I really wish I never tried online dating you guys

[lamath]

This is just an example not saying its you

but it shows that some women you might find attractive are not looking for the type of men you are.

it does not mean your bad looking.

example
Some tattooed and pierce women might be real good looking but i wont go for that style.


I have some friend that are not good looking or successful but still date very hot women from OLD
maybe its easier here in Canada idk.

 

[Spaz]

why would I spend time researching something I already know the answer to?


Online dating is like 5% about your profile, 5% about your messages and 90% about your pics. A very attractive male can say he is an axe murderer and still get lots of messages and matches

How do you know for certain the outcome when you never tried ?

Use the same principle to selling cars to customers, they're used to driving Ford Rangers and yet you know that the experience of test driving a Mercedes will yield different results.

So you'll insists on them testing the Mercedes even when they insist that they know all that's needed about driving - after all they're handled Ford Rangers before right ?

 

[Mesoherny]

What is more important? Getting the girls you constantly say you want or constantly making any and every excuse of why you won't?

Ask to use a 9+ 10 males pictures instead of your own. If you get replies? Then you've proven to yourself you are correct and its only the top 1% of men that get replies and dates.

If you get no replies or dates using a 9+ 10 males pictures? Then its you.

You get the most replies to threads and posts here. Time to try getting those replies as a 9+ 10 male using your ss friends pictures instead.

No excuses

 

[bigdave17]

What is more important? Getting the girls you constantly say you want or constantly making any and every excuse of why you won't?

Ask to use a 9+ 10 males pictures instead of your own. If you get replies? Then you've proven to yourself you are correct and its only the top 1% of men that get replies and dates.

If you get no replies or dates using a 9+ 10 males pictures? Then its you.

You get the most replies to threads and posts here. Time to try getting those replies as a 9+ 10 male using your ss friends pictures instead.

No excuses

dude it's a fukking waste of time. It's a well known fact that it's only about pictures

 

[bigdave17]

This is just an example not saying its you

but it shows that some women you might find attractive are not looking for the type of men you are.

it does not mean your bad looking.

example
Some tattooed and pierce women might be real good looking but i wont go for that style.


I have some friend that are not good looking or successful but still date very hot women from OLD
maybe its easier here in Canada idk.

I go for women who are similar to me


IE similar age, similar skin tone, similar facial features and bodytype, etc... Women who you would think would consider me to be their type

 

[fanatic22]

You mentioned the gym and salsa class, that only works if the girl approaches you first in the first place or you come across like a desperate creeper and always have an awkwardness about these situations. Most women are plugged into the internet and smartphones so they are never really mentally there. Maybe a decade ago you or when online dating was less mainstream that would work, but in 2019 that's outdated advice. Almost every woman you see out there probably has an online dating account or are meeting guys online and will have an inflated value of themselves.

Have you ever actually tried? I have, successfully.

 

[SoSuave666]

Dude stop posting your ****. If I were a mod still I would ban you for obvious trolling.

 

[bigdave17]

Have you ever actually tried? I have, successfully.

when you cold approach at a gym, for example, what's your success rate for getting a date?

can you get 1 date out of 4 or 5 girls?,

 

[fanatic22]

when you cold approach at a gym, for example, what's your success rate for getting a date?

can you get 1 date out of 4 or 5 girls?,

It’s kind of new for me since I never tried it before two weeks ago so I’m only 1/1. I also met two girls who go to my gym out at bars and got their numbers. The actual gym approach was pretty easy. She was at a cable machine and I went to the one next to hers and made small talk. For the record, I felt like it went badly and she seemed like she really didn’t want to talk to me, but she texts me all the time now. I wasn’t that into her after a date so I stopped hitting her up.

 

[Mesoherny]

Dave says dating apps are all about pictures of 1% men; says he knows a guy whos a 9+10 but has danced around using his friend 9+ 10 pictures instead of his pictures to test out his theory. Dave is more intetested in making excuses on so suave.


Dave would rather pretend he wants certain types of women only to have any and every excuse and justification why its impossible to have what he claims to want so bad.

 

[fanatic22]

Dave says dating apps are all about pictures of 1% men; says he knows a guy whos a 9+10 but has danced around using his friend 9+ 10 pictures instead of his pictures to test out his theory. Dave is more intetested in making excuses on so suave.


Dave would rather pretend he wants certain types of women only to have any and every excuse and justification why its impossible to have what he claims to want so bad.

There have already been people who have tested this. Just google chads using tinder. Dave is right, male models crush it on OLD. But that doesn’t mean he can’t improve his own success.

 

[Mesoherny]

Dave needs to test out his theory of using 9+ 10 males pictures for himself. He has said his friend is a 9+ 10, only says hi, and gets great responses from the best women available. Yet dave is more interested in not testing out his theory for himself but instead going in circles on this forum.

 

[corrector]

Have you ever actually tried? I have, successfully.

Yes, I go to a Gym regularly and have been going to different gyms since 2003. Have not meet anyone at the Gym. You have only tried once and you said you didn't feel the interaction went that well at the time.

 

[fanatic22]

Yes, I go to a Gym regularly and have been going to different gyms since 2003. Have not meet anyone at the Gym. You have only tried once and you said you didn't feel the interaction went that well at the time.

So you’ve approached how many people? And what I meant by saying it didn’t feel like it was going well is that she was just startled because she didn’t expect to have a conversation. Just be aware that you’re catching her off guard so she might seem really uncomfortable. She agreed to the date and we made out at the end of the date so obviously she liked me.

 

[bigdave17]

There have already been people who have tested this. Just google chads using tinder. Dave is right, male models crush it on OLD. But that doesn’t mean he can’t improve his own success.

Realistically speaking, if i got very lean, I could probably get in that 7.5 range in terms of my looks but I don't think that's enough

even 6/10 women on dating sites want a 9/10 male

 

[bigdave17]

You are doing it wrong.

I got best date on Tinder (woman I'm meeting right now) when I brutally preselected them in my bio (like "I won't date women that are X and are doing Y, you may freely go left I don't care") or smthng like that and bam! Best matches I could get suddenly start to appear.

I'm hadsome but not exceptionally. Preselection is a form of power - use it. Do you really want to date every hot woman there?

I was matched with good looking woman that was a feminist. I made fun of feminists in an intellectual way. She was repulsed and unmatched me.

I strongly advice you to stay for yourself ALWAYS with women. It's not about picking up a woman. It's about picking up a woman that suits you.

You need to play your fortes there and show your character ASAP moreover you need to pull them from Tinder into real world after day or two of convo.

Talking more over internet with a woman you have never seen is a waste of time really.

this is all nonsense. Women BARELY read your profile. It's 90% about quality of pictures

chads can put up that they are axe murderers and get lots of matches. What sucks for me is the only reason I'm not considered a chad is my ethnic features and me living in America. If I lived back home in Armenia, I would be a 9/10. I have never seen an Armenian man more handsome than me. I think I'm better looking than the Armenian men on Armenian TV shows that my parents watch.

 

[flowtheory]

Guru is admittedly a 9+/10

Guru sends a message of "hi" to women and he gets great responses from super hotties. Nothing creative or unique


Messages mean nothing, it's all about looking incredibly attractive (IE top 1% of men) in your pic. Guru is probably top 0.1% of men

Maybe you should ask Guru out..

 

[EyeBRollin]

they're not getting nothing with my pics


Guru is admittedly a solid 9+/10
Amante is also a tall, good looking white male


You have to be in top 1-2% of men to get even average women who are in shape online. I would say I'm realistically in top 10-20% of men but that means nothing online

I’m black and 5’7 (5’9 on profile). I have 7 first dates today, all from online. I’m only meeting the first two, gonna flake on the rest. It’s all pictures and mindset.

 

[sazc]

@bigdave17 you are 100% correct. Online dating is only for the top tier 1% of good looking men. It will never work for you. Take down your profiles and stop trying.

 

[bigdave17]

I’m black and 5’7 (5’9 on profile). I have 7 first dates today, all from online. I’m only meeting the first two, gonna flake on the rest. It’s all pictures and mindset.

you said you were around a 9/10 in facial aesthetics. Facial aesthetics is everything

height is very important too but can be overriden if you are around a 9/10