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I’m the flake

Murk

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When I arrange dates I always get in over my head, I say yes to easily and always flake some girls.

I can’t remember being flaked on, I only seem to get girls pissed off at me for flaking.

Anyone else?
 

marmel75

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When I arrange dates I always get in over my head, I say yes to easily and always flake some girls.

I can’t remember being flaked on, I only seem to get girls pissed off at me for flaking.

Anyone else?
Nope...a man is only as good as his word.
 

backseatjuan

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No. I don't flake. I always show up on time too, to the minute, and they either show up late or sometimes flake. Flaking on a girl sounds kinda feminine, it wouldn't work for me.
 

Tilex

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Nah
I'm an advocate of giving people a taste of their own medicine.
I'd imagine there are women out there that follow your lead and mirror your actions, so it's best not to put disrespectful thoughts into their heads.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Dr.Suave

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If she´s not a sure lay and I have something better to do, yes, I´ll flake for sure.
 
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