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Sounds like you are severely lacking in confidence and have a belief if you were more dominant you would automatically be more confident. That is not how it works imho.
Yeah I am but with good reason; I have social difficulties that are caused by my biology. But I don't even give a fvck about that right now, what's the point in complaining about something I can't control?

It is now 6 am and I have not slept at all because of what happened on the date. I'm trying to be optimistic and positive but it's hard. My negative thoughts are strong.
 

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I'm a pvssy. I have no business dating. I got the kiss by saying "I wanna kiss you." Why didn't I go for sex by saying something similar?

dates are kinda different when u look good in her eyes when u realize it

nothing lost dude she had only medium interest.


she has more experiecne than u cuz she s a wh0re my dud, no worries
 

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Yeah I am but with good reason; I have social difficulties that are caused by my biology. But I don't even give a fvck about that right now, what's the point in complaining about something I can't control?

It is now 6 am and I have not slept at all because of what happened on the date. I'm trying to be optimistic and positive but it's hard. My negative thoughts are strong.
That usually happens when your motivated and focused on winning the girl so badly that you will not eat and lose sleep over the smallest of things that couldn’t hamper your chances of winning the girl. Check out deep breathing exercises on YouTube and be positive at all times. Think about what can go right instead of what can go wrong.
 

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Sounds like you are severely lacking in confidence and have a belief if you were more dominant you would automatically be more confident. That is not how it works imho.
I just have this awkward, timid quality that I probably inherited from my mother's side of the family and the girl noticed it and called me out on it. I was trying to make like I was cool but it obviously didn't work.
 

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I really have trouble opening up because I have such a fvcked up past that I don't feel comfortable talking about. I always try to lie and make myself out to be better than I am but I end up coming across quiet and awkward anyway so I need to learn how to be more of an open book. It's tough because my world is very dark. I also need a better sense of humor.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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I have no idea why OP doesnt do well with women. He seems like such a catch.
 

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The story of my life is move on to the next one. NO I WANTED THIS ONE!
Yes, but there will be others. As @DEEZEDBRAH a new lady turns 18 every day. Just remember, failure is your best teacher. Start with the lessor attractive ladies and move of the line. Ladies have a sixth sense in detecting if other ladies have fvcked you or not. Pvssy attracts pvssy. Need to work on that confidence though.
 

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I really have trouble opening up because I have such a fvcked up past that I don't feel comfortable talking about. I always try to lie and make myself out to be better than I am but I end up coming across quiet and awkward anyway so I need to learn how to be more of an open book. It's tough because my world is very dark. I also need a better sense of humor.
Unless you really have interesting and positive stories, less is more. Be more aloof than talkative.
 

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Yes, but there will be others. As @DEEZEDBRAH a new lady turns 18 every day. Just remember, failure is your best teacher. Start with the lessor attractive ladies and move of the line. Ladies have a sixth sense in detecting if other ladies have fvcked you or not. Pvssy attracts pvssy. Need to work on that confidence though.
Very true my friend, I think Roosh says something like that too. Start low and work your way up while you increase your own value.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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This all happened because you are a...

 

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Yeah I am but with good reason; I have social difficulties that are caused by my biology. But I don't even give a fvck about that right now, what's the point in complaining about something I can't control?

It is now 6 am and I have not slept at all because of what happened on the date. I'm trying to be optimistic and positive but it's hard. My negative thoughts are strong.
Hmm...micropenis??
 

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He's not a troll, just a lost dude. Sometimes @marmel75, you can be a bit too harsh on the new SS members here.
I definitely need to start teaching classes on how to spot a troll...just go back and read some of the ridiculous over the top crazy stuff posted in this and other threads by OP...trolls tend to post fantastical encounters and go to the extremes...OP certainly checks all the boxes for troll.
 

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I definitely need to start teaching classes on how to spot a troll...just go back and read some of the ridiculous over the top crazy stuff posted in this and other threads by OP...trolls tend to post fantastical encounters and go to the extremes...OP certainly checks all the boxes for troll.
He sounds so much like a lot of the newbie posters, I do not think so, but nothing is 100%
 

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2 years on SS and you havent improved at all... stop wasting your (and our) time. I would recommend completing DJ boot camp.
 

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I'm not a troll I just don't want to lose another opportunity for a girlfriend
stop thinking its a opportunity to get a GF then maybe you will get one, you are not doing the first rule of dating, HAVE FUN, I will not even consider the troll thing because if you are a troll you are losing your time, and any newbie who read this will always think there is someone worse then me, if not you have a lot of work ahead
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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