Why would she do this?

[Plasticbucket]

Why would a woman be nice, seem to like me, have sex etc. and in the car on the way to her hotel have her hand on my thigh the whole way like she likes me and yet the last minute before I drop her off she insults me by "guessing" I watch cartoons in the night on my days off my night shift work?

 

[Spaz]

You do realise you're already posted a thread about this don't you?

Or is this another woman who has done exactly the same as the other one?

 

[Plasticbucket]

Maybe she wanted to have a one night stand but then she shıt tested me the last minute to see if she would like to meet me again? She's not in my country but maybe she will come here again if she likes me? I think she said she will go to the neighboring country this winter. I also think she said she would contact me if she comes to my city again. There was no sign of me watching cartoons so I was insulted because another woman told me cartoons are for children, and I have watched some cartoons lately. Also, why did she send pictures she took of me but not the pictures she took of me and her together? It's like she doesn't want there to be any proof we met.

 

[spinich]

Is your life so meaningless that this sh*t actually matters? Grow a pair, blow it off and get on to something of value.

 

[wifehunter]

She's inviting you to "drop a b!tch".

Accept the challenge, and move on.

Or you could buy her chocolates, and continue the insanity.

 

[Kotaix]

it's called a **** test. That's where you tell her you watch tentacle pr0n and you have a laugh about it together.

 

[Plasticbucket]

it's called a **** test. That's where you tell her you watch tentacle pr0n and you have a laugh about it together.

But I did watch cartoons lately so it insulted me because maybe she said it because she thinks I'm immature.

 

[Billtx49]

But I did watch cartoons lately so it insulted me because maybe she said it because she thinks I'm immature.

You watched cartoons lately, she guessed you watched cartoons = you were probably only talking like Spongebob…
So I wouldn’t read immaturity into being a 34 year old man watching cartoons if I were you…

 

[In2theGame]

lol

 

[Kotaix]

But I did watch cartoons lately so it insulted me because maybe she said it because she thinks I'm immature.

She teased you and you reacted emotionally to her teasing: that's a female reaction, and that was a fail on your part. Men control their emotions and don't let what others think affect their own self image, because they do what they do for their own pleasure and without guilt.

I had a date check my receding hairline the other day with her hand. You think I reacted or cared? It is what it is, take it or fvcking leave it. She didn't leave.

 

[Plasticbucket]

She teased you and you reacted emotionally to her teasing: that's a female reaction, and that was a fail on your part. Men control their emotions and don't let what others think affect their own self image, because they do what they do for their own pleasure and without guilt.

I had a date check my receding hairline the other day with her hand. You think I reacted or cared? It is what it is, take it or fvcking leave it. She didn't leave.

The point is I hadn't said a word about cartoons.

 

[Billtx49]

The point is I hadn't said a word about cartoons.

Then the only answer is she’s a psychic. Go get her back, she’ll always instinctively know what you want in the sack and when you need a sammich made…

 

[Kotaix]

The point is I hadn't said a word about cartoons.

So what? You still reacted emotionally to a sh!t test and it probably showed on your face at the time.

She likely doesn't care about watching cartoons. In fact she probably watches them herself (psychological projection and all that).

You asked why she did this. She did it to test you and see if you'll get butthurt when she comes up with stupid meaingless ways to test your confidence and emotional maturity. All women do this if they like you.

 

[Epic Days]

Should have escalated in the car? Fukked in the car? Got a bj in the car?

This has been posted before but closed down. He wants a definitive answer. Something he can grasp onto. Or he’s just a troll.

The truth is when she made that statement it affected you and she felt your reaction and resentment at her commenting on it. Just own that $hit and run with it. That way it becomes no big deal to her. If some hammerhead girl thinks that’s a deal breaker...lol
Watching cartoons is better than watching the news or some garbage girl show.

 

[Plasticbucket]

Should have escalated in the car? Fukked in the car? Got a bj in the car?

This has been posted before but closed down. He wants a definitive answer. Something he can grasp onto. Or he’s just a troll.

The truth is when she made that statement it affected you and she felt your reaction and resentment at her commenting on it. Just own that $hit and run with it. That way it becomes no big deal to her. If some hammerhead girl thinks that’s a deal breaker...lol
Watching cartoons is better than watching the news or some garbage girl show.

No I said yes I watch cartoons to her. What she thinks about that is not the issue.

 

[Plasticbucket]

So what? You still reacted emotionally to a sh!t test and it probably showed on your face at the time.

She likely doesn't care about watching cartoons. In fact she probably watches them herself (psychological projection and all that).

You asked why she did this. She did it to test you and see if you'll get butthurt when she comes up with stupid meaingless ways to test your confidence and emotional maturity. All women do this if they like you.

So how do I stop feeling insulted? Are you saying she didn't actually think I watch cartoons and she doesn't think I'm immature? The fact is I have watched cartoons so how did she guess that? She said she guessed. Did she in fact not guess but it's just coincidence and she only said it because she knew it would be insulting?

 

[spinich]

Why do you even care? Don't like it, move on. Pretty simple actually.

 

[spinich]

And as a follow up, why at your age do you watch cartoons?

 

[Plasticbucket]

Why do you even care? Don't like it, move on. Pretty simple actually.

Because she keeps texting me.

And as a follow up, why at your age do you watch cartoons?

Because it's comfy. Same reason you'd watch Mr Bean or whatever. Why are you asking? Does it matter?

 

[spinich]

Yes it matters to your own self respect and perceptions. Would it not be more productive to spend the time increasing your physical and mental prowess? Cartoons, unless porn based are directed to a 4-6 year old mentality. What am I missing when a MAN of your age finds this comforting in any way?