zekko
Master Don Juan
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Nope. Alpha is a position. An alpha is the #1 male, the dominant male, the top dog. Hypergamy being what it is, women want the top dog, they want the best guy. That's what an alpha male really is. That's the entire reason that PUAs are interested in alpha males in the first place.If you have the right mindset: to do what’s in your best interest all times and use logic to solve any problem. that makes you Alpha.
PUA gurus sell a mindset that mimics the general tendencies of alpha males - males who have an abundance of options. That allows guys who don't have the tools a chance to pretend they are top guys - and some girls will fall for it. Alpha males in real life have varied personalities, they don't all fit under one convenient stereotype. PUA gurus have just consolidated their tendencies into a general average, that they can sell.
A mindset is a great thing to have, it can take you far. But that alone does not make you an alpha. You can aspire to be an alpha. But unless you actually reach that position, that status, it's only unrealized potential. I could have the mindset to be a surgeon, but that doesn't make me a surgeon.