Threesome With My Current Plate

[soulforge]

Guys so currently one of my plates is showing interest in taking part in a threesome with me and another chick.. or maybe even a couple join us.

But at the same time, she is pushing for Girlfriend status.

I have written her off as relationship material, as the list of red flags is SKY HIGH.

01.Occasional Cocain Use (Socially)
02.Fuked me on the first date
03.She did some nude modelling in the past
04.She had a threesome in the past
05.Toxic ex relationship


So my question is this... Give her the illusion of a relationship?

Or tell her straight up, we are fuk buddies and nothing more than that..Ever!

I have attached one of her modelling pics, as you can see, nice figure on this chick.

 

[backseatjuan]

You said your age is what? 45? I didn't think you're that old. What threesome dude, it's time to merry and get some kids going. This is as good as they come, ltr man.

 

[Spaz]

On the girlfriend status, I'd respond with....may the best women win my affections.

Leave it at that, it's the truth and she'll prolly take it as a challenge whilst grudgingly accepting you taking other women in ur life.

 

[Spaz]

You said your age is what? 45? I didn't think you're that old. What threesome dude, it's time to merry and get some kids going. This is as good as they come, ltr man.

I know some men in their 40's or 50's who married young girls that's in their early 20's, had kids and are deliriously happy playing daddy.

 

[soulforge]

You said your age is what? 45? I didn't think you're that old. What threesome dude, it's time to merry and get some kids going. This is as good as they come, ltr man.

Marriage and kids.. I'm not feeling SUICIDAL right now...

 

[soulforge]

I know some men in their 40's or 50's who married young girls that's in their early 20's, had kids and are deliriously happy playing daddy.

On the girlfriend status, I'd respond with....may the best women win my affections.

Leave it at that, it's the truth and she'll prolly take it as a challenge whilst grudgingly accepting you taking other women in ur life.

I like this approach... If I tell her, she is fuk buddy ONLY chances are she will drop off.. Maybe keep her guessing or working for the never to be relationship.

 

[AJ84]

On the girlfriend status, I'd respond with....may the best women win my affections.

Leave it at that, it's the truth and she'll prolly take it as a challenge whilst grudgingly accepting you taking other women in ur life.

He’s talking about a threesome, not two girls wanting to be his girlfriend. He indicated that it could be another couple so doesn’t sound like it’s a competition, just a girl who has had a threesome before and is open to doing it again but he doesn’t want her as a girlfriend, just causal with a threesome.

He can always use the ‘I’m not sure about a relationship at this point but I really like being with you and am enjoying it blah blah’. It’s up to her then, how long she will stick around.

 

[Spaz]

He’s talking about a threesome, not two girls wanting to be his girlfriend. He indicated that it could be another couple so doesn’t sound like it’s a competition, just a girl who has had a threesome before and is open to doing it again but he doesn’t want her as a girlfriend, just causal with a threesome.

He can always use the ‘I’m not sure about a relationship at this point but I really like being with you and am enjoying it blah blah’. It’s up to her then, how long she will stick around.

I know exactly what's he's asking. I've put him at an advantage.

Whilst ur advice is what white knights should be doing and puts women at an advantage.

Let the game begin...

 

[AJ84]

I know exactly what's he's asking. I've put him at an advantage.

Whilst ur advice is what white knights should be doing and puts women at an advantage.

Let the game begin...

How is what I said putting women at an advantage? He doesn’t want her as a girlfriend, but he wants the threesome so needs to find a way to pacify her push to be a girlfriend in order to get the threesome and whatever else she may be into.
There will always be plates, there won’t always be plates who are into threesomes.

I’m suggesting he not blow it by saying something that will push her away, just by throwing her a bone without actually saying she will be his girlfriend.
‘I don’t know where things will be in the future, I try to take it day by day but I am enjoying being with you’ that kind of stuff. It’s not even a lie if he does enjoy her company and is having fun with her.
Then it’s on her how long she wants to stick around after that and she will stick around for a bit at least, hopefully long enough to get the threesome going.

IMO saying ‘may the best woman win my affections’ may deter women who have options. Also most women don’t begrudgingly settle for being exclusive with a guy who is seeing other women, not in the western cultures anyway.

I saw her pic. She has options. I bet there’s a lot of men who would be thrilled to have a threesome with her. And I bet she knows that. Ultimately, it’s her decision on whether or not she has a threesome with him, not his, and he needs to play this right in order to get that. Or he can find another girl who is into threesomes, but they don’t fall from the trees so this is an opportunity that a lot of men will never get.

Maybe your line of thinking works where you are, where Asian women are used to competing for foreign men and men having girls on the side, I just don’t see it working as well where he is.

 

[Wrenched]

Sounds like she's got to work out some issues. I personally try to avoid relationships with self destructive women

 

[Spaz]

How is what I said putting women at an advantage? He doesn’t want her as a girlfriend, but he wants the threesome so needs to find a way to pacify her push to be a girlfriend in order to get the threesome and whatever else she may be into.
There will always be plates, there won’t always be plates who are into threesomes.

I’m suggesting he not blow it by saying something that will push her away, just by throwing her a bone without actually saying she will be his girlfriend.
‘I don’t know where things will be in the future, I try to take it day by day but I am enjoying being with you’ that kind of stuff. It’s not even a lie if he does enjoy her company and is having fun with her.
Then it’s on her how long she wants to stick around after that and she will stick around for a bit at least, hopefully long enough to get the threesome going.

IMO saying ‘may the best woman win my affections’ may deter women who have options. Also most women don’t begrudgingly settle for being exclusive with a guy who is seeing other women, not in the western cultures anyway.

I saw her pic. She has options. I bet there’s a lot of men who would be thrilled to have a threesome with her. And I bet she knows that. Ultimately, it’s her decision on whether or not she has a threesome with him, not his, and he needs to play this right in order to get that. Or he can find another girl who is into threesomes, but they don’t fall from the trees so this is an opportunity that a lot of men will never get.

Maybe your line of thinking works where you are, where Asian women are used to competing for foreign men and men having girls on the side, I just don’t see it working as well where he is.

Such a long post for something so simple.

The threesome is not the question, it's just noise.

And ur post is mostly just plenty of bird noises aimed at white knighting men.

The question he posed is the question I answered directly - how to sidestep the girlfriend part.

You seem so troubled by it.

It's that good huh ?

 

[soulforge]

How is what I said putting women at an advantage? He doesn’t want her as a girlfriend, but he wants the threesome so needs to find a way to pacify her push to be a girlfriend in order to get the threesome and whatever else she may be into.
There will always be plates, there won’t always be plates who are into threesomes.

I’m suggesting he not blow it by saying something that will push her away, just by throwing her a bone without actually saying she will be his girlfriend.
‘I don’t know where things will be in the future, I try to take it day by day but I am enjoying being with you’ that kind of stuff. It’s not even a lie if he does enjoy her company and is having fun with her.
Then it’s on her how long she wants to stick around after that and she will stick around for a bit at least, hopefully long enough to get the threesome going.

IMO saying ‘may the best woman win my affections’ may deter women who have options. Also most women don’t begrudgingly settle for being exclusive with a guy who is seeing other women, not in the western cultures anyway.

I saw her pic. She has options. I bet there’s a lot of men who would be thrilled to have a threesome with her. And I bet she knows that. Ultimately, it’s her decision on whether or not she has a threesome with him, not his, and he needs to play this right in order to get that. Or he can find another girl who is into threesomes, but they don’t fall from the trees so this is an opportunity that a lot of men will never get.

Maybe your line of thinking works where you are, where Asian women are used to competing for foreign men and men having girls on the side, I just don’t see it working as well where he is.

Your on the money here mate... Spaz is talking out of his ass AGAIN.

First of all, plates come and go... But a plate with a 9/10 body who is willing to give me threesomes with other HOT chicks on a regular basis, is NOT something you land on every day.

Obviously I don't want a relationship with her, but I don't want to make her feel like she is only a Cvm dumpster either, as this chick has options, and will be gone.

If she drops off, I don't give a fuk.. However I want to at least have some crazy fun with her before she drops off.

Here is another picture of her... I may have to give her the illusion of a relationship.

 

[AJ84]

Such a long post for something so simple.

The threesome is not the question, it's just noise.

And ur post is mostly just plenty of bird noises aimed at white knighting men.

The question he posed is the question I answered directly - how to sidestep the girlfriend part.

You seem so troubled by it.

It's that good huh ?

The threesome is the title of his thread so....

And I provided input on how to sidestep the girlfriend part while still getting what he wants in the least arrogant way.

I’m not sure how that’s aimed at white knighting men.

Spaz we are both on the same page about getting him to side step the whole girlfriend push, we just seem to disagree on the method.

Again, in Thailand or whatever you are it may be different because women treat foreign men like kings, according to almost very article about men going to those places and meeting girls.

In the West, men have to have a different game plan other than “compete for me fair ladies! May the best maiden win!”

He already said he didn’t want her as a gf but he wants to continue to date her and there’s the opportunity for a threesome. So I’m assuming this is about how to get what he wants in this situation. How often do girls want to arrange threesomes with the guy they are dating? This may be a once in a lifetime thing and he is in a good position to make it happen.

 

[AJ84]

Your on the money here mate... Spaz is talking out of his ass AGAIN.

First of all, plates come and go... But a plate with a 9/10 body who is willing to give me threesomes with other HOT chicks on a regular basis, is NOT something you land on every day.

Obviously I don't want a relationship with her, but I don't want to make her feel like she is only a Cvm dumpster either, as this chick has options, and will be gone.

If she drops off, I don't give a fuk.. However I want to at least have some crazy fun with her before she drops off.

Here is another picture of her... I may have to give her the illusion of a relationship.

I’m a female FYI, and while I don’t want to endorse leading her on, women do this to men all the time too so I’m going to ignore my own stuff and say that telling her you want to ‘take it day by day, you enjoy your time with her but you try not to look ahead too much because you have been disappointed in the past (or some excuse) and you want to just let things happen and fall where they may’ blah blah blah is pretty effective and I’m going to be kicked out of the girl club for saying that but it’s true. It works for a time, the length of which depends on the girl in question.

 

[sazc]

Lol @AJ84 consider not taking that bait. It's all about provoking someone to obtain back and forth engagement, to further push buttons, provoke and keep attention, and is rooted in a need for attention. IMO its not worth the time.

@soulforge this is the chick that wasn't texting you unless you texted first? Interesting turn of events. Glad you feel as if you are in a better place.

 

[soulforge]

Lol @AJ84 consider not taking that bait. It's all about provoking someone to obtain back and forth engagement, to further push buttons, provoke and keep attention, and is rooted in a need for attention. IMO its not worth the time.

@soulforge this is the chick that wasn't texting you unless you texted first? Interesting turn of events. Glad you feel as if you are in a better place.

No this is another one sacz.. I still talk to that one, but communication is minimum lol

 

[AJ84]

Lol @AJ84 consider not taking that bait. It's all about provoking someone to obtain back and forth engagement, to further push buttons, provoke and keep attention, and is rooted in a need for attention. IMO its not worth the time.

@soulforge this is the chick that wasn't texting you unless you texted first? Interesting turn of events. Glad you feel as if you are in a better place.

Good point, but I’m wondering how he can capitalize on her motivations. what I’m thinking is here is a very hot girl who many men would want as a girlfriend and she wants to be his gf, and he isn’t falling at her feet. It may be enticing to someone like her who as a model is probably used to men giving her a lot of attention.
How can he use this to his advantage in a way where it keeps the door open for a while (until she moves on when she doesn’t get the relationship). He said he doesn’t want to give her the impression that’s she’s just a sperm deposit so some kind of carrot that doesn’t place him in a bad light and isn’t 100%a lie. She’s into him and is open to a threesome. The recipe is ready just gotta find out what temp to set the oven.

 

[backseatjuan]

Whilst ur advice is what white knights should be doing and puts women at an advantage.

What else do you expect from a woman?

 

[Spaz]

What else do you expect from a woman?

I don't expect her to do anything less.

It's expected.

I also expected OP to cave under pressure.

 

[AJ84]

I don't expect her to do anything less.

It's expected.

I also expected OP to cave under pressure.

To cave under the pressure of what? A threesome? How is trying to find ways of making his wish come true a female thing or whatever you think is happening here?

Am I suggesting he bow at her feet, start buying her jewellery and fancy dinners, profess his love to her Disney style?

What am I saying that would be vastly different than what someone who doesn’t have a vagina would say?