My tinder game is terrible.

[flowtheory]

Alright my friend. This is what you’re going to do...

Stop trying to have conversations over tinder and getting to know them and establishing a rapport to show them you’re a potentially good date. You only want to be going out with women who have high IL to start. And that is all dependant on your photos. What you say is having very little weight if she actually wants to go out with you.

1. Have an opener that is simple but is open ended which makes her say more than a yes or no.
2. When she responds acknowledge what she says by working it in to the conversation, but in the same message ask her out in a date.
3. When she agrees get her number.
4. When she gives it to you, send her a message over text setting up the date.
5. you now have a woman who is going on a date with you.

Example:

You: Do you always wear such bright bikinis or just when you’re showing off on tinder?
Her: Haha just when I’m on tinder
You: Well now I’m curious what you’re going to wear when we go for a drink this week
Her: Aren’t you confident! What makes you so sure I want to?
You: let’s get off here. We’re too good for this app. What’s your number?
Her:###-###-####
—OVER TEXT—
You: Hey pink, it’s Andy. I’m free Thursday for that drink. There’s a cool bar I’ve been wanting to check out called “bar name”. We can meet there for 7pm. Does that work for you too?

———

If when you ask for the drink or phone number she isn’t responsive, MOVE ON. You’re wasting your time. It shows she has low interest.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Low chance of a match and reply. Reading profiles takes time that adds up. I'm not reading every profile on the website. Haha When I get a reply I'll take a closer look.

I read every bio, look at all the IG pics. And listen to the soundtrack clip. I’m not in a hurry I guess.

 

[Poonani Maker]

	Does not want children

About Me


On a serious not I don’t want to just bang you and if you start off wanting to just bang just keep looking. Just wanting to be serious.




Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I think it needs to be fun..dont say dinner and a movie i mean seriously if we meet on here then we need to actually speak to each other and have fun!!

She's "Lutheran" but her words don't match any kind of "faith." It's silly sloppy. So you don't want kids eh? and you're late 30s? Then, I say, what good are you to waste my time with if you're not just for a "bang" as you say? I guess guys who already have kids and don't want anymore are the ones who will go for the childless "doesn't want kids" late 30s women you see plastered ALL OVER OLD, or it's the thirsty "want to just 'bang'" guys contacting her. A guy like me who's had his fill (of pvssy) and would like to reproduce would never contact these myriad of late 30s girls (cause they are still 'girls' not women) who want no children on OLD.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My experience is if a girl’s into you on Tinder, she’ll make an effort. We matched yesterday. She sent the first text. We chatted on Tinder for about a half hour. Gave her my #. Chatted on text for about 15 more. I asked her out, she said yes and we have a date for Sat eve. My Tinder game is mediocre. But I avoid being sleazy, rude or sending ‘hey’. However, I can be snarky/sarcastic. Older women seem ok with that. But when I try it on younger women, they seem to get insulted. I’ve been unmatched a few times for initial snarkiness.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Here are the bios of the last 10 Tinder profiles I just swiped.

"Beer and pizza"

"tits bigger than my probs
names alije idk why it says penny hahah"

"Honestly i want to have a family... Something I've never had. But please understand it has to be with the right person. I'm not rushing or pushing for anything. Believe me i would be grateful for some friends but ive got a baby and he is my main priority and never forget that. Im looking for friends but I'd love to have someone love me and my son for who we are. Something different then what I've had. Till then chilln' not looking. Living one day at a time each day a better person then the last." ( has baby in first pic)

Blank no photo

"Food and music are the keys to my heart. "

"Own my own house. Pay my own bills. Act like an adult most of the time.."

Blank

"New to the area. Red hair, white wine, and blue eyes; basically I’m the flag
Wine enthusiast, movie addict, unapologetic Scorpio"

"My poodle needs a daddy ‍
Weed - food - hiking - my crazy poodle - video games - I'm still here, Netflix"

Blank

Nothing I care about in any of these bios. Yet, I'm supposed to read them. Ahahaha

 

[JayAce]

I thought that for Tinder, you and the gal both had to approve of each other.

Oh you do. But some women still won’t reply to you sending them a message. May be because they’re getting bombarded, only on their for a ego boost, etc etc

 

[sazc]

Oh you do. But some women still won’t reply to you sending them a message. May be because they’re getting bombarded, only on their for a ego boost, etc etc

All that other stuff is fluff, It's because, on second glance, she's decided she not into you

 

[logicallefty]

Tinder is terrible.

It’s possible to get women out on dates or hooking up, but usually it’s not worth the hassle (imo).

As far as Tinder “game”. I mean... just don’t be like the hundreds of guys opening up a msg with “hey”. Back when I was on the app I would just bring up something she had in her bio and start from there. A lot of the times it still didn’t work, but I did get a few replies and meetups that way.

It’s a numbers game and the numbers are heavily slanted in the women’s odds on these online apps. That’s why I don’t like to partake all that much

^This. You can only open with a boring line like “hey” or “hi” If you Got multiple pictures of yourself that are rock solid 10s because you are a 10. For most of us normal guys who are not tens, we have to make up for our looks with game. I tend to go for humorous openers. Something so funny she can’t help but respond. Often times it’s in the form of a question so she can’t help but reply to hear more.

 

[JayAce]

All that other stuff is fluff, It's because, on second glance, she's decided she not into you

maybe you’re right

 

[flowtheory]

Here are the bios of the last 10 Tinder profiles I just swiped.

"Beer and pizza"

"tits bigger than my probs
names alije idk why it says penny hahah"

"Honestly i want to have a family... Something I've never had. But please understand it has to be with the right person. I'm not rushing or pushing for anything. Believe me i would be grateful for some friends but ive got a baby and he is my main priority and never forget that. Im looking for friends but I'd love to have someone love me and my son for who we are. Something different then what I've had. Till then chilln' not looking. Living one day at a time each day a better person then the last." ( has baby in first pic)

Blank no photo

"Food and music are the keys to my heart. "

"Own my own house. Pay my own bills. Act like an adult most of the time.."

Blank

"New to the area. Red hair, white wine, and blue eyes; basically I’m the flag
Wine enthusiast, movie addict, unapologetic Scorpio"

"My poodle needs a daddy ‍
Weed - food - hiking - my crazy poodle - video games - I'm still here, Netflix"

Blank

Nothing I care about in any of these bios. Yet, I'm supposed to read them. Ahahaha

Bios are there to give the guy some insight in to their interests, so you can develop some sort of opener. Can be used to your advantage. Allows thins to be more personal. But with bios I find it’s best to take 1 or 2 things and create a playful opener in a teasing manner.

The more information you have about the woman the more you can use it to get her out.

 

[flowtheory]

maybe you’re right

Don’t forget a lot of women just use tinder or bumble to ego boost. It’s best to take OLD with a very small grain of salt. Even the most attractive men still get no responses. It’s all part of the game

 

[Spaz]

Most guys I know irl that uses Tinder; just for the purposes of pump and dump.

They just post their bio, wait for women to respond and then select which one is the most prettiest/amusing.

These men are within my social circle and has considerable societal influence, so meeting and dating a woman in real life is a piece of cake.

Tinder is just an amusement for no strings attached sex.

You guys need to increase ur social networking and get off ur dependence on Tinder, it ain't the proper place to find a girlfriend - most of you here are too eager to "wife up" any chick.

 

[JayAce]

Don’t forget a lot of women just use tinder or bumble to ego boost. It’s best to take OLD with a very small grain of salt. Even the most attractive men still get no responses. It’s all part of the game

I remember when I was using Tinder I hit it off pretty well (or so I thought) with a girl in the first few msgs. Got her number and tried to arrange a meetup. She gave some lousy excuse so I was just like “well hit me up if anything changes”. Curiosity got the best of me though and since I had her number now I looked her up on Facebook. She was 5x heavier in some of her tagged photos. Yet on Tinder she was a 7-8. I deleted Tinder on and off every so often back when I was using it and I always saw her on it. I doubt she met one guy off of it.

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

I remember when I was using Tinder I hit it off pretty well (or so I thought) with a girl in the first few msgs. Got her number and tried to arrange a meetup. She gave some lousy excuse so I was just like “well hit me up if anything changes”. Curiosity got the best of me though and since I had her number now I looked her up on Facebook. She was 5x heavier in some of her tagged photos. Yet on Tinder she was a 7-8. I deleted Tinder on and off every so often back when I was using it and I always saw her on it. I doubt she met one guy off of it.

THIS is why when i was on Tinder and OK i would link to my IG or FB. Men are skeptical, as they should be. Hopefully you all can recognize a filtered pic when you see one. And any girl that uses weird angles or doesn't have a FULL body shot (not a selfie) is going to be hefty.

 

[redskinsfan92]

THIS is why when i was on Tinder and OK i would link to my IG or FB. Men are skeptical, as they should be. Hopefully you all can recognize a filtered pic when you see one. And any girl that uses weird angles or doesn't have a FULL body shot (not a selfie) is going to be hefty.

Scammer profiles all over IG. They put their fake IG on a fake Tinder profile. Reverse searched images and found photos of real camgirls on IG were stolen.