That’s just it, breakups usually don’t bother me and neither does ghosting. She just had the magic formula to really hit me in the gut though for some reason and the way she did it. I never want to go through that again. Ever. Never had it happen like that before and I’ll stop dating if that **** happens again. You can’t orepare for a **** like that! 2 days prior we were hot and heavy on our 8th date and in a week I was chasing ghosts.
How to let a girl down (easy) / When they catch feeling and you're not
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AJ84
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That’s great, all the more reason to forget about the one girl that f**ked you over. Now you have three who you are enjoying.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Been hurt before ik the feeling, took.me years to get over it Just keep.doing your things it will get better.
Just go full NC no ocial media nothing, best way.
You mean she desperately wants to put her tongue down your throat and you don’t have time because you are too busy with life and have jam packed schedule?
Wow bro, you are a Hollywood Star.
Your Game is tight, you just need to LEARN how to: tell girls you can’t give them the gift of your sex because you are too busy giving all other hot young girls the gift of your sex.
This is where a lot of men have trouble with their game in 2019. Hot young girls want to stick their tongue down their throats, but they don’t know how to say NO and let the girls down easy.
She is enough of your type to have sex with.
Sorry bro.
I know how to: Meet them, date them, kiss them, give them the gift of my sex, have them fall in love me, have them want to marry me and bear my child.
I don’t know how to: let them down easy when they are nice and cute.
This.
If they have been good to me, I just tell them straight up. I only ghost bishes who are disrespectful.
So I got a random email just now on Facebook from the very girl who I mentioned in this thread ghosted me. Haven’t heard from her in months. She honestly just emailed me, weirdest thing ever. She’s hinting around how she needs $500 by Wednesday but she hasn’t come right out and asked me for it. who the f does she think she is? She knows I’m well off and I bet her Chad’s turned her down, I’ve nebsr gave her money and don’t know why she think I would. This is too weird!
Probably saw her too much, too soon. Just the feels I get from reading all your posts about it. Been there, done that, sure nough sucks
No that’s just it, we only saw each other once or twice a week the whole time we were together.
She just lost interest - we're all human. Sorry it happened to you that way. After the first flake she would have been on probation, in my book. Besides, you let some girl who is going around looking for old flings to shell out cash for her get to you? You can get it way better than that, dude. She sounds wack. Also, never message a girl on facebook - text and call only.
No I never EVER let her borrow money. It was just so weird that we were talking in this thread and be dammed if she didn’t email me out of the blue after months! She never came right out and asked, she was hinting around she needed $500 by Wednesday, never said what it was for. No “hey how are you” or anything, didn’t ask me how I was or nothing. That’s how I knew it was a setup. I just read it and ignored it.lol Kinda glad she ghosted me now after knowing I could have been her cash machine!
lamath
Master Don Juan
I really hope you know what course of action is best in regards to that email.
Do nothing.... thats all she deserve not even a anwser to that email. Any other action is playing into her hand.
backseatjuan
Banned
When dumping a prospect it's always my policy to be kind and gentle.
I'd always start off by saying "it's not you, it's me.... (insert/create reason - depending on personality of woman).
End game is to make her feel good by making her think it's for her future wellbeing.
I would then traditionally follow through with a nicely wrapped gift.
Down the years the vast majority of women I've had the pleasure of sharing my bed with, have and is currently my strongest supporters in real life.
I'd always start off by saying "it's not you, it's me.... (insert/create reason - depending on personality of woman).
End game is to make her feel good by making her think it's for her future wellbeing.
I would then traditionally follow through with a nicely wrapped gift.
Down the years the vast majority of women I've had the pleasure of sharing my bed with, have and is currently my strongest supporters in real life.