Most guys have poor game. Our competition is clueless!

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I'm at a point in life now where I actually LOL at my competition

The latest chump is sending her a text every 10 mins calling her "pretty babe"

Most guys are clueless. The sooner we learn that the better

It feels so good to sit back and know you are winning.... by doing precisely NOTHING

Happy hunting
 
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I'm at a point in life now where I actually LOL at my competition

The latest chump is sending her a text every 10 mins calling her "pretty babe"

Most guys are clueless. The sooner we learn that the better

It feels so good to sit back and know you are winning.... by doing precisely NOTHING

Happy hunting
The stalker? What are you winning, exactly? A crazy woman who stalks your family wtf?

Aren’t you married?
 

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I resent this idea that guys in the "real world" are all clueless chumps. Men and women have been getting together for thousands of years without the benefit of internet seduction sites. They don't have to do it perfectly, instinct is often enough. This idea of "I've read SoSuave, therefore I am some sort of alpha superstud" is laughable, IMO. They still have their natural attributes that they bring to the table.
 
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I’ve out-alpha’ed a girls ex that was higher value than me. He was this big ripped dude who was a badass, much bigger than me and I’m in damn good shape. All her other guys she dated never made it to boyfriend status because they were intimidated by him because she still talked to him sometimes via text. Insecure and needy were these guys middle names. I didn’t care that she talked to
Him, I knew I wasn’t gonna be serious with her one bit and I went on other dates and did my own thing. She even ASKED me if I wanted to read a “mean text he sent her” and I said “nope, why would I care”? She literally melted for me right there because she knew she was never going to rattle me. She started talking to him less and less and started bringing up “relationship” talk with me because I’d passed her ultimate test apparently.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I was out to dinner this weekend with my girl and the guy sitting next to me (good looking dude) was telling his date, who was equally attractive, that she was so beautiful over and over again. You can tell she was getting turned off, by the look on her face. I couldn’t help but smirk and think about the stuff I have learned. He probably got away with it due to his Chad status though.
 

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I was out to dinner this weekend with my girl and the guy sitting next to me (good looking dude) was telling his date, who was equally attractive, that she was so beautiful over and over again. You can tell she was getting turned off, by the look on her face. I couldn’t help but smirk and think about the stuff I have learned. He probably got away with it due to his Chad status though.
You’re probably right. I made the mistake of giving too many compliments and I recovered fast and before you know it SHE was giving ME all the compliments and I would never return them. “You are the greatest guy I’ve ever met” and I’d reply “you’re pretty lucky huh? You should probably play a number tonight with your kind of luck” Believe it or not that **** works and she constantly gave me MORE compliments.
 

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bull dykes have better game then the average dude lololol
I had one of those try to hit on my girlfriend once. You know the type, hat pulled way the fvck down with a super bent bill, long ass shorts, baggy shirt, big ass fake chain. It was all I could do to not bust out laughing.
 

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I resent this idea that guys in the "real world" are all clueless chumps. Men and women have been getting together for thousands of years without the benefit of internet seduction sites. They don't have to do it perfectly, instinct is often enough. This idea of "I've read SoSuave, therefore I am some sort of alpha superstud" is laughable, IMO. They still have their natural attributes that they bring to the table.
You think today is the same world is was a thousand years ago? With feminism and everything else

There's a reason guys are turning to forums like these

And I'm new to sosuave. Never heard of it before

I thought it was a forum to share personal experiences with women
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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its true bro lolol, this thread inspired to write up a peice about bull dykes and how their
game is so much better then ours, about to post it <3
 

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I find very unlikely that a high SMV value with great LMS will fail to get a girl cause he talks the wrong way.

At the same time I find hard to see a short skinny bald guy getting girls cause he has a "tight" game as much as a guy with great marketing skills sellings scraps nearby a ferrari dealer.

In my experience those who needs game are average guys walking in that thin line where they have success on a side and failure on the other, those are the ones who really needs and benefit from game.

If your front picture online or your look/status in her peer group doesnt pass that line, you have no chance to even make an attempt.
 

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wut bro i do that too

u can do it if shes ugly
Hahaha

Man, u certainly know how to crack people up.

You seriously should consider 2 get a job as a comedian.

Wtf r u doing being jobless ? Stop being lazy and use that gift of yours to good use.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I find very unlikely that a high SMV value with great LMS will fail to get a girl cause he talks the wrong way.

At the same time I find hard to see a short skinny bald guy getting girls cause he has a "tight" game
yep. This is my experience with 'game'.

If she thinks you're super hot/good looking, you don't need it. Whatever you say/do will be viewed in a positive light. (there are rare exceptions like being extremely autistic for example) - It's that old thing about if you are ugly and shy, you are 'creepy', but if you are handsome and shy, your are 'the sexy, mysterious guy' lol

And if she thinks you are physically unnattractive, no matter how much 'game' you have, she won't ever be into you sexually

Basically, game is just something that helps you close the deal easier/fast/smoother with girls that are already into, and can help you push 'maybe girls' into being 'yes girls'

It's not some magic skill where you can bang whoever you want lol. 99% of what is taught in game books is already known by most 'normal'/social guys
 

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The best 'game' is to have no game. Just work on yourself, be the best version of yourself you can be, approach every women you are attracted to and try to make dates with any of them that leave the door open. Then act like a man, treat EVERY women the same... it doesn't mater if she is a smoking hot 10 or a heinous land whale. The ones that like you and are interested will continue to make themselves available... the ones that are no fun, you screen out.

All 'game' is is acting like a man, which 40 years ago you just learned by watching other men around you. Today, I really feel sorry for younger dudes in their 20s 30s and early 40s... there heads are filled with absolute bullsh!t.... educated in a system that was designed for women... many were raised by single moms and all their teachers were women.... they don't know how to act like men so they have to go to coaches to help them.
 

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It’s about looking good - the best you can be - and taking initiative.

You right, most men see vagina as something magical, powerful, magnificent, like lamborhini because it’s rare. Once they get in it, they are sold.

Riding at all costs, yo.
 

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You right, most men see vagina as something magical, powerful, magnificent, like lamborhini because it’s rare
Is it really that rare? I see hot women every time I go out.
 

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The best 'game' is to have no game. Just work on yourself, be the best version of yourself you can be, approach every women you are attracted to and try to make dates with any of them that leave the door open. Then act like a man, treat EVERY women the same... it doesn't mater if she is a smoking hot 10 or a heinous land whale.
Not sure about that bro.

You are saying you’ll treat a 27 year old actress the same way as a 38 year old hotel employee?

The issues men have are always the attractive ones. No one comes in here and asks “I’m dating a 39 year women with no job and little skills. Is it ok to text her everyday or should I wait a day or two?”

Why? Because the girl has less value and they instinctively know what to do.

All 'game' is is acting like a man, which 40 years ago you just learned by watching other men around you. Today, I really feel sorry for younger dudes in their 20s 30s and early 40s... there heads are filled with absolute bullsh!t.... educated in a system that was designed for women... many were raised by single moms and all their teachers were women.... they don't know how to act like men so they have to go to coaches to help them.
What do you mean “act like a man?”
 
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