Alright, DEEZED. I've done my 3 for today. There's only a couple concerns I still have as I up my Cold Approach to the max.
First, I realize that this is kind of a scarcity mentality, but what do I do if I live in a very very small college town? Kinda worries me doing that magnitude of approaches when I'm hitting the same few venues lol
Its ideally why i live in the city. London is massive. The probability of seeing the same girl is slim to none. In a tiny town and campus, you run the same risk.
Approach indirect. If you have high interest it won't matter. You can Vet for compliance and high interest level. Ideally, practice ground should be away from home. I don't recommend burning sets to the ground when new.
When compelled, when you won't forgive yourself for not approaching, do it. There's a reason why everyone suggests against workplace pick up lololol.
Go a city over. Even a simple hello is chalked up to a victory at noob status. Seek competence. Build from the fundamentals.
Note, 3x approach is a formula from a OG. When the student becomes the master, you will establish moves on your own. You have your own routines, gambits and maneuvers you run. You can do whatever. I've opened on silence. Moreover, you spot women eye ****ing a doing the double take. You maximise your game.
You still approach for sport. At 30, i am not burning it to the ground every weekend. In terms of ROI, its not practical nor ideal.
After competence it dawns on you that ITS ALWAYS GAME TIME. Think unleashed collar off only you're takin your **** out and smashin. You are always on the prowl.
You cultivate being. You go beyond expelling baseline whatever requirements needed for survival and replication. You go beyond your comfort and genetic predisposition.
Get out more outside of your home. At the end of the day, if you want a omelet, you got to crack eggs. Is it a excuse or are your concerns legit? Only you know.
Exercise common sense.
Second, essentially every number that I've gotten has either flaked or broken down in the texting stage. That tells me I'm getting numbers from girls who have a weak Attraction towards me. Now do I just keep playing the Numbers' Game and find a woman who is naturally attracted to me and then use my Game to enhance that, or do I need to focus more on my Attraction building efforts during the approach?
Yes. After a decade +/- of pickup, I am still a strike out king. Batting above or slightly below 500 pending a given day. Numbers rarely flake. I am gauging interest level. I #next anything of ambiguity and or fence sitters. LMR means #nextSet. I don't bother with LMR destroyers. I don't need rapey accusations. I want intense desire. Blow me or blow me out.
There's a model like pua (cannot think of a name). He argues he has a 10% success rate from directly cold approach. This is spectacular. Two of my mates are models. Ones in fitness modelling. Both swear by no dryspells but, decline in quality. Similar experience in success rate for cold approach. Much more successful OLD.
Forget the success ratio or chad status. A lot of "Chad's" get cucked later. They won genetic lottery but failed to evolve beyond baseline. They were predisposed to attention.
Game by strauss spoke of the bigger better prize. Its female hypergamy. It is what it is.
How old are you? You must bide time. Pay your dues. Go through the fire. Who you are before and after aren't the Same. What you become is something else. You transcend.
Mark my words. If yiu stick with it, you will see. Today's hottie is 1 broken condom or cheese burger away from expiration.
Hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day.
Women peak early. Men peak late.
Chicks you get rejected from get fat, single moms, and you can pull hotter and much younger. Again, its on the other side of fire.
Read her interest level or lack thereof. Its a waste of time to take low interest chick. What separate high and low interest? MM 101, indicators of interest. Is she asking yoyr name, touching you, laughing at your jokes, leaning in, flirting, eye ****in etc..? After enough experience, its like a 6th sense. You can reason her intentions.
Obv take digits. Text, call, run your funnel.
Wash rinse repeat.
Its a numbers game. Volume is ideal but test and learn. You pull 1 girl, more come. It's as if they can smell the ***** on you. In actuality, its confidence and swagger + indifference. You already got yours.
More than anything, the field will tell you everything you need to know more than i can. You are getting results. Jump off from here.