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no she doesn't care about religion but I get the sense she's one of those "no sex until marriage" types. That's how a lot of these muslim broads are raised
Isn't that what you said you wanted though? Besides, that's not true. You have ZERO experience to be making ass-umptions.
 

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no she doesn't care about religion but I get the sense she's one of those "no sex until marriage" types. That's how a lot of these muslim broads are raised
Why don't you ask her that question instead of assuming?
 

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"messaged all the women"
So, with your criteria, what was that? About five women?

I dare you to swipe right on every woman and see what you get
probably messaged like 50 to 60 women total

any medium to darker cutie. Like I said, darker women are exactly my type as they have the face I'm very attracted to and body I'm very attracted to (thicker, more curvy)...
 

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Why don't you ask her that question instead of assuming?
Don't tell him that, he'll literally talk himself out of it. He just needs to take her out for a no-pressure, fun, flirty date and then come back here for his next steps.
 

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Couldn't be any worse than the rest of the crap you babble about!
 

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Isn't that what you said you wanted though? Besides, that's not true. You have ZERO experience to be making ass-umptions.

I want sex to happen naturally - say 3th or 4th date for example. I'm not interested in a no sex until marriage chick
 

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Don't tell him that, he'll literally talk himself out of it. He just needs to take her out for a no-pressure, fun, flirty date and then come back here for his next steps.
I don't see any harm, in an attempt to establish compatibility, in asking her how religious she is, does she pray n times daily, does she not blah blah, is she waiting till marriage.

It's all in the way you phrase the question.
 

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Don't tell him that, he'll literally talk himself out of it. He just needs to take her out for a no-pressure, fun, flirty date and then come back here for his next steps.
I won't ask any hard questions anymore. just keep things simple and straightforward and I'll be fine
 

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I want sex to happen naturally - say 3th or 4th date for example. I'm not interested in a no sex until marriage chick
Why don't you take her out a few times and find out if she's waiting for marriage? You're ASSuming yourself out of a woman

GAWD you make everything so difficult on yourself
 

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I don't see any harm, in an attempt to establish compatibility, in asking her how religious she is, does she pray n times daily, does she not blah blah, is she waiting till marriage.

It's all in the way you phrase the question.
she told me she's not religious at all, she told me her family is but they don't bother her about it anymore
 

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I want sex to happen naturally - say 3th or 4th date for example. I'm not interested in a no sex until marriage chick
Hahahaha...you can't even get a 1st date, why don't we worry about that for now?

I don't see any harm, in an attempt to establish compatibility, in asking her how religious she is, does she pray n times daily, does she not blah blah, is she waiting till marriage.

It's all in the way you phrase the question.
But remember who you're talking to here...
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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she told me she's not religious at all, she told me her family is but they don't bother her about it anymore
So she will bang, what's the problem?
 

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Why don't you take her out a few times and find out if she's waiting for marriage? You're ASSuming yourself out of a woman
I'm working on getting her out on a date

but I need more options, I can't win this so called dating game with 1 or 2 girls
 

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Giving odds that Dave will come through once again and totally screw the pooch with this women also. Any takers??
 

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even with her not being religious, I'm sure her family has pounded idea in her head of no sex until marriage
That's why you get her out on a date.
What's to work on? Ask "let's meet for coffee Monday night"
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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