Plate gets upset after sex

[RickTheToad]

In the past, when I was running too many plates.

You will understand what I mean when you're got plenty of available pvssy at ur disposal with them all wanting it.

It will be like a job that must be done.

Three is more than enough for me to handle. They tend to become needy and annoying after a while. ;'p. I have that nutty lady circling me too... Might have to freshen up the rotation soon.

 

[Juanto]

I regularly choose not to nut during sex for the exact reason OP has listed. Added benefit the b1tch tries harder next time.

Exactly. Finally someone gets it.

But i guess a guy would need to first try it to actually understand what I am talking about here, and i don’t expect any female to understand this concept.

 

[backseatjuan]

There is another thing here too. If you didn't cvm, she might have thought you have your tubes cut, which means she can't have your children, so that's why upset. Possibly.

 

[xplt]

There is another thing here too. If you didn't cvm, she might have thought you have your tubes cut, which means she can't have your children, so that's why upset. Possibly.

i thought theres no noticable difference according to your load after vasectomy?!

 

[Juanto]

So then I'm wondering what advice you are seeking exactly? Did she ask you why or just flat out state "I don't feel desired"?

Just stated "I dont feel desired".

 

[RickTheToad]

Exactly. Finally someone gets it.

But i guess a guy would need to first try it to actually understand what I am talking about here, and i don’t expect any female to understand this concept.

You two are very strange dudes. Having sex so either of you don't climax... Brilliant.... Do you eat cereal w/o milk so the milk gets jealous of the dry cereal too?

 

[sazc]

Weird sh1t man. As a chick #nextset !!

 

[Mazer]

Her vag must be boring you, especially if you been hitting it for a while or you been fapping too much. I can go multiple sex sessions without cumming with a girl I have been with for a significant amount of time, if I get some new vag, i ejaculate alot faster.

 

[flowtheory]

@Juanto
Aside from becoming the all encompassing powerful individual you seek to be, why not have your release with her?

 

[Juanto]

@Juanto
Aside from becoming the all encompassing powerful individual you seek to be, why not have your release with her?

First of all, I have only did this like 4 times in 2 years of constantly having sex, but coz i did it twice in a row, she got upset.

Secondly, as I explained before, the reason why I did it is because i feel stronger the days after, physically and mentally. I reckon my mistake was not telling her exactly this.

 

[Juanto]

That it? What advice are you asking?

Advice was how to go about from now on

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

Okay, i will be honest, i feel disappointed when a man doesn’t come. I take it a bit personally like i couldn’t get the job done and get him there. Like my feminine charms are lacking lol.

Logically i know it’s most likely his issue (tired, had sex earlier, etc) or choice. But the sex feels very incomplete to me unless he gets off. It’s almost like “that’s what i am here for and i let him down.”. I do actually try harder the next time. I once had a guy that took so long to come every session that i was getting a complex. Finally he admitted that he always jerked off before sex so he would last longer for me. That’s nice but i asked him to stop doing that. would rather see a man explode too fast than not at all and feel less desired. In fact i love when he can’t control himself sometimes and is like sorry you felt so good. not all the time mind you, i need time to come. but a good mix is perfect.

advice: just tell her the honest reason for not finishing. whatever it is, who cares. I would rather just know than wonder and blame myself. i always think being honest is the best. even if it’s not what i want to hear. at least it will make sense. Even if a plate tells me he had sex earlier and just cant come again, hey at least it’s not MY fault. lol. And he still got hard for me so we cool.

 

[Juanto]

Okay, i will be honest, i feel disappointed when a man doesn’t come. I take it a bit personally like i couldn’t get the job done and get him there. Logically i know it’s most likely his issue (tired, had sex earlier, etc) or choice. But the sex feels very incomplete to me unless he gets off. It’s almost like “that’s what i am here for and i let him down.”. I do actually try harder the next time. I once had a guy that took so long to come every session that i was getting a complex. Finally he admitted that he always jerked off before sex so he would last longer for me. That’s nice but i asked him to stop doing that. would rather see a man come too fast and feel desired that not at all.

advice: just tell her the honest reason for not finishing. whatever it is, who cares. I would rather just know than wonder and blame myself.

Yes, i agree with you

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

i thought theres no noticable difference according to your load after vasectomy?!

There’s no lol. Dudes still ejaculate. If a chick thinks that, cut her loose. Too dumb.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

When I first met my ex GF .. I was doing Kegals and couldn't cvm the first time we had sex.

She was soo determined to get me to cvm she put the finger where the sun dont shine and played the trombone...

Cvm does wierd shyt to women.

 

[sazc]

Okay, i will be honest, i feel disappointed when a man doesn’t come. I take it a bit personally like i couldn’t get the job done and get him there. Like my feminine charms are lacking lol.

Logically i know it’s most likely his issue (tired, had sex earlier, etc) or choice. But the sex feels very incomplete to me unless he gets off. It’s almost like “that’s what i am here for and i let him down.”. I do actually try harder the next time. I once had a guy that took so long to come every session that i was getting a complex. Finally he admitted that he always jerked off before sex so he would last longer for me. That’s nice but i asked him to stop doing that. would rather see a man explode too fast than not at all and feel less desired. In fact i love when he can’t control himself sometimes and is like sorry you felt so good. not all the time mind you, i need time to come. but a good mix is perfect.

advice: just tell her the honest reason for not finishing. whatever it is, who cares. I would rather just know than wonder and blame myself. i always think being honest is the best. even if it’s not what i want to hear. at least it will make sense. Even if a plate tells me he had sex earlier and just cant come again, hey at least it’s not MY fault. lol. And he still got hard for me so we cool.

It's too late to explain his behavior now, she's going to think he made the explanation up at this point. The time for truth was as soon as it becomes an issue. But he couldn't tell her because either that's not really the issue, or he knows it sounds bizarre and is ashamed

i think I've run into this problem twice in my life and both times the resulting discussion is about how it's their "issue", not as a result of them purposefully holding back.

TBH, even with his mansplaining about how it makes him feel powerful and energetic the next day, at this point she's going to see that as a cover he conjured to get out of his issue with not being able to come. To me, hearing that would be a huge red flag that he's got mental issues he's not being truthful about, trying to hide from, and not addressing.

 

[RickTheToad]

New waive of dudes thinking it's cool to have sex and not climax because it's the new thing that soy boys do. Good lord.