GF on Facebook

[earlkeese]

So, last night I saw my GFs Facebook and it turns out that she is sending some guy from her hometown Secret Facebook messages (which i dont get the point of). I also saw back in Xmas they were planning a fun first date in her hometown. Thoughts? I pretty much know the answer just want to make sure I am not crazy here.

 

[lamath]

Only course of action, go full nc without even telling her a thing.
After that total indiference if possible it not fake it.

 

[LiveYourDream]

That is your cue to exit.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That is your cue to exit.

Alot of the 2019 21-34 years olds have half a dozen similar convos even if they have a man.

 

[backseatjuan]

GF planning a date. hey! Not gf.

Fck buddy. Othrs will say hard next, too harsh for me, I'm too soft, I'll keep fcking. So long as you cool with it not getting anyting serious and anyting beyond fbs, it's cool.

 

[soulforge]

GF planning a date. hey! Not gf.

Fck buddy. Othrs will say hard next, too harsh for me, I'm too soft, I'll keep fcking. So long as you cool with it not getting anyting serious and anyting beyond fbs, it's cool.

Most dudes cannot keep fukin.. They are simply too emotionally involved.

Reverting back to fuk buddy, isn't something most can easily revert back.. Why keep yourself in a Toxic messy situation like this.. Best just to Ghost her Ass, and move on.

 

[LiveYourDream]

Alot of the 2019 21-34 years olds have half a dozen similar convos even if they have a man.

To me, it does not matter how common it is. The whole scenario is disrespectful to the man and to their relationship.

If a woman is upfront about it and her man is ok with it, then that's on him. For this woman to have secret conversations with another man and then be setting up a date while doing so, that is instant deal breaker in my opinion.

 

[Murk]

Most dudes cannot keep fukin.. They are simply too emotionally involved.

Reverting back to fuk buddy, isn't something most can easily revert back.. Why keep yourself in a Toxic messy situation like this.. Best just to Ghost her Ass, and move on.

Yep, only possible to do this if you’re already plate spinning.

If you’re in a monogamous relationship this is a hard next, no explanation, true power.

I only hope I can bring myself to do that if the situation ever arises

 

[jaymbrs]

Depends how much you value yourself. If your self worth is low, then by all means stick around. But if you truly value yourself, I would ditch this ***** in a heartbeat.

 

[soulforge]

Depends how much you value yourself. If your self worth is low, then by all means stick around. But if you truly value yourself, I would ditch this ***** in a heartbeat.

Exactly.. Why keep her around to fuk, when she has shown such little respect for you.

Is there no other puzzy available elsewhere?

She doesn't even deserve your dik man.. If you are CERTAIN she is playing around or even emotionally cheating, then I would GHOST her Ass.

 

[AJ84]

This is how girls ruin your ass, because so many guys put up with crap just to keep getting sex. Saying he will demote her to plate status, FWB, etc is just as passive aggressive attempt to not lose her for the sex, like no other sex will ever be available from another girl. And how many girls happily go from gf to f**kbuddy anyway? How many of them take that ‘demotion’ and use it as an opportunity to f**k other guys completely guilt free.
Guys stop allowing this crap to happen to you!
Dump her ass and move on. Even if it means you have to date your right hand for a few weeks before getting another girl. Aim higher and women will realize they have to more worthy of your emotional investment.

 

[soulforge]

This is how girls ruin your ass, because so many guys put up with crap just to keep getting sex. Saying he will demote her to plate status, FWB, etc is just as passive aggressive attempt to not lose her for the sex, like no other sex will ever be available from another girl. And how many girls happily go from gf to f**kbuddy anyway? How many of them take that ‘demotion’ and use it as an opportunity to f**k other guys completely guilt free.
Guys stop allowing this crap to happen to you!
Dump her ass and move on. Even if it means you have to date your right hand for a few weeks before getting another girl. Aim higher and women will realize they have to more worthy of your emotional investment.

Exactly... This woman treats you like crap.. And what do you do? You reward her with sex.

Then kid yourself into believing you have demoted her..

 

[mrgoodstuff]

To me, it does not matter how common it is. The whole scenario is disrespectful to the man and to their relationship.

If a woman is upfront about it and her man is ok with it, then that's on him. For this woman to have secret conversations with another man and then be setting up a date while doing so, that is instant deal breaker in my opinion.

Its messy and degrading even if you think your okay with it.

 

[Glassguy]

Has anyone here ever seen or talked to a ghost??????

Me either. So she would have already had her last conversation with me.

No explanation, no conversation....nothing.

POOOOFFFFFF........Dust in the wind. Never to reach out again.

 

[BJP1991]

Damn, these hoes ain’t loyal, that’s for sure.

She deserves to be dropped

 

[earlkeese]

Just got the each out text after NC since Monday.

 

[lamath]

Just got the each out text after NC since Monday.

Dont anwser

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

**** that op

 

[Sunnypoo]

I take a different approach. I won't ghost, I'm upfront and I'd tell her we're done and nothing else. Let it hit her like a bag of dog chit to the face. Then go find someone else.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Op listen to @lamath go ghost