The current programming undermines any man. No matter his status, attractiveness or resourcefulness. And women are more miserable than ever.
They are unhappy. Truth spoken mrgoodstuff.
When the world is handed to you on a platter by husbands, boyfriends, society etc, what’s the game? Where’s the challenge in life? They don’t have to hide from dangerous animals anymore.
I’m a firm believer than human beings need a game. I knew a guy and his wife who were quite happy. They built a machine shop business together. Eventually got contracts to make parts for government equipment.
Then they sold it. But the guy didn’t start a new game and she bored and blasted out of there.
There has to be a game. Making babies is a game until they become teenagers. She’s going to loose it when mom isn’t as important as before. She’s going to need purpose again and if you don’t start a new game...you’re fukked.
It’s a man’s job to set the future. He creates the future. In many ways, this is the leadership she’s looking for. Where are you going to take it? Does she even have a future when she sees you?
YOU have to build it in her mind. She doesn’t know how. It’s not part of her biology. She can go be a doctor but there’s that missing element. Vision. Does anyone really think her vision is about being a cat lady or a dog lady?
She’s looking for a man to build a vision in her mind. If a man wants a wife he better make a game for her to see and help you go towards it.