Women KNOW they are crushing men

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,067
Reaction score
8,912
The transfer of wealth from men to women is continuing.. subtly, slowly, legally, and very effectively.
This is one of the things that irritates me the most. Apparently a lot of men think that if they can't do well with women, then they don't want to earn money. In their mind, they're sticking it to the women by moving into the basement and playing video games. But in reality, they're only hurting themselves by neglecting their own financial lives, and letting women take over the corporate world more and more. Because women have only increased their efforts at building careers. They will take the money for their own benefit, they don't need to have men in their lives to rationalize it.

If your a average guy and your trying to go after the top girls(which is what most guys on here say they want) then of course your going to get burned, that's like a average female trying to get with the hot popular guy at school then gets surprised when she gets pumped and dumped lol.
Totally agree with this. I've always said most of the problems guys come to the forum with are caused by trying to date outside of their league. An average guy can get a date or a ONS with a top girl. But they can't all keep top girls. It appears that the manosphere/PUA movement promises that everybody deserves 10s, which seems like as big or bigger a lie as any society tells you.
 

guru1000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2007
Messages
5,362
Reaction score
4,403
Totally agree with this. I've always said most of the problems guys come to the forum with are caused by trying to date outside of their league. An average guy can get a date or a ONS with a top girl. But they can't all keep top girls. It appears that the manosphere/PUA movement promises that everybody deserves 10s, which seems like as big or bigger a lie as any society tells you.
This is true: Not everyone can be a Guru. But everybody has a fighting chance, if they can push through their barriers and build top LMS.

The same thing that makes a man successful in business (hard work & perseverance) will make a man successful with top women. But it's a lot of work to become Top Dog, and instead of putting in the effort, it's easier to whine about the market and point outward. The only problem is while they point out, they neglect the IN.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,067
Reaction score
8,912
The same thing that makes a man successful in business (hard work & perseverance) will make a man successful with top women..
Some might work so hard at one, they don't have the time or energy for the other.
 

lamath

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2018
Messages
2,739
Reaction score
2,671
Age
43
Location
Canada
I don't why but I'm under the impression that this site is turning into a "hate women" type of thing, kinda like the incels lol.

I love women, I don't see how you can be mad at then, don't hate the playa hate the game.

I'm speaking in general not to anyone in particular but some guys just need to relax,
Like I said, most of the problems you see is with the average guys not the top guys.

If your a average guy and your trying to go after the top girls(which is what most guys on here say they want) then of course your going to get burned, that's like a average female trying to get with the hot popular guy at school then gets surprised when she gets pumped and dumped lol.

The more attractive you(not just looks) then the less you have to worry about

Lots of ppl here got burn hard by some LTR or women they married. The 1 st reaction is usaly resentment toward them.

I think that resentment is coming from a lack of understanding and a bad approach to women in general.

What i find funny it the post from some 35y+ guys that look like its coming from a 16y.
It look like they have never had any female attention before.

Hopefully some ppl herr can show them the way.

I
 

smokeforfun

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2018
Messages
31
Reaction score
11
Age
29
What about marrying a girl that may not be the most beautiful but has some great qualities and assets, and you like her but you don't love her
I think love is just a feeling created and maintained by media. It has never helped me in relationships even worse it made me jealous and stupid.
For some may sound cold but as somebody said earlier treat settling down like a business.. Because even the most intense love does not last forever.. But qualities and object last long enough
I'm just saying like I don't need her to give me money it is enough if she can sustain herself so I don't have to and I can spend money on my **** this way

It's a forum I had to leave my thoughts here. I feel I'm evolving so much reading the discussions around here. Thanks people
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,885
Reaction score
12,121
Location
DFW, TX
What about marrying a girl that may not be the most beautiful but has some great qualities and assets, and you like her but you don't love her
I think love is just a feeling created and maintained by media. It has never helped me in relationships even worse it made me jealous and stupid.
For some may sound cold but as somebody said earlier treat settling down like a business.. Because even the most intense love does not last forever.. But qualities and object last long enough
I'm just saying like I don't need her to give me money it is enough if she can sustain herself so I don't have to and I can spend money on my **** this way

It's a forum I had to leave my thoughts here. I feel I'm evolving so much reading the discussions around here. Thanks people
All i care about is teamwork, respect and attraction. Youll learn to love it. "In love" is infatuation.
 

PeasantPlayer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2013
Messages
3,112
Reaction score
956
Women are not even in my top 5 things I'm focusing on now. Sex is not even a big deal to me get rid of the need for sex and it will open doors that are right in front of your face
 

flowtheory

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2018
Messages
1,687
Reaction score
1,416
Age
36
Location
So Cal
For me, it’s about sex right now. But when I can’t get sex, or it becomes difficult, I can go in to a frustrated way of being and it’s not good. Takes up a lot of mental energy. Sexually frustrated.
How does one not let not getting laid not affect them? Masterbation is an option, but it’s more about having an actual connection or body next to me.
 

redskinsfan92

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2018
Messages
1,856
Reaction score
1,478
Age
32
This is one of the things that irritates me the most. Apparently a lot of men think that if they can't do well with women, then they don't want to earn money. In their mind, they're sticking it to the women by moving into the basement and playing video games. But in reality, they're only hurting themselves by neglecting their own financial lives, and letting women take over the corporate world more and more. Because women have only increased their efforts at building careers. They will take the money for their own benefit, they don't need to have men in their lives to rationalize it.


Totally agree with this. I've always said most of the problems guys come to the forum with are caused by trying to date outside of their league. An average guy can get a date or a ONS with a top girl. But they can't all keep top girls. It appears that the manosphere/PUA movement promises that everybody deserves 10s, which seems like as big or bigger a lie as any society tells you.
One must not get worked about such things. The current state of affairs is out of my control, so I have decided several weeks ago to stop getting angry over it. Instead I am focusing on improving myself. I can control myself and my life. I think the important thing is patience. Nothing happens overnight. Success comes slowly over time with hard work.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,885
Reaction score
12,121
Location
DFW, TX
For me, it’s about sex right now. But when I can’t get sex, or it becomes difficult, I can go in to a frustrated way of being and it’s not good. Takes up a lot of mental energy. Sexually frustrated.
How does one not let not getting laid not affect them? Masterbation is an option, but it’s more about having an actual connection or body next to me.
Its not even that. The act of penetrating a live naked body sets that up for your expectation. Its good for your mind and your self image to know you can have that.

Curing selflessness fix many guys issues.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,885
Reaction score
12,121
Location
DFW, TX
One must not get worked about such things. The current state of affairs is out of my control, so I have decided several weeks ago to stop getting angry over it. Instead I am focusing on improving myself. I can control myself and my life. I think the important thing is patience. Nothing happens overnight. Success comes slowly over time with hard work.
Yea but anyone can get someone for sex. A fruitful sex life attracts abundance.
 

Von

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 23, 2016
Messages
2,220
Reaction score
1,234
Age
35
I dont think men should be bitter towards women even if the double standard we face each day is getting more and more ridiculous.

We need to learn to play by our own set of rules, standard and comonsense.
But to do so we need to be a hell of alot less needy and desperate towards them. We need to ngaf anymore if we can hook up with one or not.

Women now use gender role only when it fit them.
Example Ex GF ask be to take the trash out because its the man Job. However if i tell her to do the dishes or cook a good meal because its the women job ill get a **** storm


Need to set the boundries and lead them into the kind of relationship we want.

I dont beleive in marriage, but think that its possible ro make a ltr work.

Best way to teach our children is by example and to help them build a great self esteem
Agreed with your post.

Women just want to please guys they care about.

Women seeks to be lead by an authority.

This authority became the gouvernement who tells women to be "provider and be spécial etc"

Women can do more stuff they guy in average (they multitasking and have the sense of urgency etc).

Women are more territorial than guys.. They need to own the place they given.. Now this place is "the world". Their brain is always active.

So they can't differentiate " home " from "work", they will treat it the same to some extend.

Also, they will feel entitled to their territory.

that's why women are hard negociators and they never back down from her " essentiels".

Since, now, they have to "own it all", they give little place for men and they can do it because they control their biology due to science.

We have to deal with that. Men are from Mars and Women from Venus.. Romans of Antiquity had our issues ;)

It's up to the man to pick himself and become an authority in something to attract a chick or simply live his life happy
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,885
Reaction score
12,121
Location
DFW, TX
Agreed with your post.

Women just want to please guys they care about.

Women seeks to be lead by an authority.

This authority became the gouvernement who tells women to be "provider and be spécial etc"

Women can do more stuff they guy in average (they multitasking and have the sense of urgency etc).

Women are more territorial than guys.. They need to own the place they given.. Now this place is "the world". Their brain is always active.

So they can't differentiate " home " from "work", they will treat it the same to some extend.

Also, they will feel entitled to their territory.

that's why women are hard negociators and they never back down from her " essentiels".

Since, now, they have to "own it all", they give little place for men and they can do it because they control their biology due to science.

We have to deal with that. Men are from Mars and Women from Venus.. Romans of Antiquity had our issues ;)

It's up to the man to pick himself and become an authority in something to attract a chick or simply live his life happy
Take care of his business and be an authority to thes fact he will only deal with women who are giving it up.

What we allow will continue
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: Von
Top