Bunch of low qual dates, frame issue with "friend"

[MoreThanSmooth]

Things continue to be pretty bumpy in Smoothsville. Following on from a post I made a way back.

Current dating situation

I've got 5 girls I'm texting with atm (one is pretty cool and even sends me nudes on occasion). I have this overwhelming sense of ennui, though. I just don't really give a s**t. I guess I'm just not crazy interested in any one girl and it's a bit depressing but I can't really put my finger on it.

Perhaps the most interesting thing is a girl I've known about a year asked to get drinks with me next week. She seemed very flirty but she is a complete enigma at the same time. She brought up that she was single as we were walking together and walked for like 10 minutes with me to help me find a train station, then gave me a massive hug.

Even so I'm pretty much expecting to get drinks with her only to listen to her talking about other guys or something because I'm just getting that BS orbiter vibe even though she was hugging me and stuff. She was the one that kept saying "we must hang out next week for drinks" but at the same time now I've set a date she's going flakey.

In terms of the texting one of the other girls is a single mother so I'm not at all sure about that. She's very attractive but I'm not looking for anything serious so God knows what I'm doing there really haha. I don't even know. I feel like I'm pursuing it for fun but I have no idea what I'm doing.

In a way I'm actually finding it stressful texting with all these girls atm because I feel like I'm leading them all on. I know that sounds ridiculous. It just stresses me out.

I haven't even hooked up with any yet so I guess it's not unreasonable texting them all, but it's like a second job.

The incoming frame disaster

On the other hand going back to that girl I mentioned in another post I've known for a few years...well, I'm now almost certain she is dating what I can only describe visually as a complete soyboy, lol. I know that sounds really bad (and yeah, probably male jealousy too) but c'mon. The guy is literally like a twig covered in excessive hair.

Worse, he shares my name.

I am now confronted with this smug looking, scrawny guy dating the chick I like who literally is called my name. I know she'll invite me out for drinks at the next big occasion (birthday or Christmas) and if I go I'm gonna have to see him there.

It's bad enough hanging around a girl you like when she's dating some other guy, but when he's named after you that's just the final nail in the ballsack. Every time her friends mention "that great guy named X" everyone is going to be like "oh, X?" "No, Y, her new boyfriend. LOL." Cringe.

I guess I just won't go because it's humiliating, frankly. However at the same time it looks extremely petty if I turn down invites for no reason. Not sure how to even preserve my frame in this situation?

(Okay, maybe there is a slight chance they're not dating...but I'm guessing that's like 0.1%).

I guess I shouldn't give a rat's ass anyway but man it sucks.

In conclusion: I have a bunch of girls on the go but I don't care. The girl I like is seeing some dweeb. Crap.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

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In conclusion: I have a bunch of girls on the go but I don't care. The girl I like is seeing some dweeb. Crap.

Texting multiple girls is gay. Smash. Post after.

The girl you like is cratered SMV. Pursue hotter and younger.

Its what I keep pointing out.
Women are on the carousel. Cratered SMV. Ski down cawk mountain. She plays house as the wall approaches.

Needless to say, not doing it right kuz.

Go get a life. Get paper right. Law of state transference + sex transmutation. Put testosterone to use. Lift. Start a biz. Be on your path in life. Have purpose. Women are secondary. Yew, get girls but its sport. Winners take all.

I lead. She follows or next. Repeat!

Theres no exception. Blue pill beta cuck provider is a attempt to keep society orderly. See the world as it is. Not how you wish.

Block + delete said skank. N/c.

If/when you see her, pull top form SMV 18-23. Its hotter, younger, thinner, more attractive.


A TV show, nip/tuck was so ahead of time. It was clown World. 2019 is as ever bit as crazy as the show. You got one mercenary and one beta cuck provider. Both their fates are less than spectacular but it is a choice to pursue. Peterson argues to pick your damn sacrifice. You don't get to not make one.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I just got "replaced" because I did not get back with her IMMEDIATELY. Um, I wasn't sure I wanted to go with Her or some other girl number 1 and number 2 I was Working (didn't have time to answer her for several hours). It just goes to show how blown up these girls ARE. It's come to that point these days, that if you don't answer her Immediately, she'll continue on with another dude who is there at the chomping bit. Avoidance or distance or aloofness used to seem to work just a few years ago. Now, men are so feminized. I mean, I've got sh!t to do! throughout the week and don't have time to set up a date on the fly. As a guy, you've got to drop everything you're doin and attend to the hoe if you wanna be with her THESE DAYS. They are sooo short-termed thinking nowadays, and can't PLAN nothin. It's sad. I just know it's another dude why she can't do anything now (or yesterday) just one day later for me to get back with her (I forget about her). Still haven't texted her back cause she offered to go another day, but I'm going out of town in 3 days so maybe I could squeeze her in, but there are other girls I must consider first, because she considered another guy first! obviously.

 

[JayAce]

I just got "replaced" because I did not get back with her IMMEDIATELY. Um, I wasn't sure I wanted to go with Her or some other girl number 1 and number 2 I was Working (didn't have time to answer her for several hours). It just goes to show how blown up these girls ARE. It's come to that point these days, that if you don't answer her Immediately, she'll continue on with another dude who is there at the chomping bit. Avoidance or distance or aloofness used to seem to work just a few years ago. Now, men are so feminized. I mean, I've got sh!t to do! throughout the week and don't have time to set up a date on the fly. As a guy, you've got to drop everything you're doin and attend to the hoe if you wanna be with her THESE DAYS. They are sooo short-termed thinking nowadays, and can't PLAN nothin. It's sad. I just know it's another dude why she can't do anything now (or yesterday) just one day later for me to get back with her (I forget about her). Still haven't texted her back cause she offered to go another day, but I'm going out of town in 3 days so maybe I could squeeze her in, but there are other girls I must consider first, because she considered another guy first! obviously.

I remember a women i’d barely starting seeing blowing up on me through text because I hadn’t texted back in a couple hours

I was at the ****ing dentist. This chick expected me to tell her where I was while I was running errands. I was like ah hell nah. I barely met this woman a couple weeks prior.

Some women think they’re God’s gift to Earth

all these simps inflating their egos even more

**** that ****

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I find it odd girls don't just say they're going on a date actually. I always get something like "I have plans on Friday". So you're hooking up with some dude probably...so what? Just say that, it's not like I care or anything...haha!

Everything's so vague when you try and arrange a date these days.

Girls give off insane signals too. I had a chick on Snapchat who was sexting with me until this morning. Yesterday she was telling me it was the hottest thing ever and a massive turn on and this morning she was the same (we even talked about meeting and having sex, she was saying some absolutely filthy stuff about her skills).

Literally 5 minutes later "Not sure of the chemistry actually, I think you need a nicer girl than me." Then back to being very sexual again. Then unfriended me.

WTF?

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

I find it odd girls don't just say they're going on a date actually. I always get something like "I have plans on Friday". So you're hooking up with some dude probably...so what? Just say that, it's not like I care or anything...haha!

Everything's so vague when you try and arrange a date these days.

Girls give off insane signals too. I had a chick on Snapchat who was sexting with me until this morning. Yesterday she was telling me it was the hottest thing ever and a massive turn on and this morning she was the same (we even talked about meeting and having sex, she was saying some absolutely filthy stuff about her skills).

Literally 5 minutes later "Not sure of the chemistry actually, I think you need a nicer girl than me." Then back to being very sexual again. Then unfriended me.

WTF?

Using you as porn probably. She got off and backed off. i have done that. Anything that’s online only isn’t real yet. Meet these women or move on! We can play so many virtual games with tons of guys, using them for our egos and validation. Sounds like you are this to quite a few. Set up real dates and you’ll not only see the real interest level but it’ll distract you from getting caught in the online fantasy stuff.