Who sees escorts?

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I would love to start a conversation here about men who see escorts instead of traditional dating or pick up methods.

I am 52 for the record, reasonably good looking and I am in great physical shape and work very hard at it. It’s not that I can’t get dates. I just eventually got worn the hell out by the complete game of the chase and courting and all that crap.

I have seen escorts on and off for 8 years. I can tell you that with escorts it is just so much easier. And no they are not all on drugs, crazy ass women who were abused by their fathers. Some of them are absolutely phenomenal.

And by the way, not only is it wayyyy less effort, it’s way less expensive than traditional dating.

I am super busy in my career. It’s so nice when everyone is on the same page and knows what’s expected.

Anyway please comment on your experiences. Or ask questions if you’re considering this and I’ve never done it.
 

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I would love to start a conversation here about men who see escorts instead of traditional dating or pick up methods.

I am 52 for the record, reasonably good looking and I am in great physical shape and work very hard at it. It’s not that I can’t get dates. I just eventually got worn the hell out by the complete game of the chase and courting and all that crap.

I have seen escorts on and off for 8 years. I can tell you that with escorts it is just so much easier. And no they are not all on drugs, crazy ass women who were abused by their fathers. Some of them are absolutely phenomenal.

I am super busy in my career. It’s so nice when everyone is on the same page and knows what’s expected.

Anyway please comment on your experiences. Or ask questions if you’re considering this and I’ve never done it.
The former consensus was it hurts your attraction and game in general. Since you lead with your wallet. Also the energy aspect is they are doing a job. They are not there due to an intense lust for you.
 

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The former consensus was it hurts your attraction and game in general. Since you lead with your wallet. Also the energy aspect is they are doing a job. They are not there due to an intense lust for you.
Precisely. They want money and I want some companionship and sex. Everyone wins.
 

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Precisely. They want money and I want some companionship and sex. Everyone wins.
It hurts your attraction outside of the escort interaction. So you can handicap yourself if you use it as a primary form of sex.
 

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I would love to start a conversation here about men who see escorts instead of traditional dating or pick up methods.

I am 52 for the record, reasonably good looking and I am in great physical shape and work very hard at it. It’s not that I can’t get dates. I just eventually got worn the hell out by the complete game of the chase and courting and all that crap.

I have seen escorts on and off for 8 years. I can tell you that with escorts it is just so much easier. And no they are not all on drugs, crazy ass women who were abused by their fathers. Some of them are absolutely phenomenal.

And by the way, not only is it wayyyy less effort, it’s way less expensive than traditional dating.

I am super busy in my career. It’s so nice when everyone is on the same page and knows what’s expected.

Anyway please comment on your experiences. Or ask questions if you’re considering this and I’ve never done it.
Good choice especially when in a new environment or country u r visiting whilst on business.

Plenty of savvy men doing it.
 

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Respectfully disagree.
If I'm travelling to Hong Kong from Kuala Lumpur with the explicit reason just to have dinner with a client, I'll hire the best escort in KL and have her accompany me to seal a good deal.

There's a lot of uses for a high end sophisticated escort, effectively disarming a client and making him more opened to my suggestions.

In the end Spaz always win.
 

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I would love to start a conversation here about men who see escorts instead of traditional dating or pick up methods.

I am 52 for the record, reasonably good looking and I am in great physical shape and work very hard at it. It’s not that I can’t get dates. I just eventually got worn the hell out by the complete game of the chase and courting and all that crap.

I have seen escorts on and off for 8 years. I can tell you that with escorts it is just so much easier. And no they are not all on drugs, crazy ass women who were abused by their fathers. Some of them are absolutely phenomenal.

And by the way, not only is it wayyyy less effort, it’s way less expensive than traditional dating.

I am super busy in my career. It’s so nice when everyone is on the same page and knows what’s expected.

Anyway please comment on your experiences. Or ask questions if you’re considering this and I’ve never done it.
I visited two escorts. First one was Suzy from Columbia on December 4, 2014 in the evening (actual time of encounter has faded from memory and I just have an outline). The cost was $ 60.00. I danced with her nude. I smelled her body. Felt her hair. Felt her naked breasts on my breasts. I hugged her tight, I squeezed her bum tight and started kissing her all over her face (cheeks) and smelling her face and hair while hugging her up while she was nude. She sat on my lap. She had a cinnamon olive complexion and was voluptuous with a large bum. I refused to take off my underware. She asked me if I wanted to *** her and I refused. She took off her panties and bent over but it still would not get hard.

AFTER_EFFECT: There was no tangible after effect. This was a gateway drug. There was only a desire to see a more slvttier escort so see if I would get hard and explode.

Dec 5, 2014 before midnight. Visited Bianca. It was actually accidental since I intended to visit someone else, but she came on the scene and said she was busy. I'm not going to go into detail with this, but I would say this went too far. Same cost, $ 60. I handed three green $20 to her. She let me use the washroom first (I had to pay her before using their washroom).

Near the end of the session, I felt like a spiritual snake from the prostitute bit me, or felt something "off" just after orgasm next to the prostitute. (didn't go inside her and shifted her to the side so she could not insert her vag on top of my c0ck).

(Before visiting Bianca (she was from Brazil and was there for two months (as she claimed) -- I told her she was the second prostitute I visited but didn't go into detail with her about the Columbian prostitute I talked about previously)

AFTER_EFFECT: Full blown demonic panic attack the next day. Unable to eat, sleep, drive, thoughts running while, felt I worshipped the devil by dealing with that last prostitute and needed an exorcism. Felt nauseated and almost like throwing up. Could not look at movies, could not masturate, could not enjoy coffee, pancakes with maple syrup, or eat anything. Felt like something was trying to take my soul, or part my soul was lost to this prostitute. Could not drive on the same street area where the incall was located as I felt I'd be vortexed into another dimension. Have not visited another prostitute since this time.

Some Horror movies I've seen since then was called "It Follows", 2014. (watched on netflix last year - didn't see it before visiting these escorts or getting these panic attacks) Not to lesson what I experienced, this movie certainly has aspects of what I experienced. Something follows you and you can't get rid of it easily. I'm just glad its gone now.

My mom helped me through this time and we both called out on Jesus Christ for Him to get rid of that demon(s) that followed me from that escort and tormented me that month. I thank Jesus that I'm doing great today!
 
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If I'm travelling to Hong Kong from Kuala Lumpur with the explicit reason just to have dinner with a client, I'll hire the best escort in KL and have her accompany me to seal a good deal.

There's a lot of uses for a high end sophisticated escort, effectively disarming a client and making him more opened to my suggestions.

In the end Spaz always win.
Not sure that would work on all business dudes. I've been down that road before.. Didn't phase me a bit. Then again, we were there for business. It's important for a dude to stay on task and complete his objective. It would only work on weak minded dudes.
 

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Not sure that would work on all business dudes. I've been down that road before.. Didn't phase me a bit. Then again, we were there for business. It's important for a dude to stay on task and complete his objective. It would only work on weak minded dudes.
I don't sell stuff with an invoice value of mere hundreds or even of a few lousy thousand.

Different levels of business buddy which will require an extra touch of ingenuity and a personal touch to come out the winner.

You're yet to hear how I smooth things over with officers of various countries...it would positively soil a virgins undergarment.

In the end, like I said in my 1st post, when in a new environment whilst on business it's a good idea to have escorts on ur phone, not those cheap shiet but those costing at least USD 1.5k per day, key is to hire those with law degrees or multimedia degrees.
 

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I visited two escorts. First one was Suzy from Columbia on December 4, 2014 in the evening (actual time of encounter has faded from memory and I just have an outline). The cost was $ 60.00. I danced with her nude. I smelled her body. Felt her hair. Felt her naked breasts on my breasts. I hugged her tight, I squeezed her bum tight and started kissing her all over her face (cheeks) and smelling her face and hair while hugging her up while she was nude. She sat on my lap. She had a cinnamon olive complexion and was voluptuous with a large bum. I refused to take off my underware. She asked me if I wanted to *** her and I refused. She took off her panties and bent over but it still would not get hard.

AFTER_EFFECT: There was no tangible after effect. This was a gateway drug. There was only a desire to see a more slvttier escort so see if I would get hard and explode.

Dec 5, 2014 before midnight. Visited Bianca. It was actually accidental since I intended to visit someone else, but she came on the scene and said she was busy. I'm not going to go into detail with this, but I would say this went too far. Same cost, $ 60. I handed three green $20 to her. She let me use the washroom first (I had to pay her before using their washroom).

Near the end of the session, I felt like a spiritual snake from the prostitute bit me, or felt something "off" just after orgasm next to the prostitute. (didn't go inside her and shifted her to the side so she could not insert her vag on top of my c0ck).

(Before visiting Bianca (she was from Brazil and was there for two months (as she claimed) -- I told her she was the second prostitute I visited but didn't go into detail with her about the Columbian prostitute I talked about previously)

AFTER_EFFECT: Full blown demonic panic attack the next day. Unable to eat, sleep, drive, thoughts running while, felt I worshipped the devil by dealing with that last prostitute and needed an exorcism. Felt nauseated and almost like throwing up. Could not look at movies, could not masturate, could not enjoy coffee, pancakes with maple syrup, or eat anything. Felt like something was trying to take my soul, or part my soul was lost to this prostitute. Could not drive on the same street area where the incall was located as I felt I'd be vortexed into another dimension. Have not visited another prostitute since this time.

Some Horror movies I've seen since then was called "It Follows", 2014. (watched on netflix last year - didn't see it before visiting these escorts or getting these panic attacks) Not to lesson what I experienced, this movie certainly has aspects of what I experienced. Something follows you and you can't get rid of it easily. I'm just glad its gone now.

My mom helped me through this time and we both called out on Jesus Christ for Him to get rid of that demon(s) that followed me from that escort and tormented me that month. I thank Jesus that I'm doing great today!
It's called guilt and shame. Nothing supernatural about it.
 

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I don't sell stuff with an invoice value of mere hundreds or even of a few lousy thousand.

Different levels of business buddy which will require an extra touch of ingenuity and a personal touch to come out the winner.

You're yet to hear how I smooth things over with officers of various countries...it would positively soil a virgins undergarment.

In the end, like I said in my 1st post, when in a new environment whilst on business it's a good idea to have escorts on ur phone, not those cheap shiet but those costing at least USD 1.5k per day, key is to hire those with law degrees or multimedia degrees.
Again, at least in the US, I respectfully disagree. In my former life, I wasn't selling things or services for just a few grand... I've been around the block a bit. That sh!t wouldn't fly; especially with the dudes with buku bucks.
 
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It's called guilt and shame. Nothing supernatural about it.
Let's just call it 2 demons named guilt and shame, more palatable to him.

Otherwise he might just think he's stupid and start to go mental.
 

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Again, at least in the US, I respectfully disagree. In my former life, I wasn't selling things or services for a few grand... I've been around a block a bit. That sh!t wouldn't fly; especially with the dudes with buku bucks.
You seem to think that Americans are immune.

I wonder how did a few American Admirals got caught in a bribery scandal a few years ago...

They were greased with escorts and holidays by clever guys.

I know guys from Caterpillar and Cummins roaming the same places I go. I know what they're doing too. I even know their names.
 

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It's just entertainment.. happy massage is not something that eats your soul.

Atleast h00kers are honest

How many interactions in the "bar scene" are honest?

Some get addicted to drugs, alcohol, exercise, eating and gambling etc. Don't over do it...
 

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I would love to start a conversation here about men who see escorts instead of traditional dating or pick up methods.

I am 52 for the record, reasonably good looking and I am in great physical shape and work very hard at it. It’s not that I can’t get dates. I just eventually got worn the hell out by the complete game of the chase and courting and all that crap.

I have seen escorts on and off for 8 years. I can tell you that with escorts it is just so much easier. And no they are not all on drugs, crazy ass women who were abused by their fathers. Some of them are absolutely phenomenal.

And by the way, not only is it wayyyy less effort, it’s way less expensive than traditional dating.

I am super busy in my career. It’s so nice when everyone is on the same page and knows what’s expected.

Anyway please comment on your experiences. Or ask questions if you’re considering this and I’ve never done it.
Depending on the location, you might run a higher risk of getting an STD from girl next door than from a professional prostitute. (Think about all members on this forum who caught an STD or met a girl who confessed having an STD)

In my hometown you have Massage spas for men (About $50 and up for an half an hour), Strip clubs (They will let you bang the stripper for about $150 and up), and professional Agency scorts (Similar starting price as the strip club for some girls but most will be more expensive, like $500)

There are cheaper options from the above, but those are shady places so its a big no-no. There´s also online stuff similar to craigslist, also a big no-no.

Now here´s what I can gather from years of conversations with friends and other online locals. It would be possible that a professional scort from a professional agency has an std but it would be very, very rare. I´ve still haven´t met a local in person that got an std from a professional agency scort. Every once in a blue moon, a local will post online about an scort having a std, but most of the time is fake info orchestrated by another Agency (the competition)

Similar thing with massage spas from men. An std would be very very rare because the owners of the spas run medical tests for the girls every two weeks.

Most strip clubs have stds, except for the most expensive one in the city because it doubles as a massage spa for men.

So, in here, you just stay away from all shady stuff and most strip clubs; and have a blast with massage spas and professional scort agencys.

But you are probably from the United States, were prostitution is illegal in most of the territory, so most of it is shady I guess. So most members in here will tell you to stay away from prostitutes.

It´s your life op. Go with your gut. You´ll probably get tired of prostitutes and will like to feel the thrill of "the hunt" once again. Eventually you will get tired of playing games and return to prostitutes. Me personally, I think you should mix it up.
 

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You seem to think that Americans are immune.

I wonder how did a few American Admirals got caught in a bribery scandal a few years ago...

They were greased with escorts and holidays by clever guys.

I know guys from Caterpillar and Cummins roaming the same places I go. I know what they're doing too. I even know their names.
I've been in three industries. Finance, construction, and government. Hung around mostly c-suite men, never heard of it. I've had ladies come on to me because of my influence, but never went after it for obvious reasons. However, it may be different in your neck of the woods. I also don't fly much, so that could be an issue too.
 

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Depending on the location, you might run a higher risk of getting an STD from girl next door than from a professional prostitute. (Think about all members on this forum who caught an STD or met a girl who confessed having an STD)

In my hometown you have Massage spas for men (About $50 and up for an half an hour), Strip clubs (They will let you bang the stripper for about $150 and up), and professional Agency scorts (Similar starting price as the strip club for some girls but most will be more expensive, like $500)

There are cheaper options from the above, but those are shady places so its a big no-no. There´s also online stuff similar to craigslist, also a big no-no.
I used the cheaper online routes such as backpage in Dec 2014.

Richardthefrog, often uses backpage. He used to post allot here.

If the issues of my experience being more of a mental/spiritual fall-out could be partly due to the fact a cheap escort sees a wider range of men with more frequency and that higher type of traffic and that comes across more disgusting to deal with them. At some point such a place feels like a dirty public *** washroom that you feel sick that you used.

You can manage an encounter with an escort so that STD (non-demonic/spiritual) is at nill, all you do is just don't penetrate her and have a condom on. Even if an escort is loaded with STDs, if you just have some type of outercourse (and that itself can be totally intense if she is hot), then the risk of catching the STD is nill.

The other aspect of guilt is that the price paid to set-up the encounter, if it's too cheap, makes you feel like there is something wrong with the girl, or the set-up itself which is why it is that cheap. If you paid more money then it may feel more like a tangible balance of financial pain to the pleasure, rather than feeling like you are taking advantage of someone and feel bad to them as to how they ended up there and if I have enough class to not stoop that low. Without that balance I think the mind could go into a tailspin and create its own balance against that pleasure.
 
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