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Girl texts me "we should hang out,"like right now lol"

I reply something along the lines of I agree but I have homework to do and a paper I have to write.

I then tell her that I'm down to hang after class tomorrow.

I just saw her Sunday. Tomorrow is Tuesday.

Did I come off desperate?
 
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Good move on your part. Not desperate. Did she bite?
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Yes, you came across as desperate. You should never, under any circumstances agree to or get together with a girl, because then she might get the impression that you are attracted to her. Better to keep her guessing and avoid any contact at all.


Just kidding. :)
 
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I don't know I think I came across too eager because she never said anything back to that text. It was probably a test and I failed. Her response times to previous texts were delayed as well but I wasn't really considering that because the responses seemed good.
 
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Spaz said:
But of course, low EQ could only mean that u r an intellectual and hence why I knew what degree you'd take.

No worries, ur mind is geared to be great in those areas.
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She never respond to my counter offer to hang out and I see her in class tonight. Awkward...
 
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RickTheToad said:
It's the fear and desperation you elude. Ladies have a sixth sense and can smell it on you. You need to work on that and develop over time, a IDGAF attitude.
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But could she have sensed it from my replys that were quicker than hers and the fact I wanted to see her again too soon? She already knows I have been unsuccessful with women in the past so maybe she's giving me second thoughts
 
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B0redandl0nely said:
She never respond to my counter offer to hang out and I see her in class tonight. Awkward...
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Since you have very low emotional depths to understand normal human behaviour you'd be anxious most of the time once you start to think of why/how/what a girl is doing in that logical mind of yours.

You can't help it.

But you can counter it.

Use ur thumbnail to poke the other thumb until you feel pain.

Make sure the pain overcomes or override ur anxiety.

Once ur anxiety has lessen and u hv calmed down read up those advices by the people here, memorise them all and make a guess on what applies to which situation.

Got it ?
 
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B0redandl0nely said:
She never respond to my counter offer to hang out and I see her in class tonight. Awkward...
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Do you usually talk to her in class? If so straight up ask why she was so desperate to see you that she couldn't wait?

Tell her she needs to start behaving if she wants to see you.

I wish you could pull a couple of sentences like that off
 
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Murkserious said:
Do you usually talk to her in class? If so straight up ask why she was so desperate to see you that she couldn't wait?

Tell her she needs to start behaving if she wants to see you.

I wish you could pull a couple of sentences like that off
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Yeah I talk to her and i even sit next to her. I guess I could say something like that
 
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