When a hooker or slut fuucks you like you've never been you have to remember that you're not the only one that can give her this pleasure, and you're not the only one that's had such good feelings from it. You're not special. See it for what it is, an expensive fleshlight. Chat a bit on tinder and you can find hoes that'll come over and fucck you on command. But from experience I can tell you that there's such a thing as too much. Months of daily sex feels great but you start to seriously neglect your personal growth and build a tolerance to vanilla sex. You hit a crossroads. Start experimenting with drugs and harder kinkier sex to fulfill an ever growing lust hunger or pull back and focus on personal growth like creating passive income or honing a new craft. The former is easy and will end up destroying you or turning you into a retched fiend that hates himself and hates life. The latter is hard and challenging, but will foster virtues that will be invaluable throughout life. Obviously it's possible to have both, but it's so damn easy to be pulled towards neglect. You start to think pulling back from harder kinkier sex is a weak play. That it's feminine to refuse sex sometimes. But in reality the bolder man is not swayed from his passions and purpose by the infatuation of sex. The bolder man isn't swayed or controlled by a woman's sexual agency.
Sometimes the right thing is to leave her wanting more because you want to grow to another level in a different area of your life. If you fear she'll leave you for saying no, you've already lost.
