Not all girls **** test...

[Reservoir Dog]

The ones that do are narcissists aka bpd.

By the same token, the only type of girls likely to respond to the player’s tactics is...the narcissist aka bpd.

 

[lamath]

Absurd

This
Maybe not the most obvious or intentional **** test.
They all do conciously or not,she asked you to hold her purse, go get her a drink, she comes late to a date etc.....
Its human nature to push boundries to see what we can get away with.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@LARaiders85 can you give us an idea of what she was doing? And how you passed them?

 

[Tilex]

False

You'll get sh!t tested either in the beginning of an interaction or at the end of a relationship.
The difference between the two is interest levels.

Low interest = Very High amounts of sh!t testing.
High interest = Very Low amounts of sh!t testing until your frame shatters.
If she sees you as person A but you gradually become person C, you'll get a wave of sh!t tests coming in your direction. These tests are more predictable and easier to pass, but your frame has to project person A again otherwise you're done.

All women sh!t test. Even old geriatric women.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@LARaiders85 I had a similar girl picking on my size I said "it's not small it's fun size"

 

[yuppaz]

The ones that do are narcissists aka bpd.

By the same token, the only type of girls likely to respond to the player’s tactics is...the narcissist aka bpd.

I don't believe that. A lot of the time if they test you they aren't sure about you amd want to see what you are made of. It's almost an IOI if they do

 

[flowtheory]

If you want to distinguish NPD/BPD sh1t testing btw, look @flowtheory thread about her criticizing his d1ck to try to undermine his sexual confidence, that is a classic NPD "test"(not really a test just outright disrespect to get power).

I don’t get why that would give her power? Maybe you could help me out with that. According to her, she said that because she hasn’t experienced a circumsiced penis before.

 

[Ranger]

If she isn’t always gauging and testing you on many levels, there’s something wrong with her. I mean REALLY wrong with her. Maybe she was once a dude. Something like that.

 

[jaymbrs]

If she isn’t always gauging and testing you on many levels, there’s something wrong with her. I mean REALLY wrong with her. Maybe she was once a dude. Something like that.

I was thinking about this the other day about how odd I find it when a woman isn't playing mind games or **** like that. To the point where I feel there's something wrong with her.

 

[LiveYourDream]

If she isn’t always gauging and testing you on many levels, there’s something wrong with her. I mean REALLY wrong with her. Maybe she was once a dude. Something like that.

Maybe there is nothing wrong, if, "...she isn't always gauging and testing you on many levels...."

Perhaps she is actually a feminine woman, with a MAN whom she clearly admires and respects and is treating him as such.

 

[Ranger]

Maybe there is nothing wrong, if, "...she isn't always gauging and testing you on many levels...."

Perhaps she is actually a feminine woman, with a MAN whom she clearly admires and respects and is treating him as such.

This would mean that he is impenetrable and never has a flawed moment.
I do agree with your concept though. The more masculine a man is the less will be thrown at him. I do agree with that.

No testing or evaluation or testing? She would be dead. “If it’s too good to be true...it is. Let me find where those weaknesses are.”

 

[LiveYourDream]

@Ranger I responded/clarified inside your quote below, in red.

This would mean that he is impenetrable and never has a flawed moment. Not at all.

Feminine women seeking masculine men are not expecting perfection. They are seeking masculine men they respect and admire.

I do agree with your concept though. The more masculine a man is (and the more he is respected and admired by a feminine woman) the less will be thrown at him. I do agree with that. That was my point. (Section in middle added again for emphasis.)


No testing or evaluation or testing? I did not suggest such a thing. I am not sure why you would. She would be dead. “If it’s too good to be true...it is. Let me find where those weaknesses are.”

 

[LiveYourDream]

Feminine women desire to be with a masculine man, whom they respect and admire.

 

[Ranger]

Feminine women desire to be with masculine men, whom they respect and admire.

Go with what you know. We have no disagreements.

 

[LiveYourDream]

Go with what you know. We have no disagreements.

I just updated what I wrote, to be even more clear, as you posted this.

Feminine women desire to be with a masculine man, whom they respect and admire.

 

[LiveYourDream]

@LARaiders85 I responded in Red

Women do not have one consistent desire. Agree
Women want a strong masculine man Agree
AND they want to exert control over the man. I see how this can be the experience/conclusion, when men look at it from their perspective. I want you to know that, as a woman, I perceive the dynamic VERY differently. As such, I suspect we also perceive the motivation behind sh!t tests very differently, as well. I suspect that misunderstanding leads to enormous frustration and disappointment, for both sexes.
Hence the sh1t test is inevitable Agree,
it's a structural trait.Agree
Some women of course are much more biased towards one factor than the other Agree

 

[jaymbrs]

Women do not have one consistent desire. Women want a strong masculine man AND they want to exert control over the man. Hence the sh1t test in one form or another is inevitable, it's a structural trait. Some women of course are much more biased towards one factor than the other.

What it comes down to is women like a challenge. A guy who rolls over too easily is not fun for a woman. However a masculine one poses a challenge for them to try and get them to change and submit to them.

 

[Ranger]

I just updated what I wrote, to be even more clear, as you posted this.

Indeed that’s what they want. A masculine man is very valuable indeed.

 

[flowtheory]

@LARaiders85 I responded in Red

What’s the motivation behind your sex’s sh!t tests then? And do you know you’re doing them? I never knew you were a woman this changes everything

 

[flowtheory]

If she isn’t always gauging and testing you on many levels, there’s something wrong with her. I mean REALLY wrong with her. Maybe she was once a dude. Something like that.

The tests never go away, is what you’re saying.
Like that David Deida chapter. ‘Stop waiting for your woman to get easier’