Dude, you have no idea, seriously, no idea. I'm literally tired of trying, I mean, what's the f*cking point? No matter how nice I am, how good of a husband, father, provider that I am, it doesn't matter. It's not appreciated, respected, it's expected.
The last attempt I actually made was last year. She had been nagging the living sh*t out of me that I don't do enough around the house, you know, after working my a$$ off 60+ hours a week to build a successful business, I now have to come home and work around the house too. I mean, I still did stuff around the house but not as much as she was wanting.
So, I literally kept a log for around 4 months or so of every single thing I did. No up tick in sex, no up tick in respect, pretty much zip. She said at one point that she noticed I was doing more and when I brought up at another point all the stuff I was doing, she said I could have simply written it down but never did it. It was at that point, I f*cking gave up. Why bother when there's no more respect or sex?