flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Sounds like she just wants attention, by any means necessary. Los of people do that; this is simply an extreme case
Bipolar ladies.. More common these days it seems
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Yes, mental issues are diagnosed in their severity by how far outside the norm a persons consistent behavior is, but it’s often difficult for laymen to draw that line….
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Entitlement and lack of consequences amplify bipolar behaviors and responses. Look it up.
RickTheToad
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I've asked a few people, they said she's bi-polar, I am not sure. It's okay, as she keeps on negging me on our age difference. I even said to her yesterday, enough with the age cracks (this was prior to the fvck off/fvck you bit). It's barely 11 years and she's the youngest amongst all of us. I think she's just a tease and I just wasn't giving her enough attention so she played this stunt. I think there's a bit of some ADD there too as she was jumping all over the place and then back right next to me. She seemed to get more agitated when I turned away from her. Yet, when she was turned to me, who whole body and legs were facing me. Where to others, her body was facing them, but her legs were turned to me or away from them.
I've been reading a lot of reading body language books, so I find body posture and alignment fascinating. Even when we were sitting on the couch, I was sitting straight ahead, and she turned her whole body, legs and went into my "personal space" to talk to me about her concern about how I've been treating her that evening. Which, I really wasn't paying much attention to later on in the evening after drinks. So, I just thought it was an interesting share.
I've been reading a lot of reading body language books, so I find body posture and alignment fascinating. Even when we were sitting on the couch, I was sitting straight ahead, and she turned her whole body, legs and went into my "personal space" to talk to me about her concern about how I've been treating her that evening. Which, I really wasn't paying much attention to later on in the evening after drinks. So, I just thought it was an interesting share.
she likes being put in her place, and she likes when guys are mean to her. You were dealing with her perfectly without even realizing it, when she asked what do you want after she apologized, she was ready to blow you. All she wants is some D rick daaang, give it to her
women only let certain men correct them like that, she responds really well to you when you daddy her. I'd just play into that and bang her once at least
women only let certain men correct them like that, she responds really well to you when you daddy her. I'd just play into that and bang her once at least
RickTheToad
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I'm not sure she knows what the fvck she wants. She does the same push and pull as I do with her. Though, I do not think she does it knowingly. There was not physical touching aside from her hugging me, so doubtful. However, if she does, she'll have to suggest how to make it up to me. I'm not expecting to do anything with her though. We'll see how she acts when I see her again. One of my friends say she's confused in her head why I am not chasing her. She prob. expected me to console her and apologize for ribbing on her; which I wouldn't do, as there wasn't anything wrong with what I said or did. It's not like I said, we'll your nose is not this, you azz is not perky enough and your tits are certainly not to my liking.
I swear, with her, I think I am back in college. Rather stick with who I'm fvcking now as they are contacting me daily and showing high interest. I have a feeling she's a handful and a half.
Sir_Laid_A_Lot
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Hi Rick, what you just stated sounds like the married woman that I am trying for in the “whiskey dic8” thread that you responded to. She acts hot and cold and basically talks to every Tom, Dic8 and Harry. However she always ends up back with her friends after a while. Anyways the good thing is while she’s talking to others I stay away too. She plays cold, I remain unaffected, And go about my own business. Fortunately for me I banged her once two weeks back but last Saturday was “whiskey dic8 day”.
Sir_Laid_A_Lot
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Dude, if a chick told me to fuc8 off, that’s the end of it mate. I don’t know why you are still hanging around her. Maybe she enjoys having orbiters. Anyways she’s wack in the head. Either stay away from her or just enjoy the process and get a bang from her. One of the responders stated how he falls for BPD (Emotionally unavailable women) type of women, and I think that’s the case with a lot of men. I am like that too. I think these women have somewhat perfected their craft and know what ticks the right boxes for men. However I cut off any emotional crisis by being logical to the best degree that I can, especially with my outer appearance and physical aspects even though I might be melting inside.
RickTheToad
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Who knows... They might know each other. Lolz
RickTheToad
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Interesting update. Me and my buds went to a brewery on Wednesday and this lady showed up. I looked at Chris and I said, I knew this would happen. Anyways, she couldn't find us, but I waived her and she waived back. She sat next to the new guy directly across from me and gave him a hug and then they went to get something to eat. I was chatting up other ladies and me, my bud Chris and two ladies (I was with the blond one) went to get something to eat too. We walked a back a bit later and the dude with her was like where did you guys go, etc. I walked away as she was on and off staring at me, and I wanted to keep my distance. It started to rain, so we all went inside with other people. We were purposely avoiding each other and even Chris said the tension between you too is thick. She was at the bar with her friend and this other dude who's 22 and has zero chance. I am at the table, maybe 3 feet away as I am conversing with other dudes and the blond and a brunette. We got into a heated debate on MMA, so I focused on that mainly.
So here's the interesting tidbit.. Every so often I see her looking at me from the corner of my eye. I would also glance a bit at her too. On and off though, nothing straight on. Just every few minutes, I see her looking at me, doing a laugh or two with her lady friends and this other dude on occassion.
Anyway to play this or just continue to avoid and stay away? I just find it interesting she's appearing at places with my friends. Granted, she's part of the Twitter chain, so she knows when the events are, but as of the night before, she wasn't going. That morning, she all of a sudden came to both. It's just strange. She also wore a tight body shirt and leggings; something she never wears. Again, I cannot figure her out.
I'm doing something with the blond next week btw.
So here's the interesting tidbit.. Every so often I see her looking at me from the corner of my eye. I would also glance a bit at her too. On and off though, nothing straight on. Just every few minutes, I see her looking at me, doing a laugh or two with her lady friends and this other dude on occassion.
Anyway to play this or just continue to avoid and stay away? I just find it interesting she's appearing at places with my friends. Granted, she's part of the Twitter chain, so she knows when the events are, but as of the night before, she wasn't going. That morning, she all of a sudden came to both. It's just strange. She also wore a tight body shirt and leggings; something she never wears. Again, I cannot figure her out.
I'm doing something with the blond next week btw.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Just nail her man. What have you got to lose?Interesting update. Me and my buds went to a brewery on Wednesday and this lady showed up. I looked at Chris and I said, I knew this would happen. Anyways, she couldn't find us, but I waived her and she waived back. She sat next to the new guy directly across from me and gave him a hug and then they went to get something to eat. I was chatting up other ladies and me, my bud Chris and two ladies (I was with the blond one) went to get something to eat too. We walked a back a bit later and the dude with her was like where did you guys go, etc. I walked away as she was on and off staring at me, and I wanted to keep my distance. It started to rain, so we all went inside with other people. We were purposely avoiding each other and even Chris said the tension between you too is thick. She was at the bar with her friend and this other dude who's 22 and has zero chance. I am at the table, maybe 3 feet away as I am conversing with other dudes and the blond and a brunette. We got into a heated debate on MMA, so I focused on that mainly.
So here's the interesting tidbit.. Every so often I see her looking at me from the corner of my eye. I would also glance a bit at her too. On and off though, nothing straight on. Just every few minutes, I see her looking at me, doing a laugh or two with her lady friends and this other dude on occassion.
Anyway to play this or just continue to avoid and stay away? I just find it interesting she's appearing at places with my friends. Granted, she's part of the Twitter chain, so she knows when the events are, but as of the night before, she wasn't going. That morning, she all of a sudden came to both. It's just strange. She also wore a tight body shirt and leggings; something she never wears. Again, I cannot figure her out.
I'm doing something with the blond next week btw.
Take action, action, action!!
RickTheToad
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Dude, don't you think I want to and tried? Re-read. The thread to recall the situation. The other blond I met at the brewery have me her number and we're set for tomorrow. This other one, I cannot read her.. This is the same chick who took my phone and texted herself back in March. Since nothing happen ed and she was silent after the dates and told me to fvck off, I just moved on. All of the sudden she's appearing where I'm going to be at the last minute.. It's just a weird situation which I cannot read...
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
I remember the story. But if she’s giving you signals, try again. That was then, this is now.
If you try again and there’s no progress, drop her forever.
Like I said, nothing to lose. No sense pondering over wether you should or not, because her behaviour before is illuminating that she isn’t worth much more than a few bonings anyways..
RickTheToad
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Hard to read. I need more intel. I feel like a fool already by misreading the first two encounters. Chris, who was there with me, said it's probably becuase there were other ladies waiving and chatting me up. Who knows. She needs to step-up to get my attention. Right now, I have others, it seems. She is, by far, the most attractive though.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
OP, I generally like your posts, but I'm not even sure why you're taking the time to over-analyze this. You've been on here long enough to know she's a low-quality woman who's a horrible choice for a gf and is also a mental defective. Forget her and her behavior and move on. If she infiltrates your social circle, you can smile and be polite and but don't engage her or you're asking for it.
And by all means, DON'T F*UCK her as some have suggested. The ground is 100% fertile for her to call the cops the next day and accuse you of assault, rape, etc. She's f*ucked up and wants the attention, positive or negative, and will do whatever to get it.
F*uck dude, move on man.
Good luck.
And by all means, DON'T F*UCK her as some have suggested. The ground is 100% fertile for her to call the cops the next day and accuse you of assault, rape, etc. She's f*ucked up and wants the attention, positive or negative, and will do whatever to get it.
F*uck dude, move on man.
Good luck.
RickTheToad
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Funny you said that... I thought the same thing. LOL. But, no doubt. The b!tch crazy. Seems I'm popular now with the other ladies, but she just seems to pop up from time to time. Chris said the same thing BTW. He also said the b!tch is bad news. Despite her attractiveness (that's really all she has), my big brain is in control and I've been staying clear and afar from her.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
These types can be super tempting. They are usually hot, fun, outgoing, and crazy in life which 99% of the time means crazy in bed. YOLO kicks in and it's like a huge wedge of double fudge hot lava chocolate cake staring at you on a plate when you're on a strict keto diet, lol.
Had one like this a couple years ago. Hot as f*uck, super fun, whimsical, very feminine, outgoing, funny, porn star in bed, BUT CRAZY as S*HIT. Was in therapy and on SSRI meds, would fly off the handle at benign events, was dating multiple guys, few friends, estranged from family, couldn't hold a $15/hr retail job. After a huge unwarranted blow up at a dog park (I left her there to walk home) I cut all contact and dumped her and haven't heard from her since. I think about if she did reach out how tempting the s*ex and fun would be, but it would come at a huge price, so no thanks.
Good luck.
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flowtheory
Master Don Juan
I would get out of this mindset, personally. If she’s giving you signals and putting herself in your orbit, that is her stepping up. Women rarely will be so bold to come right up to a guy.
If you want it, go for it. If you don’t, leave it and don’t pay attention anymore. But I can tell she does have your interest, crazy or not, you’re curiousity is there.
dash does have a point though.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
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