Should I avoid this woman or go with it and see what happens

[sangheilios]

What. The. F_ck. She has ZERO interest in you. Stop obsessing over her and move on. There is another woman interested out there. Go find her. You are seriously in a deluded obsessive loop.

I know you don't believe that. You believe she wants you very badly but is just shy. All you have to do is unlock her vagina with a magic phrase or eyebrow raise. OK, so here's the thing. GO TALK TO HER. Make it happen IRL.

That's right, posting here won't get you laid. You have to take action. You've been obsessing over this girl for a year. Do SOMETHING. Talk to her, and invite her out to a date. She will either show up or she won't. She won't. But at least you will have tried.

Did you even read the original post in it's entirety?

 

[stevieLA]

As I've become older I have picked up on a trend with people who would be considered or came from backgrounds that are uneducated, poorer and with less stable family environments/upbringings. That trend is that these types of people, both men and women, seem to constantly have their life be in a perpetual state of drama. A lot of this seems to stem from a lack of accountability and the inability to recognize potential consequences of their actions and behaviors. They also seem to be very focused on instant gratification and becoming bored very easily with anything that is stable, as it is perceived as boring. This type of mindset is pretty common and I would say normal for a teenager in high school but much beyond that I think that becomes a problem, as this is not the behavior or outlook of a rational and mature adult.

You are just jerking off in your mind with useless theories.

Like I said, stop typing up bullsh_t and go talk to her and invite her on a date. You'll get your answer as to whether she's interested.

 

[stevieLA]

Did you even read the original post in it's entirety?

Who gives a sh_t what you wrote or what I wrote. Go talk to her, invite her on a f_cking date and get laid.

 

[sangheilios]

Of course they do... all the time. This happens to me frequently. Sh!t it just happened to me today! This one chick I met a few weeks ago asked me out for National Margarita Day at a local Mexican hangout for tonight, then sent me a text message this morning that she can't make it. No problem, I'm going anyway and perhaps I'll meet another one. Two weeks ago, I had a chick that was dying to go out with me, so I asked her out... she actually did show up, but she wasn't really into it, and started talking about some dude she's thinking of moving back to Nashville for... this was at a local bar, so you know what I did, I asked another chick that was at the bar for her number and she gave it to me. I have dozens of stories just like this.

The reason this sh!t happens with chicks is that they are all about the 'moment'. In that one instance where she was asking you out and dying to see you she really was! But in the next moment she might have gotten a text from an old boyfriend and all of the sudden... the interest drops like a ton of bricks. I can't tell you how many chicks I have slept with that just broke up with boyfriends only to discover a week later she back with BF. I just ran into a woman today I was seeing just a couple of months ago, and she's pregnant. LOL!!! She's not sure who the father is. One that I was dating about 6 months ago, just quit a great job and a nice career, to run off to Australia for a 3 month sabbatical... She has no fvcking idea what she is going to do when she gets back... she's playing by ear and letting her emotions drag her to the other side of the planet.

Chicks are flaky as fvck.... the more you date... the more you realize that MOST of them are like this. Couple this with a society to cheers them on when they behave irrationally at it's any wonder there are any sane men in the world. Truth is the only men that are not losing their minds over this are ones that just accept the way things are don't put up with BS... move on when it's time to get off the ride.

Those women sound completely insane and definitely not who I'd want to get involved with. Seriously, based on what you just described these women are incapable of making any rational decisions like a normal adult and overall behave like brain dead teenage girls in high school. Makes absolutely no sense to me how someone could act like that as an adult.

Anyway, I realize that a lot of women today in their 20s, the dating age range I'm in, are extremely immature and locked in this perpetual state of adolescence.....though what the cause of this is I cannot honestly say. As I mentioned to another poster on here, I was never raised around people that behave liked this and because of this I have absolutely no idea how to interact with such individuals. Also, I'm a very logical, intelligent and direct individual, so again this behavior is completely alien to me and does not make any sense.

As a normal and mature adult, I would never in my life go out of my way to lead someone on and screw around with them emotionally purely for my own enjoyment, validation or what have you. However, based on all of the experiences I have had with women I can say that literally every single one of them were nuts like this, though I will say the particular woman that this thread is about is in a whole different league of her own compared to the others.

The men that I know who actually do well with women have a few things in common that I've picked up on. All of them would be considered "players" and actively sleep with other women whilst in relationships. They offer very little to these women but yet they all eat it up, it's almost pathetic. Meanwhile, these women will meet a man who is more stable and well meaning but yet become bored with him and not give him a chance, and these are guys that are just as attractive or even more so.

 

[sangheilios]

Welcome to the red pill

LOL I've been intuitively aware of the fact I was going to be a MGTOW for life when I was a teenager. Constant criticism, being rejected by women beneath me, etc. I have enough self respect to not stoop down to dating a woman that is fat, ugly, single mom status, etc.....and that is all that is out there unfortunately. The ones I do want are either not single or have a whole army of orbiters it's almost impossible to make anything come of it.

Seriously, I've said these over and over on here but since when is being 6'4", white, broad shouldered, fit, attractive, educated and overall being a good man = not good enough for a decent woman. Once in a while I'll check out OLD sites and browse through the profiles and say to myself "this is what I have to choose from?!?" "This is all that is available to me?!?".