First Date should i go for a second?

[TJenkins11]

Well I posted last week about this Spanish woman I've been talking to and we had our first date Sunday night. So basically I want to know if this means I should try again. Everything was fine after the initial awkwardness. We talked for a couple hours before watching a movie so hugging and hand holding took place etc.. innocent stuff whatever lol.

Went fairly well I guess but as the date came to a close and shes about to get into the taxi we hug and then I go for a kiss then she denies me saying she cant kiss her friend. After she got home she sends me a pic we took together that she sent to her mother and tells me goodnight. I ignore this message and havent responded to her and considering giving up just because I don't want to waste time.

Shes a hard 9. Like 5'1 95 lbs and I definitely want to hit that. I knew it would take work going in because she says she won't have sex until after marriage even though she has before. What should I do? Am I totally friend zoned or is she just biding her time and playing sort of hard to get? It's tough she doesnt drink or anything.

 

[GrowingPains]

What does her drinking have to do with anything... You can't be on your game if you're not drunk?

Anyways. You said she said "she can't kiss her friend"... Sounds like a friend zone to me. She spelled it out for ya.

And if she is playing hard to get and you wanna shoot your shot... invite her dancing or something intimate. If she turns that down, I think you've got your answer.

 

[backseatjuan]

and then I go for a kiss then she denies me saying she cant kiss her friend

Yes you should go for second date, but not in a week, let it marinate for two weeks. If you haven't messaged her yet, that's good, if you did, stop messaging her.

Your SMV to her is higher than a muscled up sexy spanish guy, or mexican, or whatever she is. You have an American citizenship and she is illegal. Marriage with you is her ticket to success. Keep that in mind. Now obviously you are not going to marry the btch, you're smarter than that. After she gets what she wants she'll leave your ass with half your money. So think, and definitely wrap your dck.

On second date you pull her in and kiss, if she's don't want to or says something stupid again, tell her well you gotta kiss me if we gonna date and kiss her. Then bring her back to your place to watch a movie.

I knew it would take work going in because she says she won't have sex until after marriage even though she has before

She's playing you. She is looking for a husband. Don't listen to what she says about sex, she is going to fck you on date 2.

 

[TJenkins11]

So ignore her for 2 weeks? Even if she messages again before then? That's bold but I like it lol. Any suggestions for the 2nd date? I despise dancing so like anything other than that. For what it's worth she doesn't seen to like dancing either from what she told me.

 

[backseatjuan]

You're on a car right?

Grab some favorite food at a drive thru, some orange juice, and drive to a scenic location. Eat it, socialize wihle eating, go for a kiss. Fck her right there on the back seat of your car. So long as it's scenic, secluded, and it's dark, she should be down for it.

If she messages you, do reply, but allow time before you reply, not to break up mystery and let her know you like her and your date was super.

 

[Medina]

I would tell her I'm not interested in being her friend.

As long as she knows she can string you along, she will never respect you (or **** you)

 

[Dr.Suave]

and then I go for a kiss then she denies me saying she cant kiss her friend.

"I don´t see you as a firend" and then Kiss her.

Only thing I really, really, really don´t like, she doesn´t want to have sex before marriage even though she admitted has had sex before. WTF??? If she was a virgin, cool. But otherwise, I wouldn´t marry her just to bang her.

 

[TJenkins11]

Yeah I'll do that. We mostly message on snapchat so she can see if I read the message or not. Should I read the message then wait to reply or dont read for awhile then reply? Or is that thinking too much lol? I wanna attack this flawlessly going into the second date.

Now before we go on a second date should I establish that I dont want to be just friends via text or wait to establish that in person?

 

[Dr.Suave]

Don´t read for a while, then reply. You too busy being Alpha as f0ck.

Don´t say stuff via text. Text is only to get her in face to face date. Once you in person, you escalate.

 

[TJenkins11]

Don´t read for a while, then reply. You too busy being Alpha as f0ck.

Don´t say stuff via text. Text is only to get her in face to face date. Once you in person, you escalate.

Yeah I definitely agree with escalating in person. You think wait a day to reply or hours? Or even a couple days?

 

[Dr.Suave]

Yeah I definitely agree with escalating in person. You think wait a day to reply or hours? Or even a couple days?

I normally go with hours. Sometimes less than an hour. Mix it up. Be unpredictable

 

[TJenkins11]

I normally go with hours. Sometimes less than an hour. Mix it up. Be unpredictable

Right on bro. I do the same usually. Just wanted your approach.

Thanks

 

[GrowingPains]

Putt-putt. Ice skating. Roller skating. Walk in the park. Invite her to your house to make dinner. Play 1 on 1 basketball lol. Buy body paint and put it on each other.

Literally anything where there's opportunity to be physical. That's the point.