"Hot wives" and "cucks" - Why do the males put up with it?

[RickTheToad]

I've seen a growing trend of males (they are certainly not men) put up with their ladies (who both are in an exclusive-ish relationship) getting fvcked by other dudes. Why are these males putting up with this? Do they have no balls or backbone?

Discuss.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've seen a growing trend of males (they are certainly not men) put up with their ladies (who both are in an exclusive-ish relationship) getting fvcked by other dudes. Why are these males putting up with this? Do they have no balls or backbone?

Discuss.

Many men get married and think they have to live up to their vows and they cant leave. Especially if they have kids.

 

[Alvafe]

Many men get married and think they have to live up to their vows and they cant leave. Especially if they have kids.

actually what he is meaning is guys who want they wifes to cheat on him since he find this arousing, yes I know I too don't get it, but each to his own, chances are they mom cheated the hell of they dad so he find that normal and over time can't belive there is anything else, or even if they woman are not desired and men effectivaly want to fuc|< they don't feel good with thenself, kinda same way some woman let they men cheat around since that mean she have a hot high class men

 

[Teddy_Beer]

I've seen a growing trend of males (they are certainly not men) put up with their ladies (who both are in an exclusive-ish relationship) getting fvcked by other dudes. Why are these males putting up with this? Do they have no balls or backbone?

Discuss.

One likely reason is that they wanna show their wives and society that they're "open-minded" and not "controlling and insecure jerks"

 

[marmel75]

Maybe because they know they suck in bed and its their best option to try and keep them?

 

[RickTheToad]

One likely reason is that they wanna show their wives and society that they're "open-minded" and not "controlling and insecure jerks"

These dudes should have their balls surgically removed. Disgusting.

 

[Epic Days]

A man who is in love or thinks he’s living the dream cannot see it. It’s outside their reality.
If they do they rationalize it away or let her rationalize it away for him.
He feels better again.

 

[Hal9000]

The ones I've encountered get off on it sexually. Watching their wife get hammered is basically like porn to them. Many of them are also bi on the down low and hope to sneak in a BJ when she isnt paying attention.

 

[Spaz]

It's because they're into social services and believe in helping their fellow man out.

Such selfless sacrifice is the epitome of true manliness which women finds so attractive -their panties will be dripping wet just at the thought of it.

Be that dream man !

 

[Mike32ct]

I've seen a growing trend of males (they are certainly not men) put up with their ladies (who both are in an exclusive-ish relationship) getting fvcked by other dudes. Why are these males putting up with this? Do they have no balls or backbone?

Discuss.

I know of a guy who does this. He’s bisexual though (but closer to gay ie prefers men).

He probably either watches or listens at the door and whacks off. It’s his reality porn I guess.

To each his own.

 

[lamath]

I've seen a growing trend of males (they are certainly not men) put up with their ladies (who both are in an exclusive-ish relationship) getting fvcked by other dudes. Why are these males putting up with this? Do they have no balls or backbone?

Discuss.

I wonder if its the man or the women idea.

 

[Epic Days]

It's because they're into social services and believe in helping their fellow man out.

Such selfless sacrifice is the epitome of true manliness which women finds so attractive -their panties will be dripping wet just at the thought of it.

Be that dream man !

Lol

 

[RickTheToad]

Because that is their only hope of getting any. It’s either that or working hard on themselves. One is easy but will kill you in the end. Improving yourself is hard but boy does it pay off in the end

These males should do themselves a favor and just work on themselves instead of humiliating themselves. If they cannot respect themselves, how will anyone else?

I wonder if its the man or the women idea.

Prob. the bytch's idea. Why would a male (not man. these are not men) want another dude's penis inside their bytch? It's one of the reasons why I don't subscribe to open relationships. It doesn't benefit me in any way.

I know of a guy who does this. He’s bisexual though (but closer to gay ie prefers men).

He probably either watches or listens at the door and whacks off. It’s his reality porn I guess.

To each his own.

Mental issues. He needs help.

One likely reason is that they wanna show their wives and society that they're "open-minded" and not "controlling and insecure jerks"

Losers.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Bored married couples trying to keep their sex lives interesting. There is some evolutionary basis to it. "Sperm wars" is the term. Humans evolved in small tribes and clans. There was no monogamy. D1cks evolved to have a mushroom shape because that is the most effective plunger to douche out the last guy's jizz from a vagina. There is evolutionary programming that makes a man more interested in a woman who has just had sex with another man, gotta get his genes out of there and replace them with one's own. Modern etiquette usually thinks that is a little gross, but we can't leave behind two million years of evolution overnight.

 

[Epic Days]

Bored married couples trying to keep their sex lives interesting. There is some evolutionary basis to it. "Sperm wars" is the term. Humans evolved in small tribes and clans. There was no monogamy. D1cks evolved to have a mushroom shape because that is the most effective plunger to douche out the last guy's jizz from a vagina. There is evolutionary programming that makes a man more interested in a woman who has just had sex with another man, gotta get his genes out of there and replace them with one's own. Modern etiquette usually thinks that is a little gross, but we can't leave behind two million years of evolution overnight.

There is some heavy scientific basis for this. But as long as people live old enough to procreate the genome doesn't care and wont evolve. We are however are capable of turning certain genes on and off but we cant make one change without impetus to do so.

 

[Who Dares Win]

The simplest explanation it comes to me is that they no longer give a fvck about their wifes (esp those mature couples) and letting her getting railed from other men is a good way to keep her happy and keep her away while doing more interesting things.

 

[Epic Days]

I wonder if its the man or the women idea.

Just a hypothesis I guess. But what if the man, feeling her distancing and through her micro changes to her patterns, he starts getting competition anxiety. He feels or knows the inevitable is closing in. In an effort to appease or ward off her natural propensities by propitiation, he brings it up. The woman understanding her condition at, at least some level, manipulates this condition to her favor or advantage. This would, for at least a while, ward off the biological urges that she doesn't have the capacity to fight.

She gets sperm competition for her ovaries, (Sperm Wars, by Evolutionary Biologist, Robin Baker & The Red Queen by, Matt Ridley), however his thinking is flawed in that it lowers his value to share her reproductive system with other men. In her eyes. (Hind Brain)
It robs him of his offspring, potentially, and thus is not in accordance with his biological imperative.

 

[RickTheToad]

Bored married couples trying to keep their sex lives interesting. There is some evolutionary basis to it. "Sperm wars" is the term. Humans evolved in small tribes and clans. There was no monogamy. D1cks evolved to have a mushroom shape because that is the most effective plunger to douche out the last guy's jizz from a vagina. There is evolutionary programming that makes a man more interested in a woman who has just had sex with another man, gotta get his genes out of there and replace them with one's own. Modern etiquette usually thinks that is a little gross, but we can't leave behind two million years of evolution overnight.

Not too sure about that chico. All males in the animal kingdom have mushroomed shaped penis (w/ foreskin). It's not evolutional, gender based.

As for the other theory, nope, I have no desire to go into a lady after a dude as finished in her. Thanks, but I'll pass. If you enjoy that, more power to you.

 

[RickTheToad]

Just a hypothesis I guess. But what if the man, feeling her distancing and through her micro changes to her patterns, he starts getting competition anxiety. He feels or knows the inevitable is closing in. In an effort to appease or ward off her natural propensities by propitiation, he brings it up. The woman understanding her condition at, at least some level, manipulates this condition to her favor or advantage. This would, for at least a while, ward off the biological urges that she doesn't have the capacity to fight.

She gets sperm competition for her ovaries, (Sperm Wars, by Evolutionary Biologist, Robin Baker & The Red Queen by, Matt Ridley), however his thinking is flawed in that it lowers his value to share her reproductive system with other men. In her eyes. (Hind Brain)
It robs him of his offspring, potentially, and thus is not in accordance with his biological imperative.

Agreed, but how does this logically make any sense in a male's mind? If a lady I was dating wanted to have other c0cks in her aside from mine, no problem. BYE. As journaled in my end of last year posts, been there, and followed what I said. The bytch came crawling back, but I lost interest. Partly because I had a feeling she was fvcking around on me when I was in the hospital. Anyways, I cannot see why a a dude with any self respect would put up with that. Oh, maybe, at 38, I am just too old and not hip to let a lady I am exclusive with fvck other dudes. That's so disrespectful on so many levels. Any male (not a man) would goes along with this, willingly or no, is fvcking insane and needs to get his head examined.

 

[Epic Days]

Agreed, but how does this logically make any sense in a male's mind?

It’s a symptom of reduction of his masculinity. In my opinion, she’s been working on him for a while.
At some point he would do anything to save his immortalized Queen I would think.

It’s completely abberated of course. It’s utterly self serving. He is trying to ward off loss and banishment or something. A man completely reduced to a mud puddle.