate it from me. But he is posturing like he may break up because what else can he do? No, this was my fault and my loss of emotions that i acted badly. In a way, i know i should move on for him. He values me because i am younger than he, have my life together, great sex, into the same kinks and i accept his polyness and don’t try to have him exclusively. I would be hard to replace. He is older and hitting his wall i think in that he isn't getting as much attention from females as he did in his prime. There’s so much i do get from the relationship though and he is very dominant.

Thanks. that was thought provoking.

 

[lamath]

Got me into a LTR that deep down i did not want.
I let her waste my time.