How do you guys get women to chase you ?

[bigdave17]

Lol I wrote that post over a year and a half ago (February 4, 2017) and it still rings true in my life today. I have improved every aspect of my life since then and the quality and quantity of women I attract has never been higher than it is today. The funny part is I am so preoccupied with attaining my degree and achieving my goal after goal that I have little interest in going out of my way to fvck women let alone date them. And because of my mindset, I don't have to.

I've seen your pictures Dave, you and I are probably pretty close in terms of physical looks.

The difference between you and I, however, is that attracting women is a by-product of my self-improvement and mindset, whereas for you the goal of attracting women is the cause and purpose of your self-improvement which influences your mindset around women... you are outcome dependent and come off as needy and beta. Any half-decent women can pick up on that.

BigDave: 2,349 posts / approx. 390 days on SS = 6.02 posts per day
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Log off SS for once. Take a break from whining on the computer. Apply some advice given to you. Set goals that don't involve women (or are set with secret intentions of attracting women) and work towards them. Get outside. I can't promise by doing so you'll meet the Armenian women of your dreams, but I promise you'll get some fresh air at least.

I don't know if my goals are only to get women

i love money/comfortable lifestyle
I love dressing nice
I love being in shape
I love traveling
etc...

regardless of women or no women

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don't know if my goals are only to get women

i love money/comfortable lifestyle
I love dressing nice
I love being in shape
I love traveling
etc...

regardless of women or no women

I love those and i love passionate SEX

 

[logicallefty]

Be confident and genuinely stop caring about hooking up with women. You can't just pretend not to care, you have to reach the point where you really don't care. Once you do, your opportunities will increase, they will chase you a lot more.

 

[smokeforfun]

Thanks for all the opinions guys
It all links up now with what I have been reading lately
I'm starting to lose my fear of rejection. I work up and diet and on my way to a great body shape.
But in the meantime I was wondering if I can get laid without using tricks and tryharding. I know that if I do 100 approaches at least 1 will lay but I think women are kinda superestimated these days, this is not right.
I'm not ugly nor fat, not stupid, not poor etc etc I'm normal at least I could say above the average but don't wanna sound narcissistic

But really if I don't approach and try to get a women into me, I almost never get a women to look at me or try to seduce me. Which is funny because sometimes I go out with my friend which are just getting drunk af and almost get asleep on the couch in the bar
And girls still are into them. Sometimes I feel like universe is punishing me or maybe is just my mindset.

Nevertheless I was close to quitting but after reading a lot on this forum I know have a plan :
Improve shape. Improve game. Embrace failing. Don't expect things to happen. Have fun.
I will also do a 30 day challenge of no contact with any woman at all, just to get my hunger of approaching going on.

Hope to come back with lay reports soon!
Thanks people

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Thanks for all the opinions guys
It all links up now with what I have been reading lately
I'm starting to lose my fear of rejection. I work up and diet and on my way to a great body shape.
But in the meantime I was wondering if I can get laid without using tricks and tryharding. I know that if I do 100 approaches at least 1 will lay but I think women are kinda superestimated these days, this is not right.
I'm not ugly nor fat, not stupid, not poor etc etc I'm normal at least I could say above the average but don't wanna sound narcissistic

But really if I don't approach and try to get a women into me, I almost never get a women to look at me or try to seduce me. Which is funny because sometimes I go out with my friend which are just getting drunk af and almost get asleep on the couch in the bar
And girls still are into them. Sometimes I feel like universe is punishing me or maybe is just my mindset.

Nevertheless I was close to quitting but after reading a lot on this forum I know have a plan :
Improve shape. Improve game. Embrace failing. Don't expect things to happen. Have fun.
I will also do a 30 day challenge of no contact with any woman at all, just to get my hunger of approaching going on.

Hope to come back with lay reports soon!
Thanks people

Just start talking to females. If you havent been laid in a month or more get your dyck wet in puzzy. Do bot watch porn. Once your sexual side is fed women who like your type will be attracted. Dont ever chase "hot" chicks. They go after what they want. They will love to use you as an azz wipe if you chase.

 

[flowtheory]

Thanks for all the opinions guys
It all links up now with what I have been reading lately
I'm starting to lose my fear of rejection. I work up and diet and on my way to a great body shape.
But in the meantime I was wondering if I can get laid without using tricks and tryharding. I know that if I do 100 approaches at least 1 will lay but I think women are kinda superestimated these days, this is not right.
I'm not ugly nor fat, not stupid, not poor etc etc I'm normal at least I could say above the average but don't wanna sound narcissistic
Thanks people

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Superestimated? This another term for overvalued?

 

[zekko]

Be confident and genuinely stop caring about hooking up with women. You can't just pretend not to care, you have to reach the point where you really don't care. Once you do, your opportunities will increase, they will chase you a lot more.

That might work against some people though. Some people need to care (at least on some level) to be motivated into action. As with most things, the danger lies in the extremes.

 

[smokeforfun]

Just start talking to females. If you havent been laid in a month or more get your dyck wet in puzzy. Do bot watch porn. Once your sexual side is fed women who like your type will be attracted. Dont ever chase "hot" chicks. They go after what they want. They will love to use you as an azz wipe if you chase.

Yea I feel what u sayin I alreayd quit porn and it gave me so much creativity to initiate and talk with girls

 

[smokeforfun]

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Superestimated? This another term for overvalued?

Yes definately