Fear is a real element. There could be some reasoning behind snagging a lower SMV woman or even single moms or old carousel riders.
The reasoning is that they are less likely to cheat or dump them after he invests.
I have a life long acquaintance that I knew in high school. Very high paying management position. His wife, not attractive in the least, died of breast cancer. So he hooks up with one of his dead wife’s friends and married her a year later. She was hideous. From my viewpoint. But in his mind, he needed reliability and security.
The danger of loosing a high SMV woman is very very real.
I was married to a high SMV woman who is still quite attractive. It’s work. It can make you a better man or destroy a man. Married to anyone else? She would have crushed him like a bug long ago.
I know of at least one man from her past that killed himself over her. Another who was such a white knight that he came after me to kill me because of some pretty serious made up stories about me. All were proven lies to the police.
But he was willing to kill from the word of a woman. He later had a nervous breakdown and nearly ended his life.
I’ve seen countless examples of this.
I’ve seen high SMV men cheat on their high end wives just to be with a saner, simpler, average woman. Where they don’t have to always be on their best game and best steadfastness.
If you are going to learn to handle a high SMV woman you better be a MAN.
You can never be off on your beingness. She will jump on the first weakness she sees and exploit it in an effort to gain leverage to facilitate her survival. Those of you looking for unicorns and a woman with an exceptional SMV have no idea what you are doing. You are running towards a deadly fire and think you’re going for your dreams.
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You will know inside when you can handle one. Trust me when I tell you, she not only knows the skill set of a so called BPD but she knows a whole lot more. She will do what it takes to effectively bring about her own survival.
This is how I know all the red flag stuff is garbage. ALL women can be toxic to less than optimum men. By optimum man, I mean, you would rather die in a gunfight than show certain types of weaknesses. But if you don’t know what they are? What are you going to do? Devine it with a witching stick?
I say...throw yourself into the fire like I did. See if it turns you into a better man or into a pvssy. Let’s see how much stomach you have.
Talking brave on a forum and living it are two different things. Stop talking and go to your battles. A battle can never be won unless you actually go fight it.