Caught girlfriend cheating just now.

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@mrgoodstuff yeah I guess you could say I have too much self respect, she did try to think I was a fool because I'm not a insecure person and I never question her shady behavior. But she grew complacent and didn't cover her tracks very well. I have lost all attraction and respect for her after this. I may aswel bang someone who wants me dead lol
 

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@mrgoodstuff yeah I guess you could say I have too much self respect, she did try to think I was a fool because I'm not a insecure person and I never question her shady behavior. But she grew complacent and didn't cover her tracks very well. I have lost all attraction and respect for her after this. I may aswel bang someone who wants me dead lol
Dude thats serious. Thing about it is the disrespect can get so large it's basically the same difference
 

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@samspade I'm keeping her on facebook but it's gonna be dead and I'm not replying or reading her messages it will really screw with her head. She's back from her trip today apparently so I'm just waiting on her to tell me to come over. In which she will get no reply lol
I urge you not to do things to purposely screw with anyone’s head. There’s no point, and it actually has greater ramifications on your own self as that telling of your character. Just block her, let go, and move forward. Know what you want and get after it.
It’s okay to lick your wounds in a cave for awhile and re calibrate everything, just don’t fall in to petty behaviour. Respect yourself enough to not sink lower because of someone else’s poor sense of self.
 

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@mrgoodstuff I told her once if she cheated I'm closing the door, I've put up with that rubbish too much in my life, yeah we had something special I'll admit, stuff has just got very serious now. I do not forgive and I do not forget.
You understand the cost cause youve paid it b4. Cheating back wont help huh?
 

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@mrgoodstuff I do not need to cheat. I'm not insecure and I don't have low self esteem, if I'm not happy I'll end the relationship. I would never replace someone or cheat before the relationship is finished, I'm a man not a coward. Unfortunately for her it's.....
Good decision. I never knew you were exclusive and that she chose to be your woman.
 
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@mrgoodstuff we broke up and 10 days of no contact she came back and told me she missed me, and couldn't imagine life without me, so we made a deal that we would only see each other and no-one else, she agreed, then we got into a relationship again, before she went on her trip she asked me to help her set up the swimming pool when she gets back, I agreed. Then her friend added me. So I doubt she is going to break up with me. Just cheating perhaps? I'm not too sure. I'm just as confused as the people reading this. I just want answers.
 

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@mrgoodstuff we broke up and 10 days of no contact she came back and told me she missed me, and couldn't imagine life without me, so we made a deal that we would only see each other and no-one else, she agreed, then we got into a relationship again, before she went on her trip she asked me to help her set up the swimming pool when she gets back, I agreed. Then her friend added me. So I doubt she is going to break up with me. Just cheating perhaps? I'm not too sure. I'm just as confused as the people reading this. I just want answers.
Now you want answers?
What happened to going ghost mode and moving forward?
You may never get your answers. I’m almost sure of it with all the shady behaviour going on.
How old are you both?
 

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@flowtheory I'm 25, she's 28, don't you worry I'm still going ghost, I was hoping someone here could provide me answers to her behavior, why her friend added me, why she hasn't deleted me off facebook, why she blocked me on the other one, I'll never ask her for answer because I'll just get more lies.
 

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No poem. Disappear without a trace. The only reason you are compelled to do this is that of your ego. Silence is better than leaving any evidence.
 

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All women dont love sex. Many dont. They have sex to acquire what they want.
That's what they want men to believe. Most women do love sex, they are better actors and manipulators than men. Until we take the red pill.
Eddie Murphy explained it well on his "Delirious" stand-up comedy. He said "there's not one woman in here that wouldn't rather be somewhere else with a hot stiff one in them". This is what makes women so untrustworthy, they are excellent actresses.

But it is also very true that they use sex to get what they want.
 

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Hey guys, ok so I just caught my girlfriend cheating. Fake facebook account which she has me blocked. So I made a different account to confirm this. I'm collecting my things soon and I wrote her a poem for when I walk out the door, it says. Roses are red, my love is dead, now watch me close out door, you cheating w.h.o.r.e. And just lots of lol's written all over it. She went on a trip to see her best friend but I have endless amount of realistic evidence to prove she was being unfaithful. Any thoughts how I should proceed now when I give her the poem? Lol
Just no contact
 

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Ok so guys, I need answers yous are smart and know alot, she deactivated her facebook but is still on my friends list with messenger open, but she blocked me on the other one, her best friend added me on facebook, we haven't spoken in 4 days now, so can someone tell me wtf is going on???
 
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