Went out with the Spanish MILF again over the weekend

[sangheilios]

This past weekend I went out with the Spanish milf again, this was our 3rd time going out together. I picked her up and we went out for drinks and appetizers, again I kept it to the $20 rule so it wasn't all that expensive. I had a really long day so I was pretty tired but I had a pretty good time. Anyway, when we were together she was talking about how she likes my lips, arms, body, etc. She turned the conversation over to her body and was discussing her measurements and how it's hard to find certain clothes that fit well. She was going on about her boobs, 36dds, and how they looked in bras, etc. She has a really nice body and is pretty so I was aroused to say the least. She was also asking me if I was the first latina I've been out with, which she isn't, and then she asked me about them. I just kept it basic details, like how old they were, what they were built like, etc. After the date I brought her back home and I asked her if she'd like to watch a movie there together, she said she really wanted to but her kids were home and she didn't feel it was appropriate, which I understood.

We texted a bit here and there and the other day she wasn't working so I asked if she'd like to come over to my place to watch a movie and hang out. She ended up asking me what I was looking for, and if I was looking for a girlfriend/relationship or not because she couldn't tell. I told her what it was that I was looking for, which was just to take her out on fun dates, enjoy her company, etc. but that I wasn't looking for anything serious yet.

I'm not really sure if I'm wasting my time here or if she is just taking her time to make sure I'm not a player.

 

[backseatjuan]

Excellent. You bigdave like everyone else is saying? Last time I gave you advice about spanish chick, that you should fck her. Now let me understand it, this is a 3rd date in, and all you doing is getting her out to feed her some food and drinks.

Well that is your problem bigdave, you are an attention whre on forums and you don't do sht in real life. Obviously nothing I can write will do anything for you, so whatever.

 

[greatsnake]

You should have pulled off a move as soon as she started talking about you bro! She was basically checking you out!

Escalate, escalate!

 

[sangheilios]

You should have pulled off a move as soon as she started talking about you bro! She was basically checking you out!

Escalate, escalate!

That's why I asked her if she wanted to go watch a movie at her place afterwards.

 

[marmel75]

That's why I asked her if she wanted to go watch a movie at her place afterwards.

Dude you dont get it...you tried to go from 0 to 100...you did not escalate AT ALL in date when given the opportunity to bring her up from 0 to 50 prior to suggesting the movie...its a lot easier to bring her from 50 to 100 than 0 to 100...

You escalate in date so at the end of the date you already have her at least half way to the finish line...you dont wait til the end of the date to try and go all the way from start to finish...that rarely works

 

[sangheilios]

Dude you dont get it...you tried to go from 0 to 100...you did not escalate AT ALL in date when given the opportunity to bring her up from 0 to 50 prior to suggesting the movie...its a lot easier to bring her from 50 to 100 than 0 to 100...

You escalate in date so at the end of the date you already have her at least half way to the finish line...you dont wait til the end of the date to try and go all the way from start to finish...that rarely works

That's not really what this thread is about

 

[marmel75]

That's not really what this thread is about

How is it not? You had a golden opportunity and you didnt take advantage of it. Seems to be a common theme in your threads.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think your next meetup is a movie date and drink at your house.

 

[sangheilios]

How is it not? You had a golden opportunity and you didnt take advantage of it. Seems to be a common theme in your threads.

What are you talking about, I asked her if she wanted to watch a movie at her place after the date, which means some potential alone time. She then said she wanted to invite me in but couldn't because her 2 kids were home, either this was just a rejection or an honest and understandable decision on her part. A couple days after that I had invited her over to my place for a movie, which again is alone time, which is where she responded by asking me what it was I was looking for.

 

[sangheilios]

I think your next meetup is a movie date and drink at your house.

I already tried doing that, I had mentioned all of this on the original post.

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[mrgoodstuff]

I already tried doing that, I had mentioned all of this on the original post.

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Its not going to be able to happen outside that. No more dates or time wasted upon her. Talk to others. Read the "lovers of many wonen" that i discussed.

 

[marmel75]

What are you talking about, I asked her if she wanted to watch a movie at her place after the date, which means some potential alone time. She then said she wanted to invite me in but couldn't because her 2 kids were home, either this was just a rejection or an honest and understandable decision on her part. A couple days after that I had invited her over to my place for a movie, which again is alone time, which is where she responded by asking me what it was I was looking for.

No bro..no.

Reread what i just posted. What did you do prior to that to warm her up to that potential ending? Nothing. Do you think if you had her all hot and bothered from escalating prior to that she would have cared about the kids being there? Maybe but maybe not...you need to understand how to get from point A to point D better...you want to go from Point A to Point D without having to go to Point B and Point C first but it doesnt work like that usually.

 

[sangheilios]

No bro..no.

Reread what i just posted. What did you do prior to that to warm her up to that potential ending? Nothing. Do you think if you had her all hot and bothered from escalating prior to that she would have cared about the kids being there? Maybe but maybe not...you need to understand how to get from point A to point D better...you want to go from Point A to Point D without having to go to Point B and Point C first but it doesnt work like that usually.

Or she could just be looking for a free date and is acting like that just to lead me on. I haven't heard from her since I invited her over, which was when she asked me what I was looking for.

 

[sangheilios]

Its not going to be able to happen outside that. No more dates or time wasted upon her. Talk to others. Read the "lovers of many wonen" that i discussed.

I know, but it's so hard for me to meet any women where I'm at that are actually attractive and I'm interested in. The women where I am get locked down pretty young. Outside that, there are a lot of women here who do drugs and are just trashy overall, which isn't something I'm interested in, or they are just unattractive and boring.

The pickings are slim here, unfortunately. I exercise regularly and take care of myself, but all the women at the gym are already taken and if they aren't taken they are just massive attention *****s.

I realize it is ideal to talk to multiple women, but that is far easier said than done when there are just no opportunities out there.

 

[marmel75]

Or she could just be looking for a free date and is acting like that just to lead me on. I haven't heard from her since I invited her over, which was when she asked me what I was looking for.

Or she could be waiting for you to act like a man and stop making up BS excuses afterwards for your inaction and wrong moves in date.

 

[allancc3]

I know, but it's so hard for me to meet any women where I'm at that are actually attractive and I'm interested in. The women where I am get locked down pretty young. Outside that, there are a lot of women here who do drugs and are just trashy overall, which isn't something I'm interested in, or they are just unattractive and boring.

The pickings are slim here, unfortunately. I exercise regularly and take care of myself, but all the women at the gym are already taken and if they aren't taken they are just massive attention *****s.

I realize it is ideal to talk to multiple women, but that is far easier said than done when there are just no opportunities out there.

BigDave17 attention whoring it up once again. This is not for that fvcker, but yeah, chances of sex drop drastically after the third date. BigDave17 back in the friendzone...

Same ol' schtick, new screen name. Gym rat, check. The best looking man in Armenia/the gym/the club, check. Top car salesman in metro chicago area vs. cryptocurrency millions, check. Loves armenian/latin women, check. Dating is hopeless attention whoring, check. Posting stupid extreme sh1t to bump his own thread indefinitely, check.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I know, but it's so hard for me to meet any women where I'm at that are actually attractive and I'm interested in. The women where I am get locked down pretty young. Outside that, there are a lot of women here who do drugs and are just trashy overall, which isn't something I'm interested in, or they are just unattractive and boring.

The pickings are slim here, unfortunately. I exercise regularly and take care of myself, but all the women at the gym are already taken and if they aren't taken they are just massive attention *****s.

I realize it is ideal to talk to multiple women, but that is far easier said than done when there are just no opportunities out there.

A lover of all women.

 

[sangheilios]

Or she could be waiting for you to act like a man and stop making up BS excuses afterwards for your inaction and wrong moves in date.

Huh? I already told you I've tried inviting her over and creating opportunities for that to happen lol. I already told you I tried to invite her over to watch a movie on a day she was free, meaning not after this particular date.

It's like you haven't even read the posts I have left on here.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Huh? I already told you I've tried inviting her over and creating opportunities for that to happen lol. I already told you I tried to invite her over to watch a movie on a day she was free, meaning not after this particular date.

Get someone else over. Be always talking to several unless they are fvcking. Talking to several lets you easily see which ones are going with you and the others who are going against you.

 

[sangheilios]

Get someone else over. Be always talking to several unless they are fvcking. Talking to several lets you easily see which ones are going with you and the others who are going against you.

I already told you it's hard to find anything out here and that I'm aware of all this. It's like I'm repeating myself over and over and over lol.