Been seeing a girl for a few months but no actual sex

[Ranger]

Ok. Let me take it from another angle.

If you are looking for a girlfriend, you’ve already lost and are a lesser man. The mere fact that you would commit to her proves this out biologically.
That doesn’t mean not get into a relationship with a woman that suits you. It just means that if you go into it with the intent and purpose of a girlfriend...you are a needy sap and still plugged into the feminine imperative.

Things happen as a progression. A fit. What woman doesn’t like sucking a really nice dik? I’m not a woman but it’s obvious that some get more from it than regular sex. But to get all butt hurt because she won’t have intercourse with you is pretty narrow thinking. Very needy and simply a sap ready to whimper when she goes and sucks another dik.

There’s NO WAY a woman will be happy sticking with you in that condition and thought process. You are unreliable, untrustworthy, and can’t be depended on.

If you can’t even see even a little bit of truth in this...well I guess the hell you make is your own creation.

 

[Focal core]

Ok. Let me take it from another angle.

If you are looking for a girlfriend, you’ve already lost and are a lesser man. The mere fact that you would commit to her proves this out biologically.
That doesn’t mean not get into a relationship with a woman that suits you. It just means that if you go into it with the intent and purpose of a girlfriend...you are a needy sap and still plugged into the feminine imperative.

Things happen as a progression. A fit. What woman doesn’t like sucking a really nice dik? I’m not a woman but it’s obvious that some get more from it than regular sex. But to get all butt hurt because she won’t have intercourse with you is pretty narrow thinking. Very needy and simply a sap ready to whimper when she goes and sucks another dik.

There’s NO WAY a woman will be happy sticking with you in that condition and thought process. You are unreliable, untrustworthy, and can’t be depended on.

If you can’t even see even a little bit of truth in this...well I guess the hell you make is your own creation.

Have you ever been in a reciprocal relationship when the women that really into you? If youre saying when you trying to get a gf than youre already a lesser man? Then theres must something wrong with quality women that wants to pursue a man of her dreams? She will become a lesser women that shes not?

And what i think is if her dream man refuse to have sex with her she must be narrow minded on fullfilling her own needs! And narcissistic even and deserve to be a lowlife women under his feet..

This is what i hear from you. I just translate it for my better understandings.

 

[Focal core]

Just imagine youre a girl with nice tities.. And 3 man will come by just for the sake of sucking your tits and jerks off makes you feels good leaving you with sore tities and left to bar to find a quality chicks, and oh well you said theres nothing wrong with gaving then tities as long as i feels good too.. What a wasted and that girl is and im as a man would be disgust by that girl to ever trying to have an healthy relationship with. Come on man youre better than that.

 

[Spaz]

I can’t even see or think that way anymore. What buttons? Letting her enjoy herself IS pleasure.

It’s narcissistic to try to possess a woman or needing something from her. Trying to shape one into a wifey is narcissistic. That would be about you.

Needing a girlfriend is narcissistic. Self serving. This is why women run from men who need that, or worse, trash them for trying to shape her into a lovey dovey girlfriend that isn’t her as she knows that idealism is his acheles heel and what makes him easy pickings.

Ain't this the truth and nothing but the truth.

Too bad some can't handle the truth.

 

[Ranger]

Have you ever been in a reciprocal relationship when the women that really into you? If youre saying when you trying to get a gf than youre already a lesser man? Then theres must something wrong with quality women that wants to pursue a man of her dreams? She will become a lesser women that shes not?

And what i think is if her dream man refuse to have sex with her she must be narrow minded on fullfilling her own needs! And narcissistic even and deserve to be a lowlife women under his feet..

This is what i hear from you. I just translate it for my better understandings.

You translated it incorrectly. It was exact the way I presented it. It just didn’t fit in your reality. Of course I’ve been in a reciprocal relationship. Naturally I messed things up because I was plugged into the feminine imperative. Or was just a dik about it. I have my flaws and weaknesses. I can be brash and relentless in my pursuits. Obsessive in physical conditioning, writing and bowhunting.

Yes, committing in itself, is a lesser man if you understand the biology of the situation. There’s something about the dynamics of this that you are not getting.

Women were designed to obtain security and safety by whatever means she feels she needs to use. So committing to a leader is a natural act. You were obviously not her first choice. Don’t feel bad, I’ve been right there with you.

As long as men blame women for the demise of men...there is no escape. They are not evil or bad.
True, some do evil things. BUT they know who they can do it to and who they can’t.

If a woman doesn’t want to fuk you and instead loves to come to you to suck dik, don’t be a wanker and persecute her or jump on me. You don’t jump on the messenger just because he trashed your glass house.

 

[Ranger]

Ain't this the truth and nothing but the truth.

Too bad some can't handle the truth.

They don’t even know that their neediness is a sound definition of narcissism.

 

[Focal core]

Its narcissism with this internet connection that i NEED. Have to cut them off.. Need to sleep though nite all.

 

[Focal core]

Opps sleep is narcissist act.. Its a Need?! Damn im in deep **** now

 

[Spaz]

They don’t even know that their neediness is a sound definition of narcissism.

True.

Some can be helped, more so for those that's open to changes or keen to adopt a new shift in mindset to influence how they do things.

The target group will be those men who exhibits bravery.

 

[Ryan Adams]

Ryan.... Some females like power and control more than sex. Makes their lady boner bigger than yours.

Since ive had my new gf ive heard a little word about her.. apperantly she has done this same thing to multiple people. Will hang out hold hands even do all of the typical bf/ gf things but wont ever have sex even after months of even LIVING with a guy. The latest guy she lived with for 6 months. And she ghosted him as she did me. And he said she wouldnt have sex no matter what. When things turned up and he was trying to move forward with her she up and bounced.... i think she has an std or is a emotionally damaged...(comes from a ****ed up family) she comes off as super sweet and to herself.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Since ive had my new gf ive heard a little word about her.. apperantly she has done this same thing to multiple people. Will hang out hold hands but wont ever have wex even after months of even LIVING with a guy. The latest guy she lived with for 6 months. And she ghosted him as she did me. And he said she wouldnt have sex no matter what. When things turned up and he was trying to move forward with her she up and bounced.... i think she has an std

Stop trying to figure them out. The primal man way wouldn't worry about a female whose not committing her puzzy to him. Not a thought.

 

[lamath]

Stop trying to figure them out. The primal man way wouldn't worry qbout a female whose not committing her puzzy to him. Not a thought.

A man will go crazy trying to figuring out their crazyness

Way easier to let her deal with it by hersefl.

Next

 

[Ryan Adams]

Stop trying to figure them out. The primal man way wouldn't worry about a female whose not committing her puzzy to him. Not a thought.

Your so very right. Im over her obviously. Still the abrubt act of ger ghosting still leaves me wondering and so confused to this day about what in the f is wrong with her. But in the end it doesnt matter i found a woman who is 10x the woman the ghoster is

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Your so very right. Im over her obviously. Still the abrubt act of ger ghosting still leaves me wondering and so confused to this day about what in the f is wrong with her. But in the end it doesnt matter i found a woman who is 10x the woman the ghoster is

We can care but the only way they learn is by bumping their heads. It diesnt "help" them to help them. Let the suffer for their choices.

 

[Herb]

But... but... she makes me home made food and breakfasts!



I've... already lost? You guys are saying there's no chance to move forward now? Damn.

What if she has her own reasons for what she's doing that we can't really figure out? Maybe she's doing this cause she's confused and unsure so she keeps it in this limbo state, kind of ambiguous.

Or maybe I'm just pathetic and making up reasons and justifications in my mind to desperately cling onto some kind of hope in this situation

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No but seriously all jokes aside I don't exactly have one-itis. I'm not as into her as I've been into some other girls in the past, but I thought eventually getting to a point with her when things would be stable and we'd be having sex like a normal couple, and then eventually see where things go, is something I could do. If not, it's not that big of a deal, and I will move on. I am already starting to see a lot of mismatches in our personalities and interests anyway, so I don't think it will be that hard on either of us... at least I hope not.

 

[devilkingx2]

Since ive had my new gf ive heard a little word about her.. apperantly she has done this same thing to multiple people. Will hang out hold hands even do all of the typical bf/ gf things but wont ever have sex even after months of even LIVING with a guy. The latest guy she lived with for 6 months. And she ghosted him as she did me. And he said she wouldnt have sex no matter what. When things turned up and he was trying to move forward with her she up and bounced.... i think she has an std or is a emotionally damaged...(comes from a ****ed up family) she comes off as super sweet and to herself.

Assuming she doesn't have HIV or a D!ck I'd assume she's a pro con artist, asexual & selfish or she thinks her pvssy is God's gift to mankind and you must wander the desert for 40 days and 40 nights to gain the privilege of that Oasis

 

[mrgoodstuff]

But... but... she makes me home made food and breakfasts!



I've... already lost? You guys are saying there's no chance to move forward now? Damn.

What if she has her own reasons for what she's doing that we can't really figure out? Maybe she's doing this cause she's confused and unsure so she keeps it in this limbo state, kind of ambiguous.

Or maybe I'm just pathetic and making up reasons and justifications in my mind to desperately cling onto some kind of hope in this situation

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No but seriously all jokes aside I don't exactly have one-itis. I'm not as into her as I've been into some other girls in the past, but I thought eventually getting to a point with her when things would be stable and we'd be having sex like a normal couple, and then eventually see where things go, is something I could do. If not, it's not that big of a deal, and I will move on. I am already starting to see a lot of mismatches in our personalities and interests anyway, so I don't think it will be that hard on either of us... at least I hope not.

If your getting cooked for, acts of kindness and your sex acts keep that going.

 

[devilkingx2]

But... but... she makes me home made food and breakfasts!



I've... already lost? You guys are saying there's no chance to move forward now? Damn.

What if she has her own reasons for what she's doing that we can't really figure out? Maybe she's doing this cause she's confused and unsure so she keeps it in this limbo state, kind of ambiguous.

Or maybe I'm just pathetic and making up reasons and justifications in my mind to desperately cling onto some kind of hope in this situation

---

No but seriously all jokes aside I don't exactly have one-itis. I'm not as into her as I've been into some other girls in the past, but I thought eventually getting to a point with her when things would be stable and we'd be having sex like a normal couple, and then eventually see where things go, is something I could do. If not, it's not that big of a deal, and I will move on. I am already starting to see a lot of mismatches in our personalities and interests anyway, so I don't think it will be that hard on either of us... at least I hope not.

You're over thinking this stuff imo, honestly who cares?

You get BJs and don't have to do any major investment or commitment, I wouldn't really care that much and you shouldn't either. Find a side girl if you need to.

Now if this girl expects to be your wife with 2 kids and live with you or wants an unlimited budget on her shopping trips, that's a whole nother thing

 

[Ryan Adams]

Assuming she doesn't have HIV or a D!ck I'd assume she's a pro con artist, asexual & selfish or she thinks her pvssy is God's gift to mankind and you must wander the desert for 40 days and 40 nights to gain the privilege of that Oasis

Im thinking shes she is exactly that. Pro con artist sociopath. She does this to dudes then abrubtly leaves then apparently frequents different bars/places where she didst **** over everyone in sight. To set her sights on new men