She slapped me cause I didnt kiss her

[Who Dares Win]

Nothing serious, no harms involved just a child like reaction from a grown woman.

Basically we had this group meeting for dinner and drinks, some were couples and some were single both guys and girls.

Keep in mind I'm in my mid 30s so social dynamics especially when it comes of dating are a totally different world than those of younger groups.

Basically we were in this disco pub and the singles of the groups moved to dance (which I hate btw), this girl in her late 20s was not necessarily ugly but surely not enough to turn on a man with an average libido and a low tolerance to bullsh1t...I find myself putting some effort only if the girl is hot enough and no drama right now.

Anyway at some point we go to have drinks, she tells me stuff I dont get due to the loud music and I point at my ear to sign I cant hear her, at this moment she gets very close to my face almost touching my lips, I just had the time to move my head back and within half a second I saw ANGER on her face and she slapped me.

Didnt really feel much actually cause I moved my head on the side to avoid her hand too but still her reaction really surprised me as if it was mandatory for me to reciprocate.

She complained about that to the other women ofc but thankfully they didnt bashed me for that, one of them a fat girl from one of the couples was laughting and telling me that I was an assh0le only to laught again, she was trying to support her friend but clearly found it funny.

I believe her anger didnt come from the fact of being rejected only but from the fact she believed I was withing her range being myself far from a chad, and my avoidance came unexpected.

 

[sosousage]

why you didnt punch her back? you want to become boxing bag?

 

[Crown]

Imagine If guys slapped girls for each rejection

 

[Who Dares Win]

why you didnt punch her back? you want to become boxing bag?

Usually I would reply cause of legal conseguences (esp given that I train MMA which judges wouldnt like even more) also she barely touched me since I managed to move my face away but...the truth is that I was kinda flattered that a woman was so mad cause of me rejecting her.

 

[Spaz]

I've been slapped a few times for rejecting women.

Get use to it.

You should be flattered.

 

[sosousage]

I've been slapped a few times for rejecting women.

Get use to it.

You should be flattered.

thats like saying women should be flattered by rape and used to it

 

[SoSuave666]

I've been slapped before and had a few drinks poured on me as well. Start rejecting these women and you guys will really see their true nature. They've dealt with so little rejection since birth their only response is to lash out. Especially the 6-8 range.

 

[sazc]

This is your #metoo story

She got butthurt, "poor baby". Jeez

 

[lamath]

I've been slapped before and had a few drinks poured on me as well. Start rejecting these women and you guys will really see their true nature. They've dealt with so little rejection since birth their only response is to lash out. Especially the 6-8 range.

She cant handle it when things dont go her way,childish reaction and poor impulse control.
Red flags all around, now she probably wants him more

 

[Von]

Pump and Dump.

Seriously, she did that now.

Imagine later or has the relationship grow.

Major disrespect from her and total red flags.

This woman is to be avoided

 

[Murk]

I always hit back (within reason). If they playfully become aggressive I'll always mirrior that and make sure they get a knuckle or elbow to a bony part - when they react, tell them they have no right to inflict pain on you without retribution. Sorry this is sounding like the ramblings of a psychopath, not the case.

My ex GF slapped me in Nice over a year ago, I backhanded her and cut her lip. She was so overjoyed to "tell everyone what you have done" I actually apologised to her for it a year later at NYE just gone when we have our first conversation, quickly established I'm now living with a girl (omitted lack of intimacy in that relationship) and CRUSHED her IRL leik OMG. No seriously her face dropped and in that moment I'd secured victory, she looked like **** too,, I'm lying she looked gorgeous but her friends were nerdy and beta as fvck which is part of the reason we broke up, she needed a placid, compliant beta while I'm more the star of the show kinda guy.

Sorry went for client drinks at lunch and I'm a bit half cut.

 

[sazc]

I always hit back (within reason). If they playfully become aggressive I'll always mirrior that and make sure they get a knuckle or elbow to a bony part - when they react, tell them they have no right to inflict pain on you without retribution. Sorry this is sounding like the ramblings of a psychopath, not the case.

My ex GF slapped me in Nice over a year ago, I backhanded her and cut her lip. She was so overjoyed to "tell everyone what you have done" I actually apologised to her for it a year later at NYE just gone when we have our first conversation, quickly established I'm now living with a girl (omitted lack of intimacy in that relationship) and CRUSHED her IRL leik OMG. No seriously her face dropped and in that moment I'd secured victory, she looked like **** too,, I'm lying she looked gorgeous but her friends were nerdy and beta as fvck which is part of the reason we broke up, she needed a placid, compliant beta while I'm more the star of the show kinda guy.

Sorry went for client drinks at lunch and I'm a bit half cut.

OMG wut?

Regardless, ur life!

 

[SoSuave666]

I always hit back (within reason). If they playfully become aggressive I'll always mirrior that and make sure they get a knuckle or elbow to a bony part - when they react, tell them they have no right to inflict pain on you without retribution. Sorry this is sounding like the ramblings of a psychopath, not the case.

My ex GF slapped me in Nice over a year ago, I backhanded her and cut her lip. She was so overjoyed to "tell everyone what you have done" I actually apologised to her for it a year later at NYE just gone when we have our first conversation, quickly established I'm now living with a girl (omitted lack of intimacy in that relationship) and CRUSHED her IRL leik OMG. No seriously her face dropped and in that moment I'd secured victory, she looked like **** too,, I'm lying she looked gorgeous but her friends were nerdy and beta as fvck which is part of the reason we broke up, she needed a placid, compliant beta while I'm more the star of the show kinda guy.

Sorry went for client drinks at lunch and I'm a bit half cut.

Inappropriate behavior. Unless you literally need to defend yourself from a much stronger aggressive woman or she is wielding a weapon you should never retaliate with a physical reaction. Ever.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Inappropriate behavior. Unless you literally need to defend yourself from a much stronger aggressive woman or she is wielding a weapon you should never retaliate with a physical reaction. Ever.

A 140lb lady under power can break your nose or cause a contusion to the face. People do not decide not to "react" if they are struck, it just happens. With that being said you are allowed to restrain a violent lady. Use the minimal force required and remove yourself from the situation.

 

[SoSuave666]

A 140lb lady under power can break your nose or cause a contusion to the face. People do not decide not to "react" if they are struck, it just happens. With that being said you are allowed to restrain a violent lady. Use the minimal force required and remove yourself from the situation.

Sure, restraining them is fine but you are playing a very dangerous game by ever putting your hands on a woman. It is not worth the risk IMO.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sure, restraining them is fine but you are playing a very dangerous game by ever putting your hands on a woman. It is not worth the risk IMO.

Thats why once she assaults you its over With her. Her action shows a lack of respect and its downhill from there. I recommend pressing charges as well. A woman can cause you trouble saying you "put your hands on her" during sex. With the pressing charges the world of womens learns there is consequence from striking you.

 

[HankHill]

Wow! unless she inflicts pain, like kicks you in the balls or something it's actually alpha behavior to just shrug and walk away...you show her IDGAF. Otherwise have security/bouncers throw her out. I've only been slapped once, that was in my early 20s and it was a LTR gf who got really jealous when I went out with friends and didn't come home until much later than the agreed upon time (this was before the cell phones were common so she assumed I was banging another chick).

 

[MillionBillionaire]

I was downstairs at a house party once and I was spinning some records. The person who threw the party came over and literally started punching me in the face because I wasn't paying attention to her. She was drunk, so I had to wrestle her to get her to stop punching me in the face.

Long story short we got married.

 

[Murk]

Ok some context is needed here. She hit me twice back in London, first time because she was pissed off in bed and I restrained her by gripping on her wrists, I held on a little longer than needed, resentment, anger, whatever, I did it and she flipped out. I let go and let her storm off down stairs. I proceed to sleep.

I’m woken up by her flinging a pillow at me, screaming how I should have gone running after her to see how she was. “I thought I should give you space and time to cool off” - she want having none of that, I’m the bad guy, she attacked and slapped me.

I told her she’d gone too far and I would leave on the morning, I curled up into a ball, foetal beta position facing the wall and she tried to big spoon me profusely apologising. I told her hitting and violence is not cool. Can’t remember how it resolved but it did.

A week later, at her house, I’m downstairs chilling with her ousemaye smoking in the garden, door flys open.

“Murk! Can you come upstairs right now please,” storms off.

Fvck what have I done? I trudge upstairs. Go into her room she’s sitting on the bed with my phone in her hand. Fml.

“Whose Chloe pf!?” To cut a long story short Chloe was some hoe on plenty of fish (hence the pf) is that bad text me something. She flew into another rage with fists going everywhere, I end up with a cut on my forehead, she kicks me out and I go to my aunts house who lives nearby. I deny the cut to my family like an abused woman protecting the bastard abusive man. She’s had a feel hitting me and like a bloodlust of sorts she has settled into a rhythm of violence against me due to bad behaviour.

Cut to a few weeks later, south of France, Nice, December 2017, warm as fvck with palm trees, sand and wine. We get into an arguement. I tell her my grandad never liked her and said she was trash (true). She scream: “your grandad can die in Miami” - BAM a slap straight across my face... ouch. My grandad is my only link to my then recently deceased mum. I storm off back to the 5* hotel I paid for.

She comes back a couple hours later wanting to carry on the fight, I block a couple hits, then decide to return fire with a (imho) weak backhand - boom - bust her lip, que the story above.

Never hit a girl before or since but I would defo do it again and I take a zero tolerance policy towards men which I’ve now transferred to all humans.

I’m a human being who has never attacked anyone for no reason so you harm me you are an op.

Say no more

 

[Bible_Belt]

Face slapping is actually a sex fetish, a s&m thing, although women are usually into receiving more than giving. I suspect women who slap others are also into having it done to them, given the right erotic circumstances. I am of course hesitant to appear to be encouraging that behavior, but mention it only to give a possible glimpse into her psyche.