Double standards relationship solutions?

[LiveYourDream]

This woman does not align herself with a profession or behavior that is considerate of or respectful toward you. Her words and actions demonstrste that she does not deeply care about or prioritize your feelings. Either one of those should be a dealbreaker for an LTR and never ignored. You have offered no real positive qualities in her. Most men would have left long ago and never looked back. At the very most she should have been demoted to a plate. Yet you talk of potential marriage and kids with this woman still.

In my view, you are either incredibly desperate, have terrible oneitis, or are a troll entertaining yourself. A truly healthy Man would choose otherwise. Best to have a good look at yourself. Life offers so much more.

 

[Newbee2]

This woman does not align herself with a profession or behavior that is considerate of or respectful toward you. Her words and actions demonstrste that she does not deeply care about or prioritize your feelings. Either one of those should be a dealbreaker for an LTR and never ignored. You have offered no real positive qualities in her. Most men would have left long ago and never looked back. At the very most she should have been demoted to a plate. Yet you talk of potential marriage and kids with this woman still.

In my view, you are either incredibly desperate, have terrible oneitis, or are a troll entertaining yourself. A truly healthy Man would choose otherwise. Best to have a good look at yourself. Life offers so much more.

You are right

I told her this morning, if this is the lifestyle she choose, its better she stay alone. No argumental way, just normal calm talking

 

[LiveYourDream]

You are right

I told her this morning, if this is the lifestyle she choose, its better she stay alone. No argumental way, just normal calm talking

With all respect, it’s not simply her lifestyle choice that’s a concern. The fact that she does not intrinsically, ‘on her own,’ show care, concern or respect, for your feelings and preferences, should be an immediate deal breaker, IMHO.

Your oneitis is too strong, to keep seeing her for just sex. You’ll stay intertwined. More importantly, your time, energy and attention are valuable and should only be given to those, who of their own accord, show you respect and care.

Have more self-respect. Raise your standards. Choose to move on. Move on, not because she won’t change for you, but because you desire someone who actually already intrinsically shares your values and lives accordingly.

 

[AJ84]

https://www.capebretonpost.com/news...embertou-cancelled-due-to-lack-of-men-283597/

Baby rabies women.. they only have limited time and the clock tic loud from first 30's..

or single mothers who have kids with chad n tyrone.. no thanks

Yes chad n tyrone players will give women 6 anytime they want very easy.

Men can pua work, or pay to play - easy..

We get the same, anyway

Quality partners are hard to find.. we only have a few chances that life gives to us

No offence, I like your opinions and comments..

I didn't talk much last night, because she felt bad already

Have you ever been to Cape Breton? Not sure where you are from but I’m Canadian, and Cape Breton, like most small communities, will have a shortage of single people compared to bigger cities. Also many Canadian men in small East Coast communities have moved away for work, on the oil fields etc. The article also states that ticket sales were low for men and women, so this really is not a good example of a wider dating trend for women or men.
Cape Breton is an awesome community though, really good people.
Anyway if you feel you can turn this around give it a go, but don’t hold out hope on her changing because of whatever red pill tactics you want to apply because like I said before, people don’t change their fundamental selves and it may be better to just find someone who shows you respect and is willing to meet you half way.

 

[Newbee2]

With all respect, it’s not simply her lifestyle choice that’s a concern. The fact that she does not intrinsically, ‘on her own,’ show care, concern or respect, for your feelings and preferences, should be an immediate deal breaker, IMHO.

Your oneitis is too strong, to keep seeing her for just sex. You’ll stay intertwined. More importantly, your time, energy and attention are valuable and should only be given to those, who of their own accord, show you respect and care.

Have more self-respect. Raise your standards. Choose to move on. Move on, not because she won’t change for you, but because you desire someone who actually already intrinsically shares your values and lives accordingly.

Maybe oneitis.. I'm exhausted thinking about more of the same shyte, I'm tired of the selfish entitlement, from people who brings nothing but problems, emotional luggage, debt around. I don't want to continue trying different women. it's a waste of time and energy n money. This one have gone fairly good uptill now, so a bit of training could possible make something worth while. Perfect or unicorn is impossible in today's world. We have changed too much in 60 years, traditional caring women is a thing of the past. I feel more like staying completly out of the game now.. surrogacy if the reproductive wish is too big. Yes a form of oneitis because, why try more? I do better alone, even though I enjoy relationship.

Sorry mate I'm not cheerful about this anymore. Maybe there are okay women around, but too far in between, too much quantity and no real quality

 

[Newbee2]

Have you ever been to Cape Breton? Not sure where you are from but I’m Canadian, and Cape Breton, like most small communities, will have a shortage of single people compared to bigger cities. Also many Canadian men in small East Coast communities have moved away for work, on the oil fields etc. The article also states that ticket sales were low for men and women, so this really is not a good example of a wider dating trend for women or men.
Cape Breton is an awesome community though, really good people.
Anyway if you feel you can turn this around give it a go, but don’t hold out hope on her changing because of whatever red pill tactics you want to apply because like I said before, people don’t change their fundamental selves and it may be better to just find someone who shows you respect and is willing to meet you half way.

Okai bad example..

I don't know nothing now, I just said to her if she choose this lifestyle, it's better she stay alone.

You're the one that said to me; silly games and drama.. I cannot win. I don't understand, what I should do? If I do too much resentment will take over..

 

[highSpeed]

Why is the main theme; dissatisfied with women in general. Seen so often now?

Women gained equality an been unhappy ever since, and bring this to the whole society. Men and kids... alike

Yeah tell her you "clean" , "declutter" sell things you don't need and hide the money away. Only share a little bit with her, and hope for the kids you can do co-parenting with her as a room mate. Safe yourself because goverment gave her a loaded gun the day you signed the contract. Read mgtow forums and ask in there how to prepare.. you might want to get a low paying job long time before because of alimony settelment. Hide assets away just in case of a divorce. Hope for the best, but know your enemy. Mgtow's know this show, and will guide you. You don't know a woman before you divorce her

Those are all good tips. I've got some things working at the moment which could free me from the rat race shortly. When that happens, very soon, we'll be having a different conversation.

 

[Newbee2]

Those are all good tips. I've got some things working at the moment which could free me from the rat race shortly. When that happens, very soon, we'll be having a different conversation.

self preservation, prepair, learn, talk.. don't get caught. Do not trust people around you, because they could "try to help by talking to wifey". Stealth mode, but still try to bang her once in a while so she don't suspect there is something up, and for the kids sake if you can turn the boat around. If not you have something to move on.. and enjoy not being in the rat race anymore..

 

[highSpeed]

self preservation, prepair, learn, talk.. don't get caught. Do not trust people around you, because they could "try to help by talking to wifey". Stealth mode, but still try to bang her once in a while so she don't suspect there is something up, and for the kids sake if you can turn the boat around. If not you have something to move on.. and enjoy not being in the rat race anymore..

Been a long time coming and a lot of work, meetings from the golf course here I come. Oh, I'm always down to bang, it's just now I will have much more in the way of outlets for that banging. No Fap doesn't work for me because then I'd almost never bust a nut, not good for a guy's physical or mental well being. If I didn't Fap, I'd lose my f*cking mind right now.

 

[Newbee2]

Been a long time coming and a lot of work, meetings from the golf course here I come. Oh, I'm always down to bang, it's just now I will have much more in the way of outlets for that banging. No Fap doesn't work for me because then I'd almost never bust a nut, not good for a guy's physical or mental well being. If I didn't Fap, I'd lose my f*cking mind right now.

I feel for you it's not a easy ride.. do what you need to do

be careful. Don't seem to happy, women master manipulation games. They are long term strategic relationship warfare experts. Why do you think soap's in tv appeal so much to women. They love that crap, torture for a man brain. She could become really nasty, on all front's.. don't celebrate before you are out of sight

 

[AJ84]

Okai bad example..

I don't know nothing now, I just said to her if she choose this lifestyle, it's better she stay alone.

You're the one that said to me; silly games and drama.. I cannot win. I don't understand, what I should do? If I do too much resentment will take over..

Try talking to her about why she needs to do a job she knows you hate her doing and if she doesn’t give a reason that you can live with, end it, because it’s torture to be with someone whose behaviour you can’t live with. You’re young ( im assuming) no kids and there are other girls. If you put up with disrespectful crap you’ll become a bitter man and women don’t want bitter men, it’s a major turn off.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Things are just complicated in today's world.. jealousy is bad and controlling if a man does it. For women it's cute because they care.. too many kids is living with non biological farther's where the female banged chad, in the ovulation period. Hypergamy is rampage and women own 80% divorce.

90% among college women.

And I complain because this hypergamus creature, gropes nude chad and tyrone all week long.

In the words of julien blanc, "get better not bitter."

I understand what you guys say; put my foot down. Stop complaining and go my own way..

Mgtow, not low level.

Make space for women to come if they meet the prerequisite. Set tge benchmark.

I don't like to give up, I'm no quitter.

Sure I put women out the door before, and one I carried outside gently, put her down closed and lock the door.. because she go batshyte c....

At this age, the left over women, is exactly what they are called, for a reason. hypocritically speaking, the next one will surpass its predecessor by a margine. It's a numbers game. The unicorn is extinct a long time ago

Where have all the real ladies gone?

mouse utopia experiment proof

We are f'ed as a species..

Women are sheeple. They follow.

In Ian Flemings book, From Russia with Love, the one and only chick of the entire series resists 007 James Bond from sex. She was ashamed of her high kill count (3).

Today, women parade theur kill count and uselessness around. Are highly disrespectful and combative. They provoke confrontation and bait. If you pushback or make a call out, she's a victim and you scared or intimidated her. You can not win especially on a workplace spat or domestic abuse scenario.

I wanted to learn pickup to serk out options, spoiled for choice, and to inevitability, vet a wife, and mother of my children. I no longer wish nor care about that pursuit.

I am not a mgtow or red pill. I understand both. From the outside person lookin in, I don't marry or cohabitation. I don't date single moms.

LMR or low sex drive means #next!

I have no interest in 80 hour or 100 hours work week. I have no plan to risk my life to serve as a sacrificial lamb for the female biological strategy and imperative.

I pull casually. Its for sport. I think more guys will visit Thailand and other parts of the world where women are feminine and men are respected. If they come here, they will adopt the following behaviour.

Women follow.

 

[Newbee2]

90% among college women.



In the words of julien blanc, "get better not bitter."



Mgtow, not low level.

Make space for women to come if they meet the prerequisite. Set tge benchmark.



Women are sheeple. They follow.

In Ian Flemings book, From Russia with Love, the one and only chick of the entire series resists 007 James Bond from sex. She was ashamed of her high kill count (3).

Today, women parade theur kill count and uselessness around. Are highly disrespectful and combative. They provoke confrontation and bait. If you pushback or make a call out, she's a victim and you scared or intimidated her. You can not win especially on a workplace spat or domestic abuse scenario.

I wanted to learn pickup to serk out options, spoiled for choice, and to inevitability, vet a wife, and mother of my children. I no longer wish nor care about that pursuit.

I am not a mgtow or red pill. I understand both. From the outside person lookin in, I don't marry or cohabitation. I don't date single moms.

LMR or low sex drive means #next!

I have no interest in 80 hour or 100 hours work week. I have no plan to risk my life to serve as a sacrificial lamb for the female biological strategy and imperative.

I pull casually. Its for sport. I think more guys will visit Thailand and other parts of the world where women are feminine and men are respected. If they come here, they will adopt the following behaviour.

Women follow.

Thank you for a great response.

The b***h is from thailand.. same shyte dressed up innocent, traditional, great persuade-i'ness" ; I strong for family, no divorce, take good care of husbank " bull

The grass is the same, not greener. I would say go there live in a country village, and understand

 

[Newbee2]

I'm in a inter-racial "relationship" and by no means racist. But the old expression is true.. you can take people out of the getto, but you cannot the getto out of people. They will always be the same as where they come from. But here in eu they don't have shame for bad behavior, like they have around family. ( shame is the only thing that can control females).

Hireracy is the rule there so grandmom is the boss, so is ALL the mothers. Meaning her mom and aunts have the same status

As long as they send money home, family couldn't care less. Thai's are xenophobic indoctrinated. You are only a farang, meaning (not one of us).

That dosen't mean these women can't love foreigners, but love from a traditional thai is different from the love we know. Arranged marriage was the norm up in the 90's.. based on a provider for the family. Hypergamy in overdrive.. today family still have to approve you

Yes thailand is easy, because they falsly belives that all foreigners are rich. It's only hypergamy in our favor, these females is not much different nor much better. You have all the normal + culture problems. First 4 yr's it's understanding, and misunderstanding again and again, survive this and chances should be better. But you are in for a rough ride..

Almost all exept two of her freinds, have married moved here and divorced again. Only one divorce was the husband because she gambled everything away in casino, and still do to this day.

So keep them there, but could you live a village life thai style and thrive, and make money enough for all the family's problems?

The thai women have good marketing, nothing more.

I meet her the normal way true freinds and party, here in eu, I didn't go there and imported her.

Yes they take care of the house, yes they have strong family's, we could learn from this.. they have many querk's too, as you can hear.. sorry mate to blow your hope, NO unicorn's there

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Thank you for a great response.

The b***h is from thailand.. same shyte dressed up innocent, traditional, great persuade-i'ness" ; I strong for family, no divorce, take good care of husbank " bull

The grass is the same, not greener. I would say go there live in a country village, and understand

There's a mgtow that wrote a book about retiring on 200k in South Eastern asia. Likely, a worthy read.


Years of pickup, +/- a decade between life, career, death, relations, biz, etc. What i pursued initially and what i pursue now isn't the same.

If a man is forged in the fire, who you were and who you are isn't the same thing. You transcend out of necessity. You are red pilled. If you go deep enough and you break through black pill.

You see the mundanity of it all. Much of red pill is purple since most of these guys still play house and are delusional on thinking thry can hack the system. You have married dating coach lol. They are much better off then blue pill obv.

Black pill is doom and gloom. Its fight club. Its project mayhem.

'this is your life and its ending one minute at a time.'

So, **** it. Do something about it.


Hypergamy is as it is. I have found that the pushback and checkmate is in dating younger. As in, new girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day.

Women are disgusting sheeple in the west. Mistake cratered SMV and single mother victimhood and absurd degrees in transgender dance therapy or women's studies. Run up 200k in hilarious degrees.

We've been lied to and probably just as much, women all the more. We're responsible for the choices we've made and failed to make. Women are being cheered off into the abyss.

The crash is coming fellas. Enjoy the decline.

Yes, hit on babes. Chain gun cold approach. Swipe right at life. Every chick no matter how hawtttt is practice. The pursuit is not anyone particular girl. Its about going through the fire and transcend to super sayain. Seeing the whole world as it is not how you want it to be.

One of the trickiest things about the process is to surrender to it. The larger picture takes precedence.

At 30, i can count on one hand the amount of awesome women I've been with. Never met a woman worthy of marriage. It doesn't exist. Furthermore, the reli point of marriage in religion was between God, man, and woman. Not state.

White dresses lol absurd spending like you are in Congress. Women keep voting for free resources and will continue to be following the same channel until the collapse.

Today's *****s will be tomorrow's mother's.

 

[Newbee2]

There's a mgtow that wrote a book about retiring on 200k in South Eastern asia. Likely, a worthy read.


Years of pickup, +/- a decade between life, career, death, relations, biz, etc. What i pursued initially and what i pursue now isn't the same.

If a man is forged in the fire, who you were and who you are isn't the same thing. You transcend out of necessity. You are red pilled. If you go deep enough and you break through black pill.

You see the mundanity of it all. Much of red pill is purple since most of these guys still play house and are delusional on thinking thry can hack the system. You have married dating coach lol. They are much better off then blue pill obv.

Black pill is doom and gloom. Its fight club. Its project mayhem.

'this is your life and its ending one minute at a time.'

So, **** it. Do something about it.


Hypergamy is as it is. I have found that the pushback and checkmate is in dating younger. As in, new girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day.

Women are disgusting sheeple in the west. Mistake cratered SMV and single mother victimhood and absurd degrees in transgender dance therapy or women's studies. Run up 200k in hilarious degrees.

We've been lied to and probably just as much, women all the more. We're responsible for the choices we've made and failed to make. Women are being cheered off into the abyss.

The crash is coming fellas. Enjoy the decline.

Yes, hit on babes. Chain gun cold approach. Swipe right at life. Every chick no matter how hawtttt is practice. The pursuit is not anyone particular girl. Its about going through the fire and transcend to super sayain. Seeing the whole world as it is not how you want it to be.

One of the trickiest things about the process is to surrender to it. The larger picture takes precedence.

At 30, i can count on one hand the amount of awesome women I've been with. Never met a woman worthy of marriage. It doesn't exist. Furthermore, the reli point of marriage in religion was between God, man, and woman. Not state.

White dresses lol absurd spending like you are in Congress. Women keep voting for free resources and will continue to be following the same channel until the collapse.

Today's *****s will be tomorrow's mother's.

Thanks..

what is the name of the book?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Thanks..

what is the name of the book?

MGTOW’S GUIDE TO RETIRING ON $200K IN SE ASIA (PDF, MOBI FOR KINDLE, EPUB, TEXT-TO-SPEECH MP3)

9$ usd online. Of 8 had 1 million it would be lulz.