Exe's That Came Back After A Long Time?

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So last night while I was out drinking with some friends, I received a text message around 11PM from a chick that I was dating around 4 years ago.


At the time I remember being really into this chick, but she distanced herself from me over some petty little disagreement.

I didn't give a fuk and just moved onto new chicks... So her contacting me out of the blue like this, has thrown me back a little.

She even suggested catching up soon and going for a drink..

Why do exe's contact you, after such a long time?

My guess is.. The NEW guy, whose c0ck she was polishing didn't quite meet upto her expectations and has now been discarded by her.

Poor fuk... anyhow my intention is to IGNORE the shyte out of her, if she messages me again.

I don't even remember what this hoe looks like.

I am pretty sure I could get a lay out of her... But I put my self respect before puzzy.

I aint going to be anyone's back up plan.
 
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4 years is a long time, many more than 1 d1ck, she's prob just horny
 

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It;s funny because a girl I've known 3 years and stopped seeing about 6 months ago unblocked and messaged me today.

She asked if I was living with Sara and I said she moved out, she's looking to rent a room from me. I said lets grab a coffee when she's back in the country and we can talk about it. I said if we stay friends with no sex it could work.

I'm already thinking about banging her.
 

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So last night while I was out drinking with some friends, I received a text message around 11PM from a chick that I was dating around 4 years ago.


At the time I remember being really into this chick, but she distanced herself from me over some petty little disagreement.

I didn't give a fuk and just moved onto new chicks... So her contacting me out of the blue like this, has thrown me back a little.

She even suggested catching up soon and going for a drink..

Why do exe's contact you, after such a long time?

My guess is.. The NEW guy, whose c0ck she was polishing didn't quite meet upto her expectations and has now been discarded by her.

Poor fuk... anyhow my intention is to IGNORE the shyte out of her, if she messages me again.

I don't even remember what this hoe looks like.

I am pretty sure I could get a lay out of her... But I put my self respect before puzzy.

I aint going to be anyone's back up plan.
If she's bang-able then what's the problem?

Unless you're got other in the wings then go for it.
 

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Most men disagree but I'm all about The One Strike Rule. Men need to remember, YOU are the prize. She has to earn you; not the other way around.

I'd stay NC. She missed her chance.
This is Exactly why I don't intend to take her up on her offer to meet for a Drink.

You walked away once, to try out new dik? Keep walking!
 

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This is Exactly why I don't intend to take her up on her offer to meet for a Drink.

You walked away once, to try out new dik? Keep walking!
Weird
How old is she?
Maybe she just hit the wall hard.
 

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So I’m unclear...you call her an ex yet it sounds like you only went out on a few dates? Did you bang her? Was there a bad breakup? Were you two official?

She has come back because you left an imprint on her and her most recent dude is on the way out. You can absolutely fvck her, and I actually advocate for it. But if you were in a relationship before then that ship has sailed, you can’t get back into a relationship. Fvck buddy? Sure
 

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Question, has she recently seen you somewhere before reaching out to you? Usually when a girl reaches back out they see you’ve made some big improvement in yourself that gets their curiosity up.
 

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Well, for men who are easily attached, heart broken types, orbiter types, white knight types, captain save a ho types..etc

Stay well clear of an Ex.

Now for men who r predisposed to dismiss women easily then keep her in rotation or in orbit, at the minimum in outer orbit.

It's a win win situation when an Ex orbits in ur circle of influence, turn her into a loyal soldier.

Just know the type of man u r and then act accordingly...
 

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So I’m unclear...you call her an ex yet it sounds like you only went out on a few dates? Did you bang her? Was there a bad breakup? Were you two official?

She has come back because you left an imprint on her and her most recent dude is on the way out. You can absolutely fvck her, and I actually advocate for it. But if you were in a relationship before then that ship has sailed, you can’t get back into a relationship. Fvck buddy? Sure
To answer your question.. Yes I banged this girl fukin stupid.. Dated for around 6 months.

She had major entitlement issues.. Anyhow I can quite easily bang this Slvt again..

However once a chick proves herself to be low value in my eyes.. I close that door for GOOD. Self respect comes before puzzy.

I'm sure she has hit the wall.. Or some dude has fuked her over, this is why she is reaching out.

She aint gona get a crumb of sympathy off me!
 

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To answer your question.. Yes I banged this girl fukin stupid.. Dated for around 6 months.

She had major entitlement issues.. Anyhow I can quite easily bang this Slvt again..

However once a chick proves herself to be low value in my eyes.. I close that door for GOOD. Self respect comes before puzzy.

I'm sure she has hit the wall.. Or some dude has fuked her over, this is why she is reaching out.

She aint gona get a crumb of sympathy off me!
I fvck girls who come in and out of my life all the time with no thought of "she rejected me now I have to give her the one shot rule to prove I am alpha." Not saying that's what you're doing but it seems strange to turn down pvssy…

Are you so drowned in pvssy that you literally cant add anyone to the rotation? Did she prove herself to be such low quality that it's not even worth consideration? You started a thread on it, so I'm wondering what the motivation is.

B1tches are fickle man, they will try to re-enter your life based on nothing more than the change in direction of the wind.

Ill ask the question, you worried bout catching the feelz?
 

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I fvck girls who come in and out of my life all the time with no thought of "she rejected me now I have to give her the one shot rule to prove I am alpha." Not saying that's what you're doing but it seems strange to turn down pvssy…

Are you so drowned in pvssy that you literally cant add anyone to the rotation? Did she prove herself to be such low quality that it's not even worth consideration? You started a thread on it, so I'm wondering what the motivation is.

B1tches are fickle man, they will try to re-enter your life based on nothing more than the change in direction of the wind.

Ill ask the question, you worried bout catching the feelz?
I have two on rotation at the moment.. With work, Gym, family, friends etc.. I can't be bothered adding this one to the rotation, especially with her ghosting me over some BS petty thing.

I don't have much need for her at the current time, so it won't bother me in the slightest to just ignore for GOOD.
 

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To answer your question.. Yes I banged this girl fukin stupid.. Dated for around 6 months.

She had major entitlement issues.. Anyhow I can quite easily bang this Slvt again..

However once a chick proves herself to be low value in my eyes.. I close that door for GOOD. Self respect comes before puzzy.

I'm sure she has hit the wall.. Or some dude has fuked her over, this is why she is reaching out.

She aint gona get a crumb of sympathy off me!
Then what the hell are you doing posting on here for? You said you were taken back, then you proceed to keep calling her a slvt, low value and “done with her” so what’s the problem?
You already know the answer supposedly so why you wasting any time? Do what you say you’re gonna do.

Sounds to me you want to bang her but you’re too busy trying to act high value and like you don’t give a sh!t. go bang her if you want. . Who the fvck cares she walked 4 years ago? If you really do then next her, if you are fronting then just bang. Simple as that.
 

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Then what the hell are you doing posting on here for? You said you were taken back, then you proceed to keep calling her a slvt, low value and “done with her” so what’s the problem?
You already know the answer supposedly so why you wasting any time? Do what you say you’re gonna do.

Sounds to me you want to bang her but you’re too busy trying to act high value and like you don’t give a sh!t. go bang her if you want. . Who the fvck cares she walked 4 years ago? If you really do then next her, if you are fronting then just bang. Simple as that.

I was just looking for opinions on why chicks come back around after such a long time dumb azz.

Its a general question.. You would think in this age, they would have multiple options and wouldn't need to revisit someone from that many years ago.

The question wasn't should I get her back in rotation.. Try reading the damn post.
 

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Question, has she recently seen you somewhere before reaching out to you? Usually when a girl reaches back out they see you’ve made some big improvement in yourself that gets their curiosity up.

Completely out of the blue, never seen around in years.. Maybe she was just horny lol
 

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If I was emotionally invested in a chick and she tries to come back later on I dont go there. If I was just spinning her as a plate, sure, meet up for a drink if she reaches out.
 

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If I was emotionally invested in a chick and she tries to come back later on I dont go there. If I was just spinning her as a plate, sure, meet up for a drink if she reaches out.
Yeah that can be dangerous letting a girl back in your life that you were emotionally invested in but finally got over. Reason being is there’s still a part of you deep down that will come to the top when you’re with her and before you know it you’re getting dumped all over again.
 
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