Why did she ghost?

[GoodOne123]

See my responses below.

Thanks for the advice Espi.

I notice I beat myself up a lot when stuff like this may happen, and always assume it's all my fault. It's a bad habit and just wears down my confidence. I'm going to stop doing that.

 

[Glassguy]

The first thing that jumps out at me:

Why are you passing HER tests? You are qualifying YOURself?

Shouldnt it be the other way around?

Stop falling for this trap. You made yourself WAAAAYYYYYY too available. Why? Because you dont have a solid rotation.

 

[Vivacity]

She said I passed her tests

She said I passed her tests

She said I passed her tests

She said I passed her tests

She said I passed her tests

 

[Murk]

You should have closed after the club, I’m not buying her friend needed looking after, what at 4am from her drunk friend?

Second mistake was agreeing to go on a date before she was going to a party, what are you the warm up act for chad to bang her while drunk? Should always date in evening/night with a view to bang.

Don’t text her while on holiday, she’s having fun fvcking foreign men with tans and muscles, she doesn’t need you begging right now.

 

[GoodOne123]

You should have closed after the club, I’m not buying her friend needed looking after, what at 4am from her drunk friend?

Second mistake was agreeing to go on a date before she was going to a party, what are you the warm up act for chad to bang her while drunk? Should always date in evening/night with a view to bang.

Don’t text her while on holiday, she’s having fun fvcking foreign men with tans and muscles, she doesn’t need you begging right now.

I saw the friend after grabbing the food. She was not looking good at all and was about to pass out. So I let her off with that one.

I agreed to go out during that time because I was interested in her on a personal level. She seemed interested in me as a person the night we met, telling me she rarely has deep conversations like she had with me, and likes I'm mature.

I know why you may think I was dumb not to go straight for sex, but she really gave the impression she was different, and more to her than just a party girl. I cared to spend time with her to get to know her better, and didn't want to put her off by forcing myself on her from the get go.

Plus I'm getting tired of messing with these hos. I want something more meaningful, some companionship, like meybe an LTR or at least a short term relationship.

This experience with this girl has just been a let down lol

 

[GoodOne123]

The first thing that jumps out at me:

Why are you passing HER tests? You are qualifying YOURself?

Shouldnt it be the other way around?

Stop falling for this trap. You made yourself WAAAAYYYYYY too available. Why? Because you dont have a solid rotation.

That was a comment she made at the end of our first date. I was not aware of what her test was or when she was testing me.

I just replied relaxed and said that that's good that I passed her tests.

If what i said was wrong then how should I have responded?

 

[Glassguy]

That was a comment she made at the end of our first date. I was not aware of what her test was or when she was testing me.

I just replied relaxed and said that that's good that I passed her tests.

If what i said was wrong then how should I have responded?

Her: you passed my tests
Me: yeah I always do. You still have quite a few more yet to pass

 

[Atom Smasher]

Exactly. You must let a girl know early on that you are judging her. This is vitally important. it is YOU who should make the first comment about whether or not she qualifies (in a lighthearted way).

I cannot stress the importance of this enough.

Women don't want to be judging a man. They want a man who they can look up to and who qualifies them.

I don't think I would ever classify a 20 year old as a “woman”, however. At that age they have their heads completely up their butts and have very little common sense. I felt that way about them when I was 20 by the way.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I met a girl about a month ago at a nightclub. We made out on the dancefloor for ages. I went and got some food with her after the club closed. She said how she loves how mature I am and enjoys talking to me too. Couldn't get her back to my place since her friend was sick and she needed to take care of her. Anyways I got her number.

She is 20 and I am 25. She gave the impression to be more mature and care to find someone to have an LTR with. She was also my type in terms of looks.

We went on a first date at a bar 3 days after. She said how she rarely has such good conversation, and she had an amazing time. She said I passed her tests, that she prefers me over the other guys she typically meets, and she would like me to text her again. I didnt bother trying to get her back to my place since she had to leave the date to go to a birthday party.

Around another 3 days after we go for a second date at another bar. She mentioned how she is travelling early the following morning. I took this as a high sign of interest since she has bothered to show up the night before going on holiday.

The second date goes well. She mentions how glad she is that she got to see me another time just before going on holiday. She promised me to buy me a gift when she returns. She also said she had an amazing time with me.

I told her to text me when she got back. I Also texted her a week into her holiday asking how she was. I have heard no response and confident that she has now ghosted me.

What gives? We had a great time and seemed to be going so well? I can't get over how interested she showed herself to be, and now she ghosted?

I know she's young and might not know what she wants, but I hate to lose a girl like her. She seemed really sweet and considerate on the dates too.

She had a bbc train ran on her ass and hasn't mended yet lulz

Top form SMV lol its when going full retard on steroids.

Money branch onto her hotter younger friends. #nextSet