Guys I'm leaving this forum indefinitely

bigdave17

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I'm very very very sorry that I've annoyed and bothered you all so much


@Amante Silvestre @guru1000 and everybody else, you guys are beyond awesome. You've tried and tried and tried so hard to help me out, with zero benefit to you, I really appreciate it.


I know - being on other side of my posts - is ungodly frustrating and I feel horrible. All I have in my head is frustration and negativity and I don't want to dump that on you all. My situation is not your fault.


Thank you and wish you all the best. I live in Chicago, if you guys ever need anything, please call me. I'll give anybody here my phone number if you want it
 

bigdave17

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@bigdave17 We all need help at one time or another. You shouldn't leave. Stick around so we can all learn from each other.
I'm driving people here crazy and I feel very bad about that

The people here are so amazing to keep trying to help me out. Mods here should have banned me months and months ago. I'm a toxic cancer on this forum and I contribute nothing of any quality. My constant bitching and negativity is absolutely worthless

I'm sorry guys, I hope you will forgive me
 

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@taiyuu_otoko


thank you for trying to help me out. You were very brutal in your bluntness but I appreciate that. It was only done to help me out also
 

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I'm driving people here crazy and I feel very bad about that

The people here are so amazing to keep trying to help me out. Mods here should have banned me months and months ago. I'm a toxic cancer on this forum and I contribute nothing of any quality. My constant bitching and negativity is absolutely worthless

I'm sorry guys, I hope you will forgive me
Nah, it's in your head. We're all good with you. Stick around. It will help you in your social life.
 

Chi Town

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Never kick a man when he's down dude.
We are waay past that with him, numerous people have tried to help him and pacify his "feelings" far too long.

enough is enough.

He's not down, he's just doing what dave does best. If your willing to put up with it, that's cool but speak for yourself.

Like I said, it's not all in his head.

This is why he continues to do this, nobody ever calls him on it.

Mods was going to ban him sooner or later anyway.
 

lamath

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Dave post less read more

you are missing lots of good info

I dont think you should leave but read tread about other situation/people
 

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If you want to leave then leave. If you want to stay then stay.

Either way it's your decision.

Decide decisively on which course of action you are going to take.

Be responsible, take ownership of your own actions and don't put this on people here.
 

flowtheory

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I would say what @lamath is correct. Just simply listen to what advice is given. Listen more, create less threads. A forum is a place of learning and growth. however, you’re going to be the end of every joke if you repetitiously keep asking the same thing in different ways and dilute yourself.

Know you’re outcome, stay out of your head, make moves towards completion of said outcome. And if it doesn’t work, recalibrate. Love the process. Don’t reject it.
 

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If you want to leave then leave. If you want to stay then stay.

Either way it's your decision.

Decide decisively on which course of action you are going to take.

Be responsible, take ownership of your own actions and don't put this on people here.

you guys have tried and tried and tried and tried to help me out, with no benefit for you and I feel very guilty to keep dumping my pile of garbage negativity and frustration on you all
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Don't leave, Dave. I enjoy making fun of you.

Think of it this way. Even though YOU will likely never get what you want in your dating life, plenty of guys who read these posts might be CLOSE.

You may be forever priced out of the market but plenty of dudes are on the margin, and are actually willing to put in an honest effort.

And reading how absolutely lame you are might motivate them to NOT be like you.

Seriously, think about it.

All it takes is ONE GUY to be inspired to put in the effort (so he doesn't end up like you), find a decent chick, have a kid, and THAT KID could cure cancer or something.

You owe it to humanity to soldier on through the pain and keep posting.

Guys I'm leaving this forum indefinitely
 

RickTheToad

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no

last thing I want to do is post on this forum. I wish I could put this nonsense behind me forever and start my life with a quality girl
See a therapist. As dozens of people here have stated, it's in your brain. Nothing wrong with seeing a therapist. It would do wonders for you.
 

Chi Town

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Don't leave, Dave. I enjoy making fun of you.

Think of it this way. Even though YOU will likely never get what you want in your dating life, plenty of guys who read these posts might be CLOSE.

You may be forever priced out of the market but plenty of dudes are on the margin, and are actually willing to put in an honest effort.

And reading how absolutely lame you are might motivate them to NOT be like you.

Seriously, think about it.

All it takes is ONE GUY to be inspired to put in the effort (so he doesn't end up like you), find a decent chick, have a kid, and THAT KID could cure cancer or something.

You owe it to humanity to soldier on through the pain and keep posting.

Guys I'm leaving this forum indefinitely
Hilarious......
 
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