Been a while

[Murk]

Since I went on an OLD date. Me and this girl had been talking 2-3 weeks and I already flaked last week.

I was just nervous to meet her because she was so pretty, tall (5’10) and slim. I don’t know what’s happened but my confidence must be shot, too used to girls that are falling over me making it easy and me just taking easy options.

Anyway she said if I cancel again we are done, so I put on some jeans, shirt, boots and jacket w/ pocket square and went to work to meet her after on Thursday evening. I was nervous the whole day, I felt ugly and fat.

To cut a long story short I’m just on my way home now after spending Thursday, Friday and Saturday morning with her. She’s gorgeous and we have good physically compatible, both affectionate, the kissing is good, the sex is great, I’ve never had sex so good on the first 1 and 2 times.

We’ve already arranged for her to come to my place Sunday to cook together. She is so tall and slim like a model, she feels perfect to hold in bed. I’ve forgotten all about Sara, Sophie and Maria.

How do I take it slow and protect myself before this turns into a typical Murk falling in love story?

We’ve honestly got on like a house on fire, it reminds me how me and my ex met and it was instant chemistry and comfortability. We have very similar family lives and been through the same experiences, her dad died of cancer the same time as my mum, her mum now has cancer too, we’re both only children we not much family support.

I’ve never had a first date stretch over two/three days like this and I’ve never enjoyed feeling and tasting someone so much. We walked in the park, went to a wine bar, ate, laughed, went to a pub, club, partied, walked a dog it’s been a mad couple days.

What I learned most of all is I can game any level of chick no matter how beatiful they are.

Edit: I’ve just seen a short, thick Spanish looking women on the train who I would say is definitely more my type. Should I just stay single forever because ultimately I need a Colombian or Cuban woman to settle down with but due to living in London these women hardly exist and will take me years to find.

 

[Seattle4Life]

Since I went on an OLD date. Me and this girl had been talking 2-3 weeks and I already flaked last week.

I was just nervous to meet her because she was so pretty, tall (5’10) and slim. I don’t know what’s happened but my confidence must be shot, too used to girls that are falling over me making it easy and me just taking easy options.

Anyway she said if I cancel again we are done, so I put on some jeans, shirt, boots and jacket w/ pocket square and went to work to meet her after on Thursday evening. I was nervous the whole day, I felt ugly and fat.

To cut a long story short I’m just on my way home now after spending Thursday, Friday and Saturday morning with her. She’s gorgeous and we have good physically compatible, both affectionate, the kissing is good, the sex is great, I’ve never had sex so good on the first 1 and 2 times.

We’ve already arranged for her to come to my place Sunday to cook together. She is so tall and slim like a model, she feels perfect to hold in bed. I’ve forgotten all about Sara, Sophie and Maria.

How do I take it slow and protect myself before this turns into a typical Murk falling in love story?

We’ve honestly got on like a house on fire, it reminds me how me and my ex met and it was instant chemistry and comfortability. We have very similar family lives and been through the same experiences, her dad died of cancer the same time as my mum, her mum now has cancer too, we’re both only children we not much family support.

I’ve never had a first date stretch over two/three days like this and I’ve never enjoyed feeling and tasting someone so much. We walked in the park, went to a wine bar, ate, laughed, went to a pub, club, partied, walked a dog it’s been a mad couple days.

What I learned most of all is I can game any level of chick no matter how beatiful they are.

Edit: I’ve just seen a short, thick Spanish looking women on the train who I would say is definitely more my type. Should I just stay single forever because ultimately I need a Colombian or Cuban woman to settle down with but due to living in London these women hardly exist and will take me years to find.

Do you mind telling us what site you used? Did she initiate the conversation? What did you talk about online for 2 weeks before meeting? Where did you go on your first date, and how did it transition from that to sex?

 

[SoSuave666]

I laughed audibly at your last edit. Great stuff

 

[Murk]

We matched on bumble, gave her my number and were texting, I’m a voice note kinda guy, breaks down a lot of barriers and lines up phone calls nicely. Couple calls, we were familiar. Her cancer situation defo built instant familiarity and comfort on both sides.

I met her, she was visibly nervous. I called
Her out on it. I was internally nervous but hide emotion well.

We went to a bar near her, I ordered a bottle of wine, she got the next, convo was flowing as we had 2-3 weeks of msg and calls so the vibe was already there, I’m an outgoing sociallble guy so this was easy for me. I don’t recommend this route for novices. We already knew I was staying at hers. Went back, I popped half a liquid kamagra (godsend) beforehand, and banged her for a good 40-50 mins but due to being drunk couldnt come. She told em she came 3 times already so I was happy to sleep. The sex was great, she fit like a velvet glove, tall, slim, curvaceous, just turned 27 but looks 22. Brunette with a freckled face, just my type, gorgeous green eyes. She spooned, kisses and cuddled in bed before and after, just what I personally need.

Next morning, I had plans, she had none, I said let’s grab some food and I’ll go. We ended up walking through Hampstead Heath park (google it) it’s a super rich place prob one of the most expensive places to live in the UK, we vibed, talked, walked, I’ve rarely do a none drinking activity, I proved to her we can be sober and walk through a park for 2 hours and get along. She walked me to the tube station, I said “let’s grab another drink” we went to a wine bar and I bought a bottle we chilled outside in the sun (current heat wave in the uk (23c)) then got on so well she said “you can stay again tonight if you want”

Popped the remaining kamagra from night before, more great sex, came inside her (thank fvck), left 8am this morning with her (she has a vetinarian practice and had to work) went home.

I’m leaving out many details here because I’m a natural, I vibe with humans well, it’s just easy, I’m the life and soul, this is not an account of an incel, or a 40 year old divorcee. I’m a good looking 30 year old in the top echelon who is spinning 3 plates now. I make people feel at ease, I don’t do awardness.

I just want to reiterate how good the sex was. So effortless. Most women can’t come from penetration. She can. I even said to her this makes my job easy. She said you still have to put the work in. Whatever. I’m banging and making her come 5 mins into penetration, perfect scenario. My exes all needed cl1t play. Hard work but more rewarding as most guys leave this out.

I advise all men to find a girl that can come from fvcking them, it’s the golden ticket.

Anyway, I’m off out to a day rave, Luttrell is playing in London (hackney wick). Will update this thread on Monday/Tuesday after this broad has been to my place Sunday for cooking. She’s fire. Think freckled Kim K minus fatness.

Kind regards,
Murk xx

 

[MT93]

We matched on bumble, gave her my number and were texting, I’m a voice note kinda guy, breaks down a lot of barriers and lines up phone calls nicely. Couple calls, we were familiar. Her cancer situation defo built instant familiarity and comfort on both sides.

I met her, she was visibly nervous. I called
Her out on it. I was internally nervous but hide emotion well.

We went to a bar near her, I ordered a bottle of wine, she got the next, convo was flowing as we had 2-3 weeks of msg and calls so the vibe was already there, I’m an outgoing sociallble guy so this was easy for me. I don’t recommend this route for novices. We already knew I was staying at hers. Went back, I popped half a liquid kamagra (godsend) beforehand, and banged her for a good 40-50 mins but due to being drunk couldnt come. She told em she came 3 times already so I was happy to sleep. The sex was great, she fit like a velvet glove, tall, slim, curvaceous, just turned 27 but looks 22. Brunette with a freckled face, just my type, gorgeous green eyes. She spooned, kisses and cuddled in bed before and after, just what I personally need.

Next morning, I had plans, she had none, I said let’s grab some food and I’ll go. We ended up walking through Hampstead Heath park (google it) it’s a super rich place prob one of the most expensive places to live in the UK, we vibed, talked, walked, I’ve rarely do a none drinking activity, I proved to her we can be sober and walk through a park for 2 hours and get along. She walked me to the tube station, I said “let’s grab another drink” we went to a wine bar and I bought a bottle we chilled outside in the sun (current heat wave in the uk (23c)) then got on so well she said “you can stay again tonight if you want”

Popped the remaining kamagra from night before, more great sex, came inside her (thank fvck), left 8am this morning with her (she has a vetinarian practice and had to work) went home.

I’m leaving out many details here because I’m a natural, I vibe with humans well, it’s just easy, I’m the life and soul, this is not an account of an incel, or a 40 year old divorcee. I’m a good looking 30 year old in the top echelon who is spinning 3 plates now. I make people feel at ease, I don’t do awardness.

I just want to reiterate how good the sex was. So effortless. Most women can’t come from penetration. She can. I even said to her this makes my job easy. She said you still have to put the work in. Whatever. I’m banging and making her come 5 mins into penetration, perfect scenario. My exes all needed cl1t play. Hard work but more rewarding as most guys leave this out.

I advise all men to find a girl that can come from fvcking them, it’s the golden ticket.

Anyway, I’m off out to a day rave, Luttrell is playing in London (hackney wick). Will update this thread on Monday/Tuesday after this broad has been to my place Sunday for cooking. She’s fire. Think freckled Kim K minus fatness.

Kind regards,
Murk xx

I enjoyed this Murk.. Well in, keep at it.

Greetings from Brum

MT

 

[Murk]

Update:

Went to see her for a few drinks yesterday night and ended up staying at her place, went to work today from there.

So since we met on Thursday we spend that night, then Friday all day and night and Saturday morning (left for work with her). Saturday I spent with my friends/another chick, Sunday all day with the other chick. Monday evening and some of Tuesday with this girl.

Sorry that's confusing to read, basically Thurs/Fri/Sat with Ali - Sun chilled - Monday evening/Tues morning with Ali again. She pushed the Monday staying over date as she's working late all week and we both busy next weekend so I don't think I'll see her for over a week.

Is this too much? After this break I'll go to once a week with her. The chemistry/sex is the best ever, we've both agreed it's really strange how much we hit it off so quickly.

 

[MT93]

Update:

Went to see her for a few drinks yesterday night and ended up staying at her place, went to work today from there.

So since we met on Thursday we spend that night, then Friday all day and night and Saturday morning (left for work with her). Saturday I spent with my friends/another chick, Sunday all day with the other chick. Monday evening and some of Tuesday with this girl.

Sorry that's confusing to read, basically Thurs/Fri/Sat with Ali - Sun chilled - Monday evening/Tues morning with Ali again. She pushed the Monday staying over date as she's working late all week and we both busy next weekend so I don't think I'll see her for over a week.

Is this too much? After this break I'll go to once a week with her. The chemistry/sex is the best ever, we've both agreed it's really strange how much we hit it off so quickly.

If the sex is the best you've both had. That's no bad thing for sure.

Dont overdo it though. Take it one step at a time & set some space between dates to spin her hamster, do not initiate. If she does great... But be busy and continue with your goals etc. Don't be too available.

Good position to be in you just need to be sure not to become too involved too soon.

Nice work.