TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Ok guys, I dont know if I should see this as low interest or am I tripping already for nothing?
Yes, I have only 2 options because I don't have time for approaching women anymore, I work too much.
Met this girl months ago, she was dating a friend but they went no contact. She ended up in my car once after a party with a friend and she wanted me to ride her home.
In the car she started to stick and invited me to join her birthday party with her friends. I declined because she just went no contact with my buddy.
In the months after she texted me a couple of times and wanted to meet up but I told her sorry can't Im busy so on so on.
Two weeks ago I met up with her eventually after a text convo and we went on a date. Drove around in my car, had fun talks, some deep sh*t and invited her to my crib.
Blablabla then in my bedroom, making out, fingering her, cuddling, even got her undressed and went down on her. She refused to have cex because ''she wanted to try it this way''. It would make everything more exciting.
So no cex, even though I got her all wet and h0rney. We made out, she was really in to me, cuddling, making out everything.
After that I drove her home and I kinda apologized for being so needy and straight forward for her p*ssy. Told her it's because your so hot and she went inside her home.
A week later at new years night i drunk tested her to come over. She Said sorry i sleep at my sisters house we meet up another day.
We kept texting a bit and I called her, we had a fun convo for 20mins. Everything all cool, and she was all excited to meet up. Thursday she met up with friends and I feel like that changed her point of view with me or im tripping not sure.
She didn't reach out anymore and two days ago I asked her to meet up. She said thursday im busy and saturday I have off, we can meet up then! I told her ''I'll let you know'' because I was busy...
Yesterday I texted her how she was and she read my message and took time to reach back out (usually she would answer within 2 minutes). So red flagg. (she mentioned in the car earlier how she always loses interest in guys and how she doesnt text back often anymore if she nexts a guy - first date she told me that).
Then I asked her this afternoon ''lets meet up tonight (saturday)'' ? She said ''Well I actually made plans... I didn't hear from you anymore for tonight''
I said ''Oh okay, I was busy..''
radio silence afterwards
What to do from this point?? Spin more plates is always the answer, but she's young, good as$ and I don't have much time to spin since Im so busy working..
My gut feeling says: ghost
Yes, I have only 2 options because I don't have time for approaching women anymore, I work too much.
Met this girl months ago, she was dating a friend but they went no contact. She ended up in my car once after a party with a friend and she wanted me to ride her home.
In the car she started to stick and invited me to join her birthday party with her friends. I declined because she just went no contact with my buddy.
In the months after she texted me a couple of times and wanted to meet up but I told her sorry can't Im busy so on so on.
Two weeks ago I met up with her eventually after a text convo and we went on a date. Drove around in my car, had fun talks, some deep sh*t and invited her to my crib.
Blablabla then in my bedroom, making out, fingering her, cuddling, even got her undressed and went down on her. She refused to have cex because ''she wanted to try it this way''. It would make everything more exciting.
So no cex, even though I got her all wet and h0rney. We made out, she was really in to me, cuddling, making out everything.
After that I drove her home and I kinda apologized for being so needy and straight forward for her p*ssy. Told her it's because your so hot and she went inside her home.
A week later at new years night i drunk tested her to come over. She Said sorry i sleep at my sisters house we meet up another day.
We kept texting a bit and I called her, we had a fun convo for 20mins. Everything all cool, and she was all excited to meet up. Thursday she met up with friends and I feel like that changed her point of view with me or im tripping not sure.
She didn't reach out anymore and two days ago I asked her to meet up. She said thursday im busy and saturday I have off, we can meet up then! I told her ''I'll let you know'' because I was busy...
Yesterday I texted her how she was and she read my message and took time to reach back out (usually she would answer within 2 minutes). So red flagg. (she mentioned in the car earlier how she always loses interest in guys and how she doesnt text back often anymore if she nexts a guy - first date she told me that).
Then I asked her this afternoon ''lets meet up tonight (saturday)'' ? She said ''Well I actually made plans... I didn't hear from you anymore for tonight''
I said ''Oh okay, I was busy..''
radio silence afterwards
What to do from this point?? Spin more plates is always the answer, but she's young, good as$ and I don't have much time to spin since Im so busy working..
My gut feeling says: ghost
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